Good evening guys.
actually this will be my first time here on nairaland I really need advice please,am 21 and honestly I don't just like the fact that I still look feminine like it really embarrassing mehn.
Alot of times people take advantage of my look to cheat me and whole lot.
am very fair,curly full hair(natural) ,tall, hairy,pink lips and am just too fair to be a man honestly,i am an introvert I know coz my dad always tell me that yeah.
And also am a student of unijos it just crazy the way lecturers we tell me to stand up in classes and start asking me if am a girl or boy,like it really embarrassing mehn,so I have decided to come and ask elders on nairaland if there is anything I can do to make me look like a real man,even girls feel intimidated around me like WTF who I offend

Oh, it's your first time here. So they didn't tell you what's up on Nairaland?

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Well, I see you receiving endless bashes on this thread.
They will use your pic to make memes and post it along with comments on NL.
You will then abandon the thread — deactivate your account and create a new account with a thicker skin. And then, only then will you know that to remain sane here, you must remain anonymous.

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Well, the bashing will soon start, I'm outta here.

Ask bobrisky to show you road...

Hey man,

You're okay BTW

You can wait for the beards to show up.

In the meantime, get a manly hair shape always.

Johndagr8t:
Good evening guys.
actually this will be my first time here on nairaland I really need advice please,am 21 and honestly I don't just like the fact that I still look feminine like it really embarrassing mehn.
Alot of times people take advantage of my look to cheat me and whole lot.
am very fair,curly full hair(natural) ,tall, hairy,pink lips and am just too fair to be a man honestly,i am an introvert I know coz my dad always tell me that yeah.
And also am a student of unijos it just crazy the way lecturers we tell me to stand up in classes and start asking me if am a girl or boy,like it really embarrassing mehn,so I have decided to come and ask elders on nairaland if there is anything I can do to make me look like a real man,even girls feel intimidated around me like WTF who I offend

I'm already hearing that "no no no no no no" voice used in comedy skits in my head. I'll be back to laugh

Youths of this generation get too many irrelevant issues wey dey bug 'em; na this things make majority of Nigerians less productive in various area of live after much studies in school..

Hit the gym and pump some iron, engage in exercises, avoid junks food. Your masculine features will surely come out by force by fire. Your testosterone level is low.

Xenry:
Oh, it's your first time here. So they didn't tell you "what's up" on Nairaland?

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Well, I see you receiving endless bashes on this thread.
They will use your pic to make memes .
You will then abandon the thread — deactivate your account and create a new account with a thicker skin. And then, only then, will you know that to remain *** here, you must remain anonymous.

Well, the bashing will soon start, I'm outta here.

I swear! I'm laughing in advance

JoyousFurnitire:
Hey man,
You're okay BTW
You can wait for the beards to show up.
In the meantime, get a manly hair shape always.

I just don't feel any trace of breards yet am dying

Let me be real with you;

Start gymming oga. Your problem no even plenty.

Johndagr8t:
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And also am a student of unijos it just crazy the way lecturers we tell me to stand up in classes and start asking me if am a girl or boy,like it really embarrassing mehn,so I have decided to come and ask elders on nairaland if there is anything I can do to make me look like a real man,even girls feel intimidated around me like WTF who I offend

The problem isn't your looks but your level of confidence or self-esteem that you should work on instead.

If some people think you feminine in appearance,ignore the dense eejits, and hang instead with a more intelligent crowd.

emorse:

I swear! I'm laughing in advance

He never see anything sef. He think say here na Facebook .

Xenry:
He never see anything sef. He think say here na Facebook .

oga get out of my thread since your sense left you for super

Johndagr8t:
Good evening guys.
actually this will be my first time here on nairaland I really need advice please,am 21 and honestly I don't just like the fact that I still look feminine like it really embarrassing mehn.
Alot of times people take advantage of my look to cheat me and whole lot.
am very fair,curly full hair(natural) ,tall, hairy,pink lips and am just too fair to be a man honestly,i am an introvert I know coz my dad always tell me that yeah.
And also am a student of unijos it just crazy the way lecturers we tell me to stand up in classes and start asking me if am a girl or boy,like it really embarrassing mehn,so I have decided to come and ask elders on nairaland if there is anything I can do to make me look like a real man,even girls feel intimidated around me like WTF who I offend

Take away your picture

stanliwise:
Take away your picture

why?

Johndagr8t:

oga get out of my thread since your sense left you for super

New member, and you don rush post picture; Nairaland na your mate? Here no be Facebook oo! You suppose to dey thank me sef say I told u what's up!

Daveambition:
Youths of this generation get too many irrelevant issues wey dey bug 'em; na this things make majority of Nigerians less productive in various area of live after much studies in school..

oga am an electrical engineering student for jos, so no dey overdo!!

Johndagr8t:

why?

Don't say didn't warn you.

As for your question, hangout with male folks and do what guys do.

You have role models around somewhere either online or physical. Learn from them.

Lastly don't allow people define you or try to talk you into their believe. Forge yours from your observations, research and experience

Daveambition:
Youths of this generation get too many irrelevant issues wey dey bug 'em; na this things make majority of Nigerians less productive in various area of live after much studies in school..

You say that like there fathers and mothers before them where somehow better. The youths are a reflection of those gone before them.

Gays go don fork this one tire

mmadu5:
Gays go don fork this one tire

loll...guy nko gay lussac law ni,una no just get sense with all this useless assumption

Johndagr8t:

oga am an electrical engineering student for jos, so no dey overdo!!

Toddler, kuku carry ur matric number go bank for payment..
U use mediocrity dey brag, yeye somebody.

Daveambition:
Toddler, kuku carry ur matric number go bank for payment.. Smal pikin doinz, see wetin this one take dey brag.

do am if e eazy

Daveambition:
Toddler, kuku carry ur matric number go bank for payment.. Smal pikin doinz, see wetin this one take dey brag.

do am if e eazy

See head like akpamu own , your hair kon resemble all those Fulani herdsmen own. You sure say u no dey lead cattle

You look effeminate

Englishisamust:
See head like akpamu own , your hair kon resemble all those Fulani herdsmen own. You sure say u no dey lead cattle

ah be nìger boi

Johndagr8t:

oga am an electrical engineering student for jos, so no dey overdo!!

Take down your picture! You don't know who's viewing this thread and what could be their reactions. Imagine if someone that knows you sees this thread and happens to be the bigoted type, he/she might use it against you.

At ur age, it's ok to be disturbed by such irrelevances. You would soon know what life is all about and looks would be less of your worries

Well, I was effeminate growing up. Yeah, then it was no Biggie.

In any case, start a bodybuilding regime.

Work on your upper torso.

Keep a haircut that makes you look manly.

Wear clothes that would promote your manly disposition.

You will be fine.

Use this pics for your fb, WhatsApp and all your social media accounts.
They go catch the hint ASAP

Girls go dey rush u sef
As you wisely decided to share ur pics on a faceless forum as nairaland

This one wey resemble Somalian chicken. You say handsome.

You're a confused fellow, you are concerned about your looks yet you keep that kinda hairstyle?