Dollish:
you told them the bitter truth but selfishness n wickedness will not allow them see the truth. If they are not ready to take responsibility they should remain single.

Abi

BigBashiru:
The problem with religious ppl is they do not question their beliefs rationally. "Two becomes one" only exists in the holy books and not in the minds of most women....

Um... Two becomes one exists even in the business world where contracted partners in business operate as if one unit. Marriage is such a contract agreement between two parties.

It's not OK to be blinded by your hate of others.

Kobojunkie:
Um... Two becomes one exists even in the business world where contracted partners in business operate as if one unit. Marriage is such a contract agreement between two parties.

It's not OK to be blinded by your hate of others.

@ur last sentence - that's just sentiments....stick to the facts...

In business two don't become one as business and politics is ruled by permanent interests.

You correctly assert that marriage is a contract agreement.

You seem to have been blinded by holy books and are therefore beyond redemption...

People should do whatever they want.

If you want an equal relationship, there are plenty of matches for you.

If you want to be a provider, there are plenty of matches for you.

If you want to be provided for? there are still gonna be matches out there for you.

Find the type of person you want to be with and live the life you want

BigBashiru:

@ur last sentence - that's just sentiments....stick to the facts...

In business two don't become one as business and politics is ruled by permanent interests.

You correctly assert that marriage is a contract agreement.

You seem to have been blinded by holy books and are therefore beyond redemption...

Again, Um... Two becomes one exists even in the business world where contracted partners in business operate as if one unit. Marriage is such a contract agreement between two parties.

It's not OK to be blinded by your hate of others.

Kobojunkie:
Again, Um... Two becomes one exists even in the business world where contracted partners in business operate as if one unit. Marriage is such a contract agreement between two parties.

It's not OK to be blinded by your hate of others.

I hate no one.... na you hate us!

wunmi590:


Abi

If the woman is not ready to take on responsibility too then she should remain single.

There needs to be motivation for taking up responsibility. What exactly am I getting in return for taking care of a grown woman who should be taking care of herself? And wants to milk me dry and use me as a slave under some nonsense marriage.

Dollish:
you told them the bitter truth but selfishness n wickedness will not allow them see the truth. If they are not ready to take responsibility they should remain single.

If the woman is not ready to take on responsibility too then she should remain single.

There needs to be motivation for a man to "taking up responsibility". What exactly am I getting in return for taking care of a grown woman who should be taking care of herself? Did she not go to school and get a degree? And wants to milk me dry and use me as a slave under some nonsense marriage.

What's in it for me?

If na children, isn't thr child hers too? So she should bring moni

BigBashiru:


If the woman is not ready to take on responsibility too then she should remain single.

There needs to be motivation for a man to "taking up responsibility". What exactly am I getting in return for taking care of a grown woman who should be taking care of herself? Did she not go to school and get a degree? And wants to milk me dry and use me as a slave under some nonsense marriage.

What's in it for me?

If na children, isn't thr child hers too? So she should bring moni

you have been noticed u can now crawl back to your hole...look at how pained u sounded Oga loosen up High BP is real

Dollish:
you have been noticed u can now crawl back to your hole...look at how pained u sounded Oga loosen up High BP is real

I don't care about being noticed and I'm not a rabbit that I'd crawl back to a hole. I'm not pained at all. I just like stating facts and logical reasoning. Kobojunkie take note.

BigBashiru:
I hate no one.... na you hate us!

abeg go whine somewhere else.

Kobojunkie:
abeg go whine somewhere else.

You are the whiner. Go elsewhere!

wunmi590:


As it stands the man is the head of the family, and when he says NO, the NO must stand...

I'm a male

you missed his point

remember he asking "if a man says Yes" eg want sex does the woman have the right to say No

I might be wrong but i think he trying to say if you are providing everything for her she has no right to deny what he want ? since he is taking care of her ?

but if she is also contributing financially she has the right to say no eg she works and she came back from work he wants sex and she say no becoz she is already tired

some men dont see doing house chores as tiring compared to going to work and work, so if a men wants sex from stay home house wife, he expects a yes because he see house chores as nothing that can stop a women from
giving sex to man who provides everything for her

there is a thin line between being taken care of and loved and being taken care of and taken for granted .

ZIMDRILL:



you missed his point

remember he asking "if a man says Yes" eg want sex does the woman have the right to say No

I might be wrong but i think he trying to say if you are providing everything for her she has no right to deny what he want ? since he is taking care of her ?

but if she is also contributing financially she has the right to say no eg she works and she came back from work he wants sex and she say no becoz she is already tired

some men dont see doing house chores as tiring compared to going to work and work, so if a men wants sex from stay home house wife, he expects a yes because he see house chores as nothing that can stop a women from
giving sex to man who provides everything for her

there is a thin line between being taken care of and loved and being taken care of and taken for granted .

A wife is not the only person that can give the over estimated sex na

wunmi590:


I'm a married man, I don't chase clout.

So are you wiser than the white men who split bills with their wife/GFs