Mercychen:


Lol.. see them crawling out of their cage.

Look, I don't have your own time now. I wanna believe you've not gotten over the overdose of.... (You know now) I gave you the last time. That should still last you a lifetime. You know.

So, I'll just pass because you didn't even hit a nerve with the mumble jumble you typed up there. With your muscular face and sunken eyes.
Thanks to filters for helping to fill in some parts.

Acidosis:


- What-if doubts will set in.

- Motherhood realities (one will get her desiring more).

UyaiIncomparabl:


Please, let's not start. You will regret it.

I don't have joy. I will so derail your thread you will regret why you opened it in the first place. You want to compare your amoebic look to my face? Make I post your pic side by side with mine? You dey ment?

Who does that?

No let me land you slap wey dey make cow fall o. Just go fix your insecurities and try to find a relationship before menopause comes knocking or else na you and pillow go dey kpansh for night.

And errm, I'm waiting for your mod boyfriend to come do his justice. You good for nothing with a guttersnipe look.

Jealous old hag.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Please, let's not start. You will regret it.



No let me land you slap wey dey make cow fall o. Just go fix your insecurities and try to find a relationship before menopause comes knocking or else na you and pillow go dey kpansh for night.

Jealous old hag.

UyaiIncomparabl:
This one is not ready for marriage.

Selfishness, narcissism and foolery embedded in one post. Reeks of me, me, me. If I were the guy, I'll just happily take my L in peace and jet out of this already mentally stressful relationship. What a pity for the poor man.

Why not freeze all your eggs instead since you want one child than force your demonic and narcissistic opinion into his head?

You go tay for house. No be say she even fine sef.

Mercychen:


Off point as usual.

Anyways, I ain't got time to banter words with an unattractive lonely soul like you. It's very evident in your tone that as much as you wish, you ain't getting the attention of the opposite sex and that has taken a toll on your reasoning making you talk left when others are talking right. You're clearly starved of the attention you seek hence the bitterness.

Please, I'm not the cause of your painment. Go pick on somone your own Size and let me be. I owe you nothing.

I'm so done with you.

Holy molly! Emi? Starved of attention? This one pain you enter bone marrow no be small.
You don buy market you for take time go through my profile for here make you for know say you be moimoi case, you go soon deactivate this account as I dey see you so

Mercychen:


Lol.. see them crawling out of their cage.

Look, I don't have your own time now. I wanna believe you've not gotten over the overdose of.... (You know now) I gave you the last time. That should still last you a lifetime. You know.

So, I'll just pass because you didn't even hit a nerve with the mumble jumble you typed up there. With your muscular face and sunken eyes.
Thanks to filters for helping to fill in some parts.

Mercychen:


Thats why Ive stopped picking his calls. Let him look for someone that will give him battalion.



What was it they talked about. Just brief me. I would have gone to YouTube to watch it but right now I'm too tired to watch anything or reason straight.

I'm really stressed.

IgiveLadiesBj:


Please do you have her pix?
I'm really curious to see what she looks like.
But why una dey call am old hag

Michelle55:

Holy molly! Emi? Starved of attention? This one pain you enter bone marrow no be small.
You don buy market you for take time go through my profile for here make you for know say you be moimoi case, you go soon deactivate this account as I dey see you so

On a more serious note, you thought being a woman would stop people from calling you out when you are utterly wrong and selfish? Please think again inugo

You want someone to give up his fertility when we are not even sure you are worth the stress, you are a nag and very manipulative. Your posts here reeks of it big time, you didn't only suggest the one child policy but also insisted he should go through the process of getting the vasectomy. Perhaps I'm missing something here, abeg who you be again? As Otedola pikin wey you be or as virgin Mary? Even Mary can't ask Joseph such sacrifice except God lays it in his heart to do so.

Trust me, you ain't worth nada! I pray God opens the eyes of the young man to see the kinda hellfire on earth he's about to carry into his bosom! Amen!

Eboski:


My own opinion two kids are okay, please I will not advise you on one kid,
did he tell you he want battalions?
How many children did he accept with you?
Going into a marriage with a condition isn’t good, I am married my wife and I agree on two kids, if you like the man and he suite your idea man talk more with him, try to know how many kids he want, also agreed on two kids with him…

It will be hard for you to see a man that will agreed with you on vasectomy… unless he’s not from Africa. My own opinions

Mercychen:


This here explains your bitterness and anger and to think I didn't see this before concluding you're being starved of attention big time. With this, im right afterall.

After fighting for what you don't deserve, and couldn't get it, you resorted to resenting those getting it on a platter of gold.

Better go easy on yourself before you let hate and bitterness consume you.

Bragging to be a local "moimoi" champ says a lot about you and your parole on here.

You and uyaicomparable are welcome anytime to display your local drama as the local champs that you are.

*Drums rolling**..

I'm enjoying every bit of your drama, I'm done with work for today so I've got enough time to call you out, you this hypocritical creature.

Aren't you tired of creating new monikers all to get the male folks attention ( the same ones you've swore never to have anything to do with) woo, you've not seen anything yet.

About attention, omo I get am plenty and e no fit cease at all cos I'm not manipulative, selfish and bittered like you. One bros try toast you, fiam you run come update your village people for social media make e no be say nobody dey look ya way, come to us for lesson on how to keep them coming

No reasonable and right thinking man wants a nag and self absorbed hypocrite as a future partner, you ain't fit and worthy to sacrifice anything for.
Obiakpor chairlady!

Mercychen:


I don't know why you have taken this whole thing personal from your very first comment. You really sound pained.

So what if I said I was done with men?
Do you, or any of your monitoring agents know if I made that statement to ward off the men on here?
Do I have to spell everything in black and white to the letter before you guys can get my drift?

I don't like engaging bitter souls like you but I just had to do this to clear whatever stupid notion you're having about me and make you understand I don't give a damn what you or anyone think about my activities on here. So, get lost!

Take your bad energy elsewhere; do yourself a favor and buzz of my mentions.

RightToReject:
@OP

Michelle.55's posts here might not be palatable to you and your ilks hearings, but you need them for your advancement and betterment. The worst enemy people like you have always had with or without knowing is the disingenuous and/or bigoted lots that abound here, of course, you are part of them; those who are always eager to either feign carefree and allow you lots to continually destroy yourselves or tell you lots what you want to hear and lend support in your failings in the name of needless gender solidarity, wannabe gentlemanliness and other nonsenses under different guises. Her kind of person who will not mind losing being in your good book if she calls you out, as she has done here, is the kind of lady you need around closely if you mean well for yourself. Of course, it is also her kind who will stand solidly behind you when the chips are down.

Not in support of unjust cruelty, nonetheless.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

efficiencie:


Why not do a hysterectomy? I mean if you remove your ovaries, no pregnancy, no side effects or hormonal imbalance, nothing! Imagine the man were to say "oh honey, I want us to have just one child and we can stop there and have a lot of fun so why don't remove both your ovaries so we are sure you can never get pregnant again". How does that sound? Well that's exactly how it sounds in the ears of the man. No one is every comfortable with a likely or possibly irreversible medical procedure that could leave them impaired for life. Now imagine you do a hysterectomy only to discover later that he is a cheat and that you want a divorce. You would have closed your chances to have another child for another man who may turn out to be your Mr Right. I am sure the man is also thinking in this manner.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

MufasaLion:
Vasectomy needs more awareness. Most men don't understand how it is and most people don't even know it exist. You just gotta talk to him and explain things to him. Most people believes family planning is only done to the females.

Moreover, ego is among the reasons he kicks against vasectomy. An average African man wouldn't want to live his life knowing his semen is useless.

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with wanting just one kid?

Must all your kids friends and companions come from the same sac and womb?

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume she shot herself in the foot though. I mean if I am in a relationship and I want one and only one kid, what is selfish about making that known to my partner?

From what she relayed, things were already flowing between them - he even called her "darling" - before she made her intentions known. Was she supposed to maybe wait till the night before their wedding to get it out or something? I mean when exactly will be more appropriate to let you partner know of a thing like this?

Well, they were having the conversation so he revealed what he wanted and she said what she preferred and argued for it. Isn't that how you reach agreements in any relationship?

What is wrong with a vasectomy? I read somewhere that the cost is around N 100,000 and it is reversible with less side-effects. What other family planning method comes close for couples who are serious and in it for the long haul?

freeborn02:


Can you allow your son or brother to do vasectomy, you dried brain idiot?

MufasaLion:


In the write-up, did you see me enforce vasectomy on men? Go back and read to understand and not jump to comment.

And if I had a son or brother, I wouldn't care if they do vasectomy or not. I don't interfere in people's private life.

Mercychen:


You have time to reply this demented fellow.
There are people who are not worth engaging. Just starve him of the attention he seeks.

MufasaLion:


Some people are just dumb. If you ask him what vasectomy is, he wouldn't even be able to say anything. Empty skull!

Mercychen:


Lol.. exactly my point. He may even think it means to cut off his manhood.