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Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Wizkidfc: 10:45am On Dec 07, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzBEk2p7qHU

Parents of dowen college students on a zoom call: Mother flares up because her child was bullied. former counsellor admits to inhuman treatment amongst students.

''Why are you speaking now that a child has died?''- Nigerian mum attacks ex Dowen college counselor who said the students in the school are not well monitored (video)

Parents of students in Dowen college Lagos and a former counselor in the school recently had a zoom meeting in the wake of the death of one of the students of the school, Sylvester Oromoni. The meeting was facilitated by the Concerned Parents and Educators network.

Sylvester, 12, died on Tuesday, November 30, after he was allegedly bullied by his seniors in the school dormitory.

A former counselor who joined the zoom meeting said the students are always left unattended to in the dormitory.

''I worked at Dowen college for several years. One of the problems we have with most of the boarding houses today is that the structures are not purpose built for boarding houses. I might be referring to Dowen college.

In a situation where you have several floors and no floor has a house parent monitoring the students. By the time you hear a sound and you go upstairs, the seniors have changed the story. That's exactly what happened at Dowen college.

From the first day they moved most the students from a hired building into a permanent hostel, it was a time bomb waiting. Eventually I resigned because of that situation. The children are not well monitored''

An aggrieved mother then interjected, asking why the former staff is just saying this now after a child has died. She mentioned that her son who attended the school at some point, was also subjected to the same ''inhumane treatment'' Sylvester mentioned he was subjected to by his seniors before he died.

''I am sorry to say. Why are you saying it now that Sylvester has died? Why did you not say it since. Why are you saying it now? My child was bullied and almost died in Dowen college. Why did you not speak out then? A child has died now. You saw these things for nine years and then you left the school.

My son is a victim. They did exactly what they did to that boy. They put of the light. They beat him. They carried a box on his head.' she said amidst tears.

Speaking further, the aggrieved mum said

''The thing that they did to Sylvester Oromoni, they did it to my son. They entered the room. They put off the light. Seven of them who brought my son to kneel down. They put a suitcase on his head. They were dancing round him like an occultic gathering. They were beating him at the same time. They took out a phone, They recorded it. That video is online somewhere. And you are telling me that you left Dowen because of the bullying. Why did you not say it so that people would not make the mistake of taking our children..I have been crying since on Thursday when I saw this video. I have not eaten. I have not drank. I have not slept. A child has died. That boy was 11 years. Same age with my son. It could have been my son that died. I was lucky. Sylvester wasn't lucky.

You are saying this now having observed this thing for nine years. What basis are you talking? On what grounds are you talking? They give security man in Dowen college ATM to go and withdraw N50, 000 and they begin to spend the money. Children would spend money. The children call security men by their names. ''

She said the boys' hostel in Dowen college lacks indiscipline but that a female teacher in Dowen, Celine, ensured that the girls' hostel is disciplined.

''The only grace the girls hostel has is because of a lady called Celine. She is the woman in girls hostel. You cannot bully in girls hostel in Dowen college. But you see the boys hostel, that third floor is the den where they commit the havoc. These children are bad. Everything Sylvester Oromoni said is the truth. They should arrest Ahmed and Valentine. These are the housekeepers.

The principal told me that she saw my son's video of being bullied but she did not think it was important to act because they had not posted it online. She saw it and slept on it. And you are telling me that you knew and you people allowed us to be bringing our children. You collect three million for school fees and you cannot mount CCTV cameras.''

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/12/why-are-you-speaking-now-that-a-child-has-died-nigerian-mum-attacks-ex-dowen-college-counselor-who-said-the-students-in-the-school-are-not-well-monitored-video.html

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Drambo: 10:51am On Dec 07, 2021
Funny how the counselor new all these was going on & he just kept mute

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Deedonn: 11:01am On Dec 07, 2021
Funny how he was trying to shut the woman up

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Machalawizzy: 11:10am On Dec 07, 2021
This is sad

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Eilishh: 11:19am On Dec 07, 2021
Women equals energy!! Love how the counselor was made to keep quiet

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Porshealien: 11:31am On Dec 07, 2021
cry
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Yemlizzy(f): 11:35am On Dec 07, 2021
This is very sad I cried embarassed Slyvester has died just like that. This counselor didn’t try one bit, if he spoke out when he noticed all these it won’t get to this level.

The culprits shouldn’t be allowed to go freely. Slyvester should get the justice he deserves. His death is just a terrible one.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Omahlayy: 11:44am On Dec 07, 2021
The name of this school don spoil

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Wasolaa: 11:53am On Dec 07, 2021
Eilishh:
Women equals energy!! Love how the counselor was made to keep quiet
Women finally support women! Let's keep this energy

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by mikkeyvirus: 12:02pm On Dec 07, 2021
Mehn
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Partyhat(m): 12:16pm On Dec 07, 2021
The woman's energy >>

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Jackgriffo: 12:23pm On Dec 07, 2021
Wizkidfc:
Parents of dowen college students on a zoom call: Mother flares up because her child was bullied. former counsellor admits to inhuman treatment amongst students.

Watch video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LqRbGqo1q68
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Damzzydam: 12:40pm On Dec 07, 2021
Shameless man

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Gokuvegeta: 12:52pm On Dec 07, 2021
Mention the names of your child's bullies so they'll also be arrested

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Lizzygreene: 1:43pm On Dec 07, 2021
Omo

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Zico5(m): 2:00pm On Dec 07, 2021
Ok

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by yesloaded: 2:01pm On Dec 07, 2021
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Bayaar02(m): 2:02pm On Dec 07, 2021
The school will cease to be a school when Nigerians are done with them.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Mindlog: 2:02pm On Dec 07, 2021
Sighs....I remember my term paper in child and adolescent psychology class during my undergrad and it was on the irrelevance of boarding schools in the present day. I got to work with adolescents in boarding schools and I really got insights on how messed up, things are.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by WonderManly(m): 2:03pm On Dec 07, 2021
Make i just dey imagining how the outcome of this issue will be. Abi...

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Chummynoni(m): 2:03pm On Dec 07, 2021
If you take your child to boarding school because he/she is stubborn, you are also a murderer/ bad parent. Train your child/children yourselves, sch wont do it better

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Offpoint1: 2:04pm On Dec 07, 2021
pathetic...
They hide all the atrocities to project a man business because money is more valuable than human lives, it's quite pathetic.

No matter how rich or how stubborn your kids are, avoid boarding schools. What goes on in those schools will give the devil shocks.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by izzy4shizzy(m): 2:04pm On Dec 07, 2021
Bullying occurs in almost all boarding houses that's a fact.

During my days , a senior will walk in with an empty bucket and ask us junior students to "garnish it" meaning put garri, sugar, milk, bournvita, kuli kuli etc, para venture we don't have, na serious beating

Not to talk of pocket money those miscreants collect from us on a daily basis.

Fetching water for senior students na the worst, them go give you like 10 buckets

I have seen first hand where an ss3 student used a machete (Langa Langa) to flog a student putting on just boxers .

After my JSS3 nobody tell me before I carry my two legs jakpa never to return again

MODIFIED

For those curious, na FGC and
Judging by the quotes am getting, alot of you guys also had similar experiences

Boarding school matter plenty

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by MidaserveNG: 2:06pm On Dec 07, 2021
sad
No CCTV? Nonesense

When there are Battery Powered, Solar with WiFi or those using 4G SIM such that you're connected everytime without downtime.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by seunolu7: 2:06pm On Dec 07, 2021
Chai. Hope the children are also not taking drugs supplied by flat heads kaa?

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Ijaya123: 2:07pm On Dec 07, 2021
This school is done for.

Parents better go enroll their wards in other schools.

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