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Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 6:18pm On Nov 12, 2021
Created a thread bout my addiction! Did my 3months program(worst 3months of my life).
i even have a shrink who comes around 3times in a week, 2hrs session!

now the problem is i feel dead, am not my usual self. Am neither sad nor happy most times.

truth the drugs were my source of joy my happines my inspiration my motivation. But now nothing moves me again.

cant even hang with friends, thanks to my folks monitoring my road network!

now how can i be that lively fun loving person i use to be without drugs and smoke(s). Cuz this withdrawal phase is eating my soul up.

thank you

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Re: Fighting Addiction by Reminderz: 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2021
It is just a phase which will soon pass.. you don't expect something that you've been doing for a very long time to leave just like that.. everything takes time.. nor worry.. just keep steady. don't go back to it or it will worsen your case.

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Re: Fighting Addiction by Davash222(m): 6:27pm On Nov 12, 2021
The Lord is your strength, campaign director.

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Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 6:29pm On Nov 12, 2021
Reminderz:
It is just a phase which will soon pass.. you don't expect something that you've been doing for a very long time to leave just like that.. everything takes time.. nor worry.. just keep steady. don't go back to it or it will worsen your case.

thank you!

just that idont know if am turning into a sadist or a loner!

am suspecting the meds they are giving me
Re: Fighting Addiction by illicit(m): 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:
Created a thread bout my addiction! Did my 3months program(worst 3months of my life).
i even have a shrink who comes around 3times in a week, 2hrs session!

now the problem is i feel dead, am not my usual self. Am neither sad nor happy most times.

truth the drugs were my source of joy my happines my inspiration my motivation. But now nothing moves me again.

cant even hang with friends, thanks to my folks monitoring my road network!

now how can i be that lively fun loving person i use to be without drugs and smoke(s). Cuz this withdrawal phase is eating my soul up.

thank you

I will help u
Re: Fighting Addiction by Sonnobax15(m): 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2021
undecided
My dear candid, lemme help you.......drop your WhatsApp number..
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 6:32pm On Nov 12, 2021
Davash222:
The Lord is your strength, campaign director.

grin

Amen
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 6:35pm On Nov 12, 2021
illicit:


I will help u

this your help eh! Am sure if i place this your "help" under microscope. Am pretty sure i'd see some extra particles lol

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Re: Fighting Addiction by illicit(m): 6:37pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


this your help eh! Am sure if i place this your "help" under microscope. Am pretty sure i'd see some extra particles lol

Babe

U have no problems

I can be all u need to be what u want to be if u let me wink

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Re: Fighting Addiction by BobbieZion(m): 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2021
It is relapse feeling or withdrawal symptoms, babe.
U will be fine.
I bet u,just have guts to keep on.
And then look for board games or computer Games to play.
Re: Fighting Addiction by Reminderz: 6:41pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


thank you!

just that idont know if am turning into a sadist or a loner!

am suspecting the meds they are giving me
no I dont think so.. your body and brain is adjusting itself to the new routine. so just keep pushing..
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 7:03pm On Nov 12, 2021
Sonnobax15:
undecided My dear candid, lemme help you.......drop your WhatsApp number..

thank you!
my whatsapp is inactive for now
Re: Fighting Addiction by Deborah98(f): 7:08pm On Nov 12, 2021
Stopping or quitting an addiction is never easy. It's well just take it easy, things will go back to that beautiful state it was before. Mine is addiction of taking too much soft drinks lol,to an extent I stopped and thought I've conquered omo I just rushed out now to buy one chilled fanta grin... I can't come and kee myself...

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Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 7:13pm On Nov 12, 2021
BobbieZion:
It is relapse feeling or withdrawal symptoms, babe.
U will be fine.
I bet u,just have guts to keep on.
And then look for board games or computer Games to play.

thanks

am not really the video game type! For board game got chess and scrable! I only get to play with my shrink whenever he is around!
Re: Fighting Addiction by slickycee: 7:13pm On Nov 12, 2021
I started my fight against addiction this year.

I failed miserably but I never stopped trying

But now things are alot a better with me.

Once in a while I go into relapse but it's never for an hour sef.

I kick myself out .

I totally relate to the loneliness ,


My advice, is you need to change yourself.
You need a strong support of love

Go back to who you were before the whole nonsense happened

That innocent person in secondary school.

Use your alone time to get to know yourself, your wants and needs.
Self love and a loving environment is the key to destroying Addiction


You need to be more open and communicative with people

You need to start doing those foolish things you used to enjoy without shame

You need to love yourself the way you wished others loved you.

Most importantly you to surrender to a higher power and redidcate your life to a purpose that is inspired by love and passion

You need to recreate your identity and be the person you want to.
The day you would know you're free from an Addiction is when you start realizing the patterns and how you have better options.

Just because you're sad doesn't mean you have to do this
Just because you feel lonely doesn't mean you have to this, you can do this or this or that


You need to remember that you have options.


On my journey, someone shared a book to me on addiction
Which was the game changer in my struggle


Reading the book would make you cry but it would also set you free


If you don't mind I could share


There's so much I want to say, but then it's only you that can help you
All the best

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Re: Fighting Addiction by helinues: 7:18pm On Nov 12, 2021
You simply made drugs as your favourite hobby when there are other so many have hobbies to pick up from
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 7:33pm On Nov 12, 2021
Deborah98:
Stopping or quitting an addiction is never easy. It's well just take it easy, things will go back to that beautiful state it was before. Mine is addiction of taking too much soft drinks lol,to an extent I stopped and thought I've conquered omo I just rushed out now to buy one chilled fanta grin... I can't come and kee myself...

lol
really wish mine was soft drink addiction

god help us!

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Re: Fighting Addiction by BeeBeeOoh(m): 7:45pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


lol
really wish mine was soft drink addiction

god help us!

Mine is too much admiring of ukwu and ladies are not helping matters. E get the kind one wey i go see if i no look am twice, thrice my mind no go rest.

You see this my eyes, this my niger opticals, e no go put me for wahala sad My body and soul will disagree but, my eyes go agree for me, my body and my soul cry

May God help me.
Re: Fighting Addiction by Sonnobax15(m): 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:



thank you!

my whatsapp is inactive for now
cheesy. Ok...No p......

But it's definitely gonna be well ok... Addiction is something that can be solved,but it must first of all come from your mind......When you've set your mind to purpose on how to quit it,no matter how difficult it may be,e go must reduce small small until e go give you chance fully.

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Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 8:05pm On Nov 12, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy. Ok...No p......

But it's definitely gonna be well ok... Addiction is something that can be solved,but it must first of all come from your mind......When you've set your mind to purpose on how to quit it,no matter how difficult it may be,e go must reduce small small until e go give you chance fully.

i have stopped already! The only problem now is i dont see fun in anything again!

could you believe istayed in bed throughout yesterday till this afternoon! Am nat feeling myself at all
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 8:08pm On Nov 12, 2021
BeeBeeOoh:


Mine is too much admiring of ukwu and ladies are not helping matters. E get the kind one wey i go see if i no look am twice, thrice my mind no go rest.

You see this my eyes, this my niger opticals, e no go put me for wahala sad My body and soul will disagree but, my eyes go agree for me, my body and my soul cry

May God help me.


the holy book said "if your eyes will make you sin, remove it" grin
Re: Fighting Addiction by Sonnobax15(m): 8:09pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


i have stopped already! The only problem now is i dont see fun in anything again!

could you believe istayed in bed throughout yesterday till this afternoon! Am nat feeling myself at all
For what na? undecided. You wor sleep die? undecided. Listen to me, feeling down won't help you solve your Problem,not until you stand up on your feet and think of how to get rid of the Problem undecided


Tomorrow,I go still check on you cha undecided
Re: Fighting Addiction by AutoChick4U(f): 8:13pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:



the holy book said "if your eyes will make you sin, remove it" grin
Get a puppy, they are good emotional anchors
Re: Fighting Addiction by stanliwise(m): 8:14pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


thanks

am not really the video game type! For board game got chess and scrable! I only get to play with my shrink whenever he is around!
play online
Re: Fighting Addiction by BeeBeeOoh(m): 8:15pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:



the holy book said "if your eyes will make you sin, remove it" grin

I think they deleted that part from my own holy book tongue
Re: Fighting Addiction by stanliwise(m): 8:17pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


i have stopped already! The only problem now is i dont see fun in anything again!

could you believe istayed in bed throughout yesterday till this afternoon! Am nat feeling myself at all
Your brain tolerance is too high to get excited. It is same for a lot of drug addict.

With time the tolerance level will begin to decrease to a normal level as much as you don’t feed it any high.

So just try to accept the moment and understand it would change slowly
Re: Fighting Addiction by AoifeNightfall: 8:17pm On Nov 12, 2021
Awww dear candid lady it is never easy but you will come out stronger than ever.

Just use this motivational speech hold body.
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 8:24pm On Nov 12, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Get a puppy, they are good emotional anchors

thanks iwil look into that!
although we got dogs in the house
Re: Fighting Addiction by The5DME(m): 8:25pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:



thank you!

my whatsapp is inactive for now
mumu, dem wan help ur miserable life, u still de give format.... Old junkie
Re: Fighting Addiction by Candidlady: 8:29pm On Nov 12, 2021
Sonnobax15:
For what na? undecided. You wor sleep die? undecided. Listen to me, feeling down won't help you solve your Problem,not until you stand up on your feet and think of how to get rid of the Problem undecided


Tomorrow,I go still check on you cha undecided

iwasnt even sleeping ijust laid there!

am nat down neither am i even up! Ijust dey there!

again ithink it is my meds thats cfvkn with my brain! The medication is turning me to "ogbolo"
Re: Fighting Addiction by Sonnobax15(m): 8:31pm On Nov 12, 2021
Candidlady:


iwasnt even sleeping ijust laid there!

am nat down neither am i even up! Ijust dey there!

again ithink it is my meds thats cfvkn with my brain! The medication is turning me to "ogbolo"
undecided. Why not reduce the rate at which you take your meds then undecided
Re: Fighting Addiction by bobowaja(m): 8:37pm On Nov 12, 2021
Sonnobax15:
undecided. Why not reduce the rate at which you take your meds then undecided
Bad advise. Why

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