Iyaebe:
When I start having children, I pray I remember my husband that time.

Kobojunkie:
Yes!

And the proof is as you see it in the people.

SmartPolician:
It's natural for most women probably because of the blood connection they have with their children. OP raised an important point: Children need more attention because they cannot help themselves but fathers are adults.
Lastly, I won't fail to add that women are somewhat selfish and self-centered.

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?

Klass99:


You made me smile, I like your candour and narrative.
Some years ago, my classmate posted a very enlightening video about this in our Whatsapp Group.
It's a video I wish I had saved through the years. It will make a meaningful impact on wives and parents.

bigjackass:
Why do fathers prefer their children over their wives?

Munzy14:

Only few women know this...

Ones couples see themselves as first before kids, That family is bonded for life...

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children

Munzy14:

Then, the man that did they fertilisation will collect Aaron's position abii

Acidosis:


Anytime my mom visits me, she's always eager to return to her husband (my father). Both of them love each other a little too much.

This is why I love and respect them. This an idea of love I can confidently relate to, not the fact that I was breastfed and carried in the womb for 9 months. FFS, I don't know a single thing about my time in the womb.

Munzy14:

Smh

Nigerian husbands are suffering...If I have a wife with this mindset, I will go polygamy As simple as that.

ahnie:
There's a spiritual bond btw mothers and their kids.

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?

ahnie:

I dunno.
In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.

Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.

Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?

Iyaebe:
When I start having children, I pray I remember my husband that time.

ahnie:
There's a spiritual bond btw mothers and their kids.

Johel:
They never loved their husbands genuinely,they got married either because of escaping poverty, marrying to quit wayward lifestyle totally or partially, marrying because of wealth and power, or marrying becos of children or some other personal desire....but trust me,85% of these women never married out of genuine love...That's why they love their children,their family and friends even more than their husbands....Las Las...woman need man as man need woman too...Let love lead.

BafanaBafana:
Naturalist point of view
It's biology. Nature encourages continuity of life, that's why sex is pleasurable. Children need care and attention to grow and that's one reason why kids are naturally cute. You wanna touch them, carry them, feed them,
Mothers hence are biologically wired to give utmost attention to children

KLand:
When a husband doesn't give maximum attention and affection to the wife, she tends to divert the attention and affection due to her husband to the children.

Advice: Spouses should not love their children more than their husband/wife.

Munzy14:

That eager to return home and be with her hubby is the real deal.

This is just typical of my parents...Growing up, they both keep cancelling transfers in their respective jobs, so they won't be away from eachother...It happened to extent it caused my dad his job, God willing things normalised years after..

Now tell me how I will hear issues like this as a grown up, I won't tripple my love for both.

Growing up till now, my mom love I and my brothers equally...Nothing she won't do for us...But, my Dad comes first..

Munzy14:

Lol...drink water and chill.

You see that man you think you have caged, And he is dancing to your tune, If he is fed up, your name will be sorry..

Na same man go rent and furnish apartment for another woman and still have kids with her while taking all your excesses..

What a man want to do, is always buried deep in his heart..Just frustrate his peace of mind and see the dirty side of him...Either intentional or unintentional..Maybe by surprise

Be the peace of mind to whoever comes to marry you...If not this world will be hell.

ufotty2001:
now!! Now!! You have brought about spiritual issue here.. people like you are filled up in Shiloh living Faith church.. what about bond between husband and wife or husband and children...!!!

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children
GOD BLESS AND KEEP UR HOME SIR

chiomzy86:
Because they take solace in loving their children when hubby start to waka with side chick...some don't hv time to confront.they will focuse on their children their source of joy.. note not 100% before u come quoting me.some men are good yet gets treated that way

Iyaebe:
lol well,an understanding man will understand

Mofun:
Hello fellow-Nairalanders!
Please is it correct to conclude that most women tend to value their children more than their own husbands (I don't mean 'baby daddies')?
If it's correct then what could be responsible?