MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

Ofadaman:
This is not going to end well.
Judging by the stats that I've fvked most of my ex who I reconnected with (even though they are in serious relationships).

Most male ex would only go after sex and can still keep their mental sanity, but females are more inclined to grow attached to their ex by first remembering details of happy moments and then comparing their current relationship with their exes.

In the end, she'd compare all you do to what her ex would have done, this include sex activities, romance, finances, looks and all.
And then she'd find a good reason to cheat.

I also think she's being inconsiderate to her husband, knowing fully well that she's had sex with him before and this may impact his insecurity irrespective of how they both have a triangle relationship with the ex. Men are territorial in nature and no man appreciates another male encroaching into his terrain. It's also true for most woman, I know she will not tolerate your brothers ex gf intruding into the marriage, the only way she feels safe doing this is because she sees your husband as either weak or that she married him not because she's her main choice.

A man must take charge and be in control, in the face of being liked and being feared, chose fear to keep things in check ,he needs to be the man, tell her outrightly if she'd be comfortable with him still chatting his ex, and let her know he's not comfortable with it ,and wants her to quit, now if she insists on continuing, he should leave the marriage when it's still early and save his pride. This may seem like a tuff call , but it's the best call.

To iterate, I've fvked all my exes, and then I'm sure most of us here have done same. The stats don't lie

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

jaxxy:


Why should he stop her when he’s still also friends with his childhood friend? If he wants to stop her he should also stop his communication with his friend.

U brother was aware of this triangle and still went in for reasons best known to him or wasn’t he aware b4 dating and marrying the lady??

The only thing he can do is tell her to limit it. I don’t like their idea of caging ur wife while u go on as u like.

Bt in fairness to ur bro let him ask his wife if the case was reversed and he was chatting with her childhood friend who was also his ex how will she feel or take it?

That’s the only way to make her see the real picture of how it looks.

6ixT8:
how insecure could your bro be? Tell him to grow some balls and confront her if he cant stand it.

Your bro told you, and you came here seeking advice on his behalf. Interedting!.

Well, i wont blame him, owning to the reality of Okafor's law and the congo dynamo!.

6ixT8:
how insecure could your bro be? Tell him to grow some balls and confront her if he cant stand it.

Your bro told you, and you came here seeking advice on his behalf. Interedting!.

Well, i wont blame him, owning to the reality of Okafor's law and the congo dynamo!.

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

Belafonte:


This is extreme. I think you're overreacting

onyenatruchi:
They use infidelity swear for Yoruba couples can't their women cope with one husband must their enjoy two husbands at a time Yoruba women love doing two men at a time Yoruba women sha

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

garriAndsugar:
That Michael is not a friend at all..

Na this kind people to flog 2by2 go good..

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

garriAndsugar:
That Michael is not a friend at all..

Na this kind people to flog 2by2 go good..

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

julybaba:
Your brother's wife has zero respect for him. Period.

Ghostmode2two:


Sorry OP your brother is a massive SIMP. The wife [s]who is chatting with her ex and showing your bro the chat or update, is a tactics being employed by your else brother's wife moves. Don't allow your brother fall for this smart move by the wife. Women are very dangerous. Remember that a woman is like a horse any man can ride on her not forgetting that ex ex already had sex with her previously. A cheating wife can kill her husband or the man outside she is cheating with can kill the husband. Remember King David in the Bible who collected another man's wife and sent the man to the war front . Angels came down from heaven to have women too. You brother should be wise and put an end to the chat or whatever closeness between the wife and the ex. Simple of your senior bro will end up raising another man's children and shd premium tears at last[/s].

You just rame rubish. Its only when vagina is involved you guys remember bible, Quran and quotable quotes that speak to your favour. Have you not seen wives being killed by their husbands and /or husbands sidechicks? Have you not seen wives killing co wives and their children? Did it discourage most men from cheating or going for polygamy?
Call a spade a spade the wife is effing up and leave it there. Shior!