Munzy14:

You will still open thread to seek advice when he start buying pant and bra for your househelp/nanny..

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children

Mariangeles:


Children are better off when their parents value each other more.
It creates a more happy and healthy environment for them (the children).

Mariangeles:


Likely out of spite o kwa ya?
Ndi umu nwoke na dikari petty.

Nnemuka:
Why do men prefer their mums over their wives?
If you can answer the above then we can answer your question.

AfroKnight:


Nah. You can’t escape this one. Come and sit down. Make I serve you cold beer.

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children

Mariangeles:


He'll be over you by then.

ahnie:

I dunno.
In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.

Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.

Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.

SmileDance:
Because husband is not a blood relative
Because children won't divorce them




Nobody should quote me o I have not eaten

Gee64:
Children need more care than Daddy.

When the children come, Daddy stops s*cking and let the rightful owners take charge.
The children therefore deserve more of Mummy's attention.

abobote:
Coz they are the only one that enjoy their children's wealth at old age

Mariangeles:


Children are better off when their parents value each other more.
It creates a more happy and healthy environment for them (the children).

SmileDance:
Because husband is not a blood relative Because children won't divorce them



Nobody should quote me o I have not eaten

Munzy14:



Humans have little or no patience....

This is why these fathers at old age will still be doing small away match..

Women of these modern age should have a re-orientation..Your hubby is your main main...Children are secondary after popori ...Who will still have their own lives to live.

Iyaebe:
But he should understand that children comes with a lot of sacrifices.

shegun854:

I think this is normal
Woman give 80% on there kids 10% for her husband 10% for herself

AfroKnight:


Actually, men love their wives more than their kids.

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?

Kobojunkie:
It is not normal.. it is the norm in most African families but is not normal at all.

Munzy14:

Smh

Nigerian husbands are suffering...If I have a wife with this mindset, I will go polygamy As simple as that.

AntiWailer:
Lol.
The children are hands full.
You have no idea until she leave them with u to av a nice time one of these days.
U go run mad.
Leave her alone

Kobojunkie:
First of, having a wife with this mindset is indicator that the marriage is in a bad state. How does marrying other wives help make this better if they all end up the same way?

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Ok. Then I go with the norm

Munzy14:

Only few women know this...

Ones couples see themselves as first before kids, That family is bonded for life...

JONNYSPUTE:
.... 90% of the wives have this mindset.

So does it mean all this homes or marriages is in bad state?

Iyaebe:
See ehn no husband can or will ever try that with me, I will never allow such see finish, its part of the reason I advise women on one thread like that to make sure they create some fears in their husbands so that his brain will always be reminding him not to try rubbish with you.Cheat wey he wan cheat,na under my roof he wan dy do am,abeg make I no talk jor.