What made you took that decision? What's your experience?
As for me, anything that has to do with opening up to people is not for me again.

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The last experience wasn't funny, and I must say, I regret it. The problem is that nobody actually understands. And sometimes they misunderstand you.

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So, what made you decide never to open up to people again?

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Share. Let's read and pass time; It has been a boring day for me and some other Nairalanders .

Xenry:

What made you took that decision? What's your experience?
As for me, anything that has to do with opening up to people is not for me again.
The last experience wasn't funny, and I must say, I regret it. The problem is that nobody actually understands. And sometimes they misunderstand you.

Datboredberry:
After my dad and his relatives...my depressed struggling mom... family drama...
I've learnt to bottle alot of my shìt inside...
Christian's Christ said:
"Cast not your pearls before swine lest they trample on then then charge after you...
And
The heart of man is desperately wicked..."
If the so-called son of God says so, who am I to argue or believe otherwise?

Opeyemiextra:
Because it was used against me and I lost things and people as a result. Considering the fact that I don't discuss myself with people, I don't know how I 'lose guard' with this one. She really dealt with me and was the one still consoling me before I got to know everything that happened.

Whenever I remember the whole incident, I fear people and the extent they can go. Because of this, I am extra careful with humans especially the very religious ones. They hide a lot under that disguise.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you misconstrue what Jesus Christ said there as the same Jesus Christ said that what He tells us in secret, we should proclaim from the rooftops - Matthew 10 vs 27 & Luke 12 vs 3. The verse about not casting your pearls to swine simply instructs that we not the Truth(Gospel) to all - never meant we should keep things secret.

The heart of man is desperately wicked indeed, but this because there hearts are filled with secrets, lies and deceit. Jeremiah 17 vs 5-11

Nowhere in scripture are you told that folding in on your self is the way of God, so learn to leave God out of these delusions you live on.

Datboredberry:
I'm an atheist... I'll misconstrue the words of your fictional God as I please...

iamyemiakins:
I naturally don't open up to people right from time except it auto-opens

The highest percentage I have for trusting people (no matter how close) is 20%

Kobojunkie:
isn't opening up meant for your sake, and not really for the sake of those you open up to?

If I opened up to a stranger while sitting at the bus stop waiting for a bus, for instance, do I do this because I "trust" said stranger or because I benefit immensely from such exercise?

iamyemiakins:

Na so Tiwa Savage kuku take benefit after intense lashing on the yatch