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Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by God1000(m): 1:32pm On Dec 05, 2021
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Sonnobax15(m): 1:35pm On Dec 05, 2021
lipsrsealed
A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu undecided

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Bigredmachine: 1:36pm On Dec 05, 2021
The man is a fool...

Why not marry the lady before sending her to school, or who don marry no dey go school...

At times some men behaves like they don't have choices in this life which is bad...

Always read the end from the beginning, now they have left u behind, u are lamenting

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by brightisodje(m): 1:42pm On Dec 05, 2021
how will a sane man sponsor a lady at school and expecting her to marry him. Nigeria ladies don't play with opportunity. they believe they have pay you with sex in as much a higher bidder proposed to her she won't think twice. focus on your family members even if they won't appreciate your good do it more the happiness will definitely still remine in your family. Nigeria girls are scammers just like our politicians.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Bigredmachine: 1:45pm On Dec 05, 2021
brightisodje:
how will a sane man sponsor a lady at school and expecting her to marry him. Nigeria ladies don't play with opportunity. they believe they have pay you with sex in as much a higher bidder proposed to her she won't think twice. focus on your family members even if they won't appreciate your good do it more the happiness will definitely still remine in your family. Nigeria girls are scammers just like our politicians.

Sex that both parties enjoyed... Rather that the lady even enjoyed more

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by God1000(m): 1:47pm On Dec 05, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu undecided
We just have to learn from people's mistakes.
This nonsense has to stop

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by God1000(m): 1:48pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bigredmachine:
The man is a fool...

Why not marry the lady before sending her to school, or who don marry no dey go school...

At times some men behaves like they don't have choices in this life which is bad...

Always read the end from the beginning, now they have left u behind, u are lamenting
Abi oo, such people will abandon their family members

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Sonnobax15(m): 1:51pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bigredmachine:
The man is a fool...

Why not marry the lady before sending her to school, or who don marry no dey go school...

At times some men behaves like they don't have choices in this life which is bad...

Always read the end from the beginning, now they have left u behind, u are lamenting
Woman wey go move go must surely move one day...If you like buy many rings for all her finger nails like queen of the rings,she go still move leave you.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by God1000(m): 1:51pm On Dec 05, 2021
brightisodje:
how will a sane man sponsor a lady at school and expecting her to marry him. Nigeria ladies don't play with opportunity. they believe they have pay you with sex in as much a higher bidder proposed to her she won't think twice. focus on your family members even if they won't appreciate your good do it more the happiness will definitely still remine in your family. Nigeria girls are scammers just like our politicians.
You are right bro, my niece own is still paining me, but thank God she's a family member.
Me and my brothers assisted her in uni from 100-400 level, one stupid boyfriend later hijacked her and she forgot her entire family, we didn't even get a thank you from her

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Bigredmachine: 2:07pm On Dec 05, 2021
Sonnobax15:
Woman wey go move go must surely move one day...If you like buy many rings for all her finger nails like queen of the rings,she go still move leave you.

I know all these man... But marrying her is like handicapping her, which will make her running difficult... But not impossible...

Anyway I can't lose guard to that extent o... Not now when yahoo boys wey fit buy heaven and earth give girls full town...

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Sonnobax15(m): 2:22pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bigredmachine:


I know all these man... But marrying her is like handicapping her, which will make her running difficult... But not impossible...

Anyway I can't lose guard to that extent o... Not now when yahoo boys wey fit buy heaven and earth give girls full town...
cheesy cheesy. Thank God say you know reach like that self cheesy. Any ways,play safe cha cool

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by OloshoMan: 5:16pm On Dec 05, 2021
It is still the stupidest thing ever, but simps will always lose

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by mosdii(m): 5:23pm On Dec 05, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Nonexisting: 5:36pm On Dec 05, 2021
Only simps do that. I'm happy most of them are paying for that foolishness. Why will I pay a vaginarian's school fees when she no be my sister? I'll rather pay for a random dog to go to training school instead.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by MufasaLion: 5:38pm On Dec 05, 2021
Naw!!! I ain't gonna do that. Any nigga that wanna do it should know that it's not obligatory for the babe to marry him! Some niggas are just not smart enough to know that.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by MufasaLion: 5:44pm On Dec 05, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu undecided

Your brother wasn't smart enough. He shouldn't have sponsored her at all. Doing such things for woman doesn't guarantee marriage and most guys that do it ain't even financially buoyant enough. Most of them struggle to do it all because of love for a lady that's gonna meet another cool rich guys in school ready to spend for her without stress

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by zanshi: 12:03am On Dec 06, 2021
Naija women don't know how lucky they are with Naija men.

Go to countries like UK, USA which man go help you pay student loan except he is a multi millionaire or extremely generous.

Some men in some countries don't have time to extend this level of generousity to a fully able bodied women.

It's like God giving you the man you can dev with and build something and you are telling him noo he is not good enough and that i will go find mine.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by SarutobiEky(m): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2021
The painful part be say men like themselves dey find who go sponsor them, them no dey ever see. It is well. We always find a way to go around our shii

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by posty56: 10:37pm On Dec 06, 2021
Nigeria men they make me laugh, they think once you wife a lady she is automatically committed to you, my guy woman wey go run you street, go run you street.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by knowhowk: 10:43pm On Dec 06, 2021
U mean there are still Daft that does this Nonsense ?

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:38am On Dec 07, 2021
One Yahoo boy dn dey bend the girl for school na....some men no go ever learn

Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu undecided
Your bro friend?? Abi you??

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by iLoveYouToo(m): 9:39am On Dec 07, 2021
Even your wife can turn against you, help na help

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Logdots78: 9:39am On Dec 07, 2021
lol
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Offpoint1: 9:39am On Dec 07, 2021
Any guy doing that or thinking about doing it should stop.

I have a female friend which her boyfriend has been sponsoring her schools for years, she's serving now. She confided in me that should won't marry the guy... I was heartbroken cuz I knew this guy through her, very quiet guy. I won't even state what he does for a living, this compounds the pain.

Only train a woman you're married to, women generally are emotionally unstable... Only few are deeply deeply in love can withstand the temptations out there.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by HaykynLibra: 9:40am On Dec 07, 2021
Investment that has no return.. OYO

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by BlackyOne(m): 9:40am On Dec 07, 2021
STOP IT.... why not use the money to marry her, then get her to acquire a skill afterwards and then set up a family business so she can manage it....MAKE UNA DEY GET SENSE OOOO

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Optimistguy1969: 9:40am On Dec 07, 2021
Nønsense everywhere
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by padi94(m): 9:40am On Dec 07, 2021
A foolish act, anyway dey say love is blind, but most people don't know love is also foolish

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by TOPCRUISE(m): 9:41am On Dec 07, 2021
Such acts are done by the immatured. Your maturity will be tested when she get pregnant for another person or marries any Dangotes or Davidos that are available to propose to her.

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