Toks2008:


No reasonable man brings a woman to live in the same home with the first wife... That is the angle many are seeing it from.

These days you let the new wife stay in her own apartment and all you do is spend different days with each one of them.

Any lady that kills or threatens to kill a man because he wants another lady is mentally unstable.

She is free to leave.

Righteousness2:
Ignore all these confused teachings of men like Toks2008 that are wise in their own eyes. These are Ungodly and evil teachings that will Destroy your soul.

No matter your age , No matter your Matter! Stick to what GOD says. Read your Bible, see GOD'S word and abide by it.

Polygamy is not of GOD. It is a sin. That is not GOD'S Standard.

Whatever you do you in life, stick to GOD'S Standard because will account to GOD .

Eternity is not a community race.
Eternity is a Personal Race.

Nonexisting:
Evening newspapers will come here to attack you but later go behind closed doors and consider your advice. Even polygamists today are going for sweet 16s so if you are a lady and you have crossed 35, just buy Love Machine or submit your pussy occasionally to your regular okada and keke driver for service.

sellers4buyers:


Where is it stated in the BIBLE OLD AND NEW that polygamy is a SIN I will like to know brother.

The only place I know the Bible goes against polygamy is in 1Timoty 3:1-2 in their, it's actually a requirement for someone who wants to be a Bishop. I will like to know any other verses that outrightly condemned polygamy as a SIN please. Cheers.

Righteousness2:


Matthew 19: 4-9
Mark 10: 1-12

ozuone:
Not all single mothers are Bad.. However getting married to the 80 percent of the dangerous ones could cause you everlasting sorrow . Always advisable to dig deep before you enter as what happened to the first can happen to you

Shokoloko:


Your writeup seems to proffer a solution to females to curb sexual immorality.
While it might favour the woman, but it doesn't talk about the problems that polygamy will cause for the children

Toks2008:


Islam has solved the problem if you follow the principles of heritage sharing as stated in the Quran, how many of property wahala do you hear in the North.

My father had 3 wives, properties shared without wahala. We also live in harmony before his death till now.

In our case, everyone of us live under same roof. You must eat together no separate pot or kitchen, one week for each wife to cook until the eldest retired from the kitchen {which is my Mum}, but, must eat what was generally prepared.

I spend must of my time with my step and she advice me the more because she's more social




I have many single mums as friends and most of them have been single for years as in no sex.

So tell me if it won't be a succour to even feel the touch of a man even if it is once a week.

If you know the number of ladies in the categories I highlighted you will agree with me that polygamy is the future.

The crazy part is that many single guys see ever ready to catch cruise with these ladies until they are fed up with them.

You may never understand this write up until you find yourself in any of the groups.



If he did the will well there won't be any issue.

Toks2008:


See your life.

I told you that I will school you.

Now run off to read this thread I created years back and come back to tell me what you have learnt.

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin

Righteousness2:


Keep Decieving yourself! It is not me you are doing! You are doing yourself! You will give account to GOD of all these Nonsense you put out.

When you see and stand before GOD, you will understand what u did to yourself.

If you Like Hear! If you Like continue in your evils. Your Sin will find u out!

Righteousness2:


Matthew 19: 4-9
Mark 10: 1-12

Toks2008:


That is what they say... They hate polygamy but still fvks side chic or you want to vouch for him on that too? Please I beg you just don't go there...

One of the most hypocritical things men do is celebrating years of monogamous marriage anniversary but neglecting to celebrate the anniversary with the side chic.

Please whatever you do, never eve trust any man when it comes to woman matter

Nah my 50kobo be dat.

And about me fascinating about polygamy... Well the truth is that I am a writer and when I write I don't focus on what I fascinate about but I write realistically on issues.

This is not about me, I pride myself as one of the most sexually decent guys out there. I have been on Nairaland for years and no single lady on this forum has anything on me and no lady in the world can point an accusing finger at me.

So leave fantasies out of it. IT IS WHAT IT IS

sellers4buyers:


I choose not to argue with you. If you believe the above verses condemned polygamy and also makes it a SIN. Peace...

Hintona:


I won't.

sellers4buyers:


Where is it stated in the BIBLE OLD AND NEW that polygamy is a SIN I will like to know brother.

The only place I know the Bible goes against polygamy is in 1Timoty 3:1-2 in there, it's actually a requirement for someone who wants to be a Bishop. I will like to know any other verses that outrightly condemned polygamy as a SIN please. Cheers.

sellers4buyers:


I choose not to argue with you. If you believe the above verses condemned polygamy and also makes it a SIN. Peace...

Toks2008:


No reasonable person will use the standard of the western world as a prototype for marriage.

But for my sexual decency, I would have lost count of the number of single mums and divorcees I would have slept with or even be servicing regularly.

Ask them why they left their marriage and you will hear the same reason... "He wanted another lady"

In Africa we keep the woman in our lives even if we go for another thereby maintaining the sanity of the children and the sanctity of marriage but in the western world, because of the illegality 9f polygamy, they just kuku divorce the wife and go for the new lady not minding the mental health of the kids.

Now the funniest twist is that these ladies who left their husbands end up as sx toys in the hands of randy men and even married men.

Those who choose to be celibate take succour in sx toys for years and I know may who have not had proper sx with a man for many years.

So I begin to wonder, why leave your husband when there is no guarantee that you will find a faithful man out there?, why not just stay in your marriage, focus on your kids and yourself and just see your husband as a booty call if you feel you don't love him as you use to.... Are there no better things in life than looking for one man that will seed his manhood to only you as long as he lives?

donestk:
Most ladies in their 30s are very bittered and blame men for their misfortune

pocohantas:


K1 the Ultimate just married a mother of three. So who are you and your fellow Nairaland alfa males? Leftover indeed.

Toks2008:


Even the verse you quoted is not against polygamy.. It only advised deacons and General overseers to be a husband of one wife.... it was an advice not that it will be counted as a sin if they choose to marry more wives.

Infact there is a translation of the original manuscript that believes that part actually mean THEY SHOULD BE FAITHFUL TO THEIR WIFE NOT THAT THEY SHOULD BE HUSBAND OF ONE WIFE.

The mistake many people make is that they take the singularity of marriage to mean a man can't marry another lady.

Marriage is expressed in singular form but you can be joined with as many ladies as you want.

Please rea this thread of mine for more understanding...

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin

Toks2008:
I decide to drop this after reading a condescending post about a mother of 3 that just got married to a popular fuji artiste and i implore everyone to read this with an open mind.

Polygamy may not be appropriate for everyone but it remains a viable option for certain groups. Polygamy in Islam is a norm and there is no part in the Bible that forbids it or tags it a sin but rather it is Permissible just as GOD permits Divorce.

The concept of Polygamy is not about Men having many wives but it is geared towards ensuring that every lady who wants to get married can easily have a husband thereby curbing the act of sexual immorality.

Sometimes what may seem inappropriate may be an ideal option and talking about polygamy, i will strongly advise the following group of ladies to give it a thorough consideration.

1. THE WIDOW/DIVORCEE: Except a lady is still very young at the time she lost her husband or got divorced and she has no kids then she just might be fortunate to easily get a single guy who would love to marry her but as we know, many widows and divorcees are usually with kids and of age which makes them more appealing to married men rather than single guys who would prefer to go for young never married ladies. So If you are in this group, stop bothering your head hoping for a single guy except you just want to be toyed with. Consider marrying a married man who is willing to love and care for you.

2. THE NEVER MARRIED LADIES IN THEIR 40s: Many ladies in this group usually have this hope that there just might be one single guy who will be willing to settle down with them AND YES it is very possible just that the chances of this happening is very low. Most guys usually get married in their 30s and except they see a divorcee or a widower then they just might be lucky but unfortunately, even the widower or divorcee will still most likely prefer to go for far younger ladies which makes it even more difficult to come across single guys. My candid advise for this group of ladies is to get a responsible man to settle with regardless of his marital status.

3. THE NEVER MARRIED SINGLE MUMS: I have so many single mums as friends and the common mind-set they still have is that there is one single guy out there who will gladly marry them and some of them have remained celibate for years because according to them, they don't want to marry a married man and they are scared of single guys.... I think it just doesn't make any sense to continue hoping for one single guy to leave millions of ladies without kids to marry you. In most cases, this set of ladies get used by single men who just want to catch cruise with them. If you belong to this group please consider settling down with one responsible married man and avoid getting used by fvk boys in the name of looking for a single guy to marry.

4. THE IMPATIENT MONEY LOVERS/GOLD PICKERS: I honestly see nothing wrong in wanting a made guy after all, everyone has the right to make a choice but the problem i have with this set of ladies is when they put so much demand on a young progressive guy to provide what he can't. Wealth is progressive and except a man is very lucky to make huge money in his early age, I strongly believe that the best bet is for such a lady to look for one rich married man to marry because in most cases, it is men who are married and advanced in age that will be able to provide the type of life style this group of ladies desire .

5. THE UNLUCKY ONES: This group of ladies cut across all ages. They are just unlucky with single guys. They have tried many relationships with single men but they are just so unfortunate and they are totally fed up. My advice to them is to consider polygamy as there are many married men out there who will be willing to marry them and make them happy for as long as they live. It just doesn't make any sense to settle for a jerk just because you want a single man for yourself when there are super responsible married men ready to treat you like a queen.

6.THE SUGAR BABIES: This group of ladies are usually very young and to them, it is ok to date married men or sugar daddies who can take care of them but when it comes to marriage, it is a taboo for them to marry such men. I honestly do not understand how a lady will be having sexual relationship with a married man, enjoy the lavish lifestyle he provides but will find it difficult to marry same man and the worst twist is that in most cases, even after this set of ladies get married, they still linger in the relationship with their sugar daddies. No be juju be dat?


Make i stop here

Toks2008:


Lol! So what is the point?

I read from vs 1 of that chapter so I understand it clearly... My point is that GOD GAVE A REGULATORY RULE TO GUIDE POLYGAMY.

So I don't undrstand what you meant by saying I'm Wrong so please shed more light. You just quoted without making your point.

heffem:
This write-up reminds me of Tosyne2much....anyone knows about his whereabout? Thanks

Ernerstdavid55:
wud u marry a man who has many wife??

OBALOLA55:
HINTONA YOUR ANSWER PLEASE

Toks2008:


If you watch Nollywood films you will understand why I wrote that.

It usually depicts chaos and strife in polygamous homes but it is not that way in majority of polygamous homes...

And these days men don't put wives together.. They have their seperate abodes and some don't even see each other for as long as the man lives and they only get to see on very rare occasions.

Ask some sugar daddies and they will tell you how many side chics they have in different apartments and their wives have no single Clue.