I dated a lady that wanted more than a relationship

Marriage was the priority for her...
I wasn't ready like it wasn't part of my own deal and I never for once discuss about that with her ...

We are in a room together fully ready for sex but I told her ...we can have this sex but it won't change anything....

If you cool with it...let's start riding
If not...

So she went for the No Marriage talk No sex..


We stop talking afterwards

Some of us are still trying to remember when we rejected sex....Mehn....really hard to remember one o

CedarHoldings:
she called you brother Ade

Guyman wan know if na him sister... She called him broda Sabinus �

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Get a life nigga.

zed7:
Whilst single, I have declined lots of offers such as, 'I'm home alone', kissing, outrightly telling me they want sex etc. I've never being in a position of making out and declining. Don't know if that will be possible o.

Men with self control always think deeply about the consequences of sleeping with women, especially in naija. Our women mostly equate sex to commitment. Once you have that sex, it becomes emotional blackmail, demands etc. A wise man should always weigh the consequences of sex. Moreover, 'free sex' is usually regretted.

You have a point!

Carlmax:


Guyman wan know if na him sister... She called him broda Sabinus �

na oga Ade she call you

OP, it seems like you're a bad boy. I will tell you my own experience shortly.

blockgeek69:
Ladies most times think guys cannot say NO to free fvcks, but that's not true. Well that day, I was proud of my self for crushing her ego LOL.

Niggas in the house, have you had similar experience, please share.

This!!!

They need to learn that we're not all primal beasts who think with their little heads. Yeah, some would fXck anything in skirts but for some of us, our erection is not our direction in life.
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Mine was in my house too. This lady had been calling me for past 6 months. On that faithful day, she came to my house and I was with my friend. Gave me all the signs in this world for me to ask my friend to leave for some privacy but I refused.

She then became so unhappy. Began to say some men are so stubborn but my friend couldn't understand the statement. My phone rang and she took it and said to me, one of your girlfriends is calling you. I was just laughing.

At 7pm, she said she's not going home anymore. That she wants to spend the night with me. She then went straight to my room leaving me in the sitting room.

My friend later slept in the visitor's room. That same night, I couldn't sleep. I denied her access to my body. She went completely crazy calling gay next morning.

There was this girl that forcefully visited me back then in school, i welcomed her. Aunty come tell me say she wan stay for one week. I was like for which house?
Every night it was game of thrones, it got to a point she had to kneel down to beg me for sex. I told her i am running a heavenly race, i don't want to sin. Aunty come vex dey preach tell me say sex is not sin
After two days i told her i am traveling out of the state, she said she will wait for me to come back, i was like shuuu. Abegi come dey go your house. Till today she's still saying i am wicked.

rollybest:
There was this girl that forcefully visited me back then in school, i welcomed her. Aunty come tell me say she wan stay for one week. I was like for which house?
Every night it was game of thrones, it got to a point she had to kneel down to beg me for sex. I told her i am running a heavenly race, i don't want to sin. Aunty come vex dey preach tell me say sex is not sin
After two days i told her i am traveling out of the state, she said she will wait for me to come back, i was like shuuu. Abegi come dey go your house. Till today she's still saying i am wicked.

Women always go crazy whenever you deny them sex.

I'm now a master at denying women sex.

updatechange:



U mean a Gay?


Lol, I've also had several encounters in the past, had one recently and she was like can we make out, and I was like well yes, but certainly not in this kinda circumstances... We were at work outdoor, it'ws late... cameras everywhere and people can see from the neighboring houses.


To cut the story short I don't really like the girl and that na why!
If na girl wey I like na me go first pull

Everything is not about sex homie


Thats why bītches feel entitled

Yes o

It's happened with a lady older thank me.

I was 26 she was 36, but I never let her know I was younger because I acted like I was same age with her .

Got in talk with her, few weeks later I told her i would love to see her in my Crip, she was like no she can't come to my Crip on the first date, we argued and finally we agreed to book a hotel which I did.

On that faithful day, she brought big banana with bottle of gradnut, na there i know say I have a Darby match .

We got talking and laughing, banny enter bathroom to bath, came out with just towel, we begin match, as for me I only go 3 rounds and nothing else . Banny Sabi, after first, second and third round, girl still want more .

I was like oh my goodness in my mind, but I no wan show am for face, I managed to go 4th round that took like forever, after that banny still want more but want to go get something outside before another round.

Na there me reason banny say I wan go give person something say me dey come back because we re supposed to sleep over.

Oh boy me enter next available cap and zoom off, banny called and called I no pick, finally I picked and told her that it was an emergency and I have to travel but will be back in 3 days time.

After 3 days she still dey call if I don come back, na so I give excuse till she decodes my stricks .


Her sexual strength no be here my brethren.

Thank God for my lifeon that day if not I for do strong man die when my time never reach

Some girls na madness when it comes to sex.

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. Nasty.. I'm out of here

Yes, because I am a muslim.
Wẹ say no to premarital sex

blockgeek69:
I was just going thru my WhatsApp status recently when I saw my one time friend back in the days, then I had a flash of our one time encounter.

We had a good rapport and was friends on a semi neutral levels, one or two romance and pressing of boobs, that's all.

I was always looking forward to the day I will bang the hell out of her, well she was well into me but some months into our friendship I noticed how cunning and deceptive she was, couple with with fact that I wanted just FWB but she was hell bend on a relationship. Who want commitment? Well, our friendship had a crack. I gave her a lot of space.

So this faithful day she called and said she was coming to my crib to spend the night, I was like what's up with you? She was bla bla bla she is travelling the next day that she will travel from my place. Mind you she has never been to my place before.

Well the banny came, we gist, ate. I come put movie for her go sleep. What woke me up was her hand cripping into my boxers.

Babe was hot and wanted it badly , I told her I wanted it before but I don't want again. In my mind, this is what I have wanted all the while, why I dey dull na? Gbola Is willing but my spirit is dull.

Funny thing is I was already hard from her touch... we had a little talk, look for several excuses to escape banging her that night, babe was acting like a female dog on her heat period.

Told her I don't have a CD, cannot do raw... babe said she doesn't care that she is ready to do raw... I was like Hhaaa!

I now offered to finger her really hard and she was creaming and moaning. At one point she stop and said she want My gbola that my fingers aren't satisfying. Mind you all the while my chairman stand at attention, but I said never!

We hard intense arguments, I looked for several excuses, even told her I don't know My HIV status, it fell on deaf ears. Lastly I told her Well, I have a GF now and I can't cheat on her (lies).

At that moment,her high tension fell flat. She went to the bathroom, washed up and never talked to me again till the next morning. I shaa slept with one eye open that night, don't underestimate what this bitchesss can do.

The next day she left and that was the end of our little rickety friendship, although we still view each others WhatsApp status and just pads without saying a word.

Ladies most times think guys cannot say NO to free fvcks, but that's not true. Well that day, I was proud of my self for crushing her ego LOL.

Niggas in the house, have you had similar experience, please share.

Nice one paddi

Idamond:
exactly what happened to Me years back. there is this beautiful girl that was employed in our company newly and immediately we became very close and she was disturbing almost every time that she needs to come to my place and finally one fateful day she trace me to my house and I wasn't angry, we gist eat, watch movies it get to a time she needed something special and we get into romance until she became wet and wanted me to **ck her that were world war 3 started, I have to start telling her diff lies not to FCK her, to cut the story short after much lies she got angry and put on her cloths and left my house.. that was the end was Solomon Grundy..

my reasons was that I don't trust fine gals, too much body count,far of decease and finally I just wanted to see how it looks like to reject sex from women

After that day she no go talk to you.

Nat404:
Mine was in my house too. This lady had been calling me for past 6 months. On that faithful day, she came to my house and I was with my friend. Gave me all the signs in this world for me to ask my friend to leave for some privacy but I refused.

She then became so unhappy. Began to say some men are so stubborn but my friend couldn't understand the statement. My phone rang and she took it and said to me, one of your girlfriends is calling you. I was just laughing.

At 7pm, she said she's not going home anymore. That she wants to spend the night with me. She then went straight to my room leaving me in the sitting room.

My friend later slept in the visitor's room. That same night, I couldn't sleep. I denied her access to my body. She went completely crazy calling gay next morning.

This is loud oh

rollybest:
There was this girl that forcefully visited me back then in school, i welcomed her. Aunty come tell me say she wan stay for one week. I was like for which house?
Every night it was game of thrones, it got to a point she had to kneel down to beg me for sex. I told her i am running a heavenly race, i don't want to sin. Aunty come vex dey preach tell me say sex is not sin
After two days i told her i am traveling out of the state, she said she will wait for me to come back, i was like shuuu. Abegi come dey go your house. Till today she's still saying i am wicked.

Heavenly Kee you there.

rollybest:
There was this girl that forcefully visited me back then in school, i welcomed her. Aunty come tell me say she wan stay for one week. I was like for which house?
Every night it was game of thrones, it got to a point she had to kneel down to beg me for sex. I told her i am running a heavenly race, i don't want to sin. Aunty come vex dey preach tell me say sex is not sin
After two days i told her i am traveling out of the state, she said she will wait for me to come back, i was like shuuu. Abegi come dey go your house. Till today she's still saying i am wicked.

Chai... Confirmed glory sucker, dem really send am come to you

Severally

Not every pussycat should be banged

@ OP She was probably already pregnant and tried to set you up with the baby

I did back in the days. I try to avoid women that visit prophets and celestial priests.
This lady came to my area after visiting a spiritual father then wanted to Bleep me. All I got was a head. I refused sex. Didn't want any spiritual issh.

Bigredmachine:
I can only run away from a pu**y... That I have already banged in the past... If I found out u aren't good and wanting me to do the whole job

Secondly... Am always prepared for anything, my working apparatus must always be in my wallet so no excuse of I don't have this and that...

Run ko Sare ni

Even the one that will put you for permanent problem.
........see wisdom from gragra kid

luvyaself95:
This is loud oh

Yes but it doesn't really matter to me a lot. However, self-control is the ultimate. Unfortunately, most people lack it.

1Sharon:
@ OP She was probably already pregnant and tried to set you up with the baby

Might be possible, cos her desperation that day was on another level.

I once choose watching Real Madrid vs Barcelona over a free p***y too....all persuattion and begging fell on deaf hears.

blockgeek69:
I was just going thru my WhatsApp status recently when I saw my one time friend back in the days, then I had a flash of our one time encounter.

We had a good rapport and was friends on a semi neutral levels, one or two romance and pressing of boobs, that's all.

I was always looking forward to the day I will bang the hell out of her, well she was well into me but some months into our friendship I noticed how cunning and deceptive she was, couple with with fact that I wanted just FWB but she was hell bend on a relationship. Who want commitment? Well, our friendship had a crack. I gave her a lot of space.

So this faithful day she called and said she was coming to my crib to spend the night, I was like what's up with you? She was bla bla bla she is travelling the next day that she will travel from my place. Mind you she has never been to my place before.

Well the banny came, we gist, ate. I come put movie for her go sleep. What woke me up was her hand cripping into my boxers.

Babe was hot and wanted it badly , I told her I wanted it before but I don't want again. In my mind, this is what I have wanted all the while, why I dey dull na? Gbola Is willing but my spirit is dull.

Funny thing is I was already hard from her touch... we had a little talk, look for several excuses to escape banging her that night, babe was acting like a female dog on her heat period.

Told her I don't have a CD, cannot do raw... babe said she doesn't care that she is ready to do raw... I was like Hhaaa!

I now offered to finger her really hard and she was creaming and moaning. At one point she stop and said she want My gbola that my fingers aren't satisfying. Mind you all the while my chairman stand at attention, but I said never!

We hard intense arguments, I looked for several excuses, even told her I don't know My HIV status, it fell on deaf ears. Lastly I told her Well, I have a GF now and I can't cheat on her (lies).

At that moment,her high tension fell flat. She went to the bathroom, washed up and never talked to me again till the next morning. I shaa slept with one eye open that night, don't underestimate what this bitchesss can do.

The next day she left and that was the end of our little rickety friendship, although we still view each others WhatsApp status and just pads without saying a word.

Ladies most times think guys cannot say NO to free fvcks, but that's not true. Well that day, I was proud of my self for crushing her ego LOL.

Niggas in the house, have you had similar experience, please share.

Bravo

blockgeek69:
I was just going thru my WhatsApp status recently when I saw my one time friend back in the days, then I had a flash of our one time encounter.

We had a good rapport and was friends on a semi neutral levels, one or two romance and pressing of boobs, that's all.

I was always looking forward to the day I will bang the hell out of her, well she was well into me but some months into our friendship I noticed how cunning and deceptive she was, couple with with fact that I wanted just FWB but she was hell bend on a relationship. Who want commitment? Well, our friendship had a crack. I gave her a lot of space.

So this faithful day she called and said she was coming to my crib to spend the night, I was like what's up with you? She was bla bla bla she is travelling the next day that she will travel from my place. Mind you she has never been to my place before.

Well the banny came, we gist, ate. I come put movie for her go sleep. What woke me up was her hand cripping into my boxers.

Babe was hot and wanted it badly , I told her I wanted it before but I don't want again. In my mind, this is what I have wanted all the while, why I dey dull na? Gbola Is willing but my spirit is dull.

Funny thing is I was already hard from her touch... we had a little talk, look for several excuses to escape banging her that night, babe was acting like a female dog on her heat period.

Told her I don't have a CD, cannot do raw... babe said she doesn't care that she is ready to do raw... I was like Hhaaa!

I now offered to finger her really hard and she was creaming and moaning. At one point she stop and said she want My gbola that my fingers aren't satisfying. Mind you all the while my chairman stand at attention, but I said never!

We hard intense arguments, I looked for several excuses, even told her I don't know My HIV status, it fell on deaf ears. Lastly I told her Well, I have a GF now and I can't cheat on her (lies).

At that moment,her high tension fell flat. She went to the bathroom, washed up and never talked to me again till the next morning. I shaa slept with one eye open that night, don't underestimate what this bitchesss can do.

The next day she left and that was the end of our little rickety friendship, although we still view each others WhatsApp status and just pads without saying a word.

Ladies most times think guys cannot say NO to free fvcks, but that's not true. Well that day, I was proud of my self for crushing her ego LOL.

Niggas in the house, have you had similar experience, please share.