ChiefSosa:

There's a difference between teasing your friends with playful jabs and actual bullying. Actual bullying has negative effects on the psychological, mental, emotional and social lifestyle of an individual. Haven't you heard of people that committed suicide because they were bullied? Haven't you heard of people that murdered their bullies later in life?

Bringing up the issue will also help victims; it'll encourage victims to speak up and also go a long way in the fight against bullying in our schools. She's indirectly saving other kids' lives before they become another casualty.
#RipSylvester
#Justice4Sylvester

bjtinz:


How exactly does a parent bully his children. You mean if I flog my child that's bullying?

I really think some of you guys are taking this thing too far.

Wilyvibes:
I'm a popular loner,like a tiger My boarding sch life full of challenges but based on ruggedity we face am, when I left the school they have to tell my junior bro dat got admitted after me some stuff about me, he told me n I smile � you know those feelings e sweet 1 kind

Magnoliaa:


I HOPE this is not a justification?

xynerise:
Kids these days cant stand bullying. In my days, we have a session where we sit together and yab one another.

Omoluabi16:
Ndi I be career woman, I'm a busy man globetrotting. Some parents abi sperm and egg donors can not even observe changes in their children. This is a wake up call for parents especially.

I am curious why these stories are only pointing fingers at big expensive schools. All must be well at mushin olosa grammar school then.

Kanto47:
Being friendly with your kids helps a lot. Some parents' behavior and character can scare the hell out of a child. Imagining a child being scared or afraid whenever Dad or Mum is back at home, such child will not be able to speak up whenever he or she is facing with challenges. Parents-Child relationship matters a lot. Now, some one said to my daughter ( 9 years old) that one day, I will rape you. when she came back that same moment, she told me, Daddy this is what that uncle said. I didn't waste the next second I got him arrested and he confessed to the statement. What am I trying to say, because we, her parents always encourage her to say out anything that happens to her, in her school, church just anywhere, God help parents and our Children.

bjtinz:


How exactly does a parent bully his children. You mean if I flog my child that's bullying?

I really think some of you guys are taking this thing too far.

xynerise:
Kids these days cant stand bullying. In my days, we have a session where we sit together and yab one another.

bjtinz:


How exactly does a parent bully his children. You mean if I flog my child that's bullying?

I really think some of you guys are taking this thing too far.

ChiefSosa:
Another one!
Everyone that attended Boarding school has one or more bully stories to tell, including being bullied by school authorities. The school authorities will continue to cover up reports of bullying simply because they don't want to lose money, students or reputation. When a Jss 1 student reports a bully incident to the boarding house authorities a.k.a. Porter, porter will tell the student that when he/she gets to a higher class, that he/she can do anything to upcoming jss1 students. And that's how the cycle of bullying continues. So many traumatized kids in boarding house. I once attended a boarding house that felt like a North Korean labor camp. There is always this negative feeling we get when we were resuming back to school.
The school's walls are so high that outsiders can't even see into the school, unless a gate is opened for teachers' cars to come in. I know students that were recaptured like criminals and brought back to school when they tried scaling the walls to communicate with outsiders. I also know someone that scaled the wall and went into hiding for days until he was found. No provision, no money, no visitation, no contacts with outside people, etc. If you're ever opportune to get visitation, the school authorities will be there with you and even instruct you beforehand on how to act and talk throughout the visitation. .
It's like you're a puppet that is taught to put on a show, so visitors will think everything is all good. If you miss any part of the script, then be rest assured that you and every other defaulter will spend the next 30hours locked in a dark toilet.
Fun fact: The school I just described above belongs to one of the biggest, richest and most influential Christian family we have in Nigeria. I'm sure some of you have seen them in Newspapers and magazines, but you just didn't know they were wolves in sheep clothing.
Dear parents, some of your kids in boarding houses will not tell you about their bad experiences there, simply because they're traumatized and some are even threatened by the school not to reveal their ordeals. It takes the grace of God and special parental skills before you can get information out of these kids.

xynerise:
Kids these days cant stand bullying. In my days, we have a session where we sit together and yab one another.

bjtinz:


How exactly does a parent bully his children. You mean if I flog my child that's bullying?

I really think some of you guys are taking this thing too far.

nextstep:
First of all, RIP to Sylvester.

I'm seeing these posts of abuse and bullying... knowing fully well that these same parents complaining are the worst at abusing their own househelp and even their own children. Then they will come and pen some crap about how it's wrong. Please fix the log in your eye, etc.

Sayymalvin:
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BarrElChapo:
I attended a boarding school a unity one at that & I make bold to say it shaped me into the man I've become who can and has survived many situations whilst still standing tall

Kanto47:
Being friendly with your kids helps a lot. Some parents' behavior and character can scare the hell out of a child. Imagining a child being scared or afraid whenever Dad or Mum is back at home, such child will not be able to speak up whenever he or she is facing with challenges. Parents-Child relationship matters a lot. Now, some one said to my daughter ( 9 years old) that one day, I will rape you. when she came back that same moment, she told me, Daddy this is what that uncle said. I didn't waste the next second I got him arrested and he confessed to the statement. What am I trying to say, because we, her parents always encourage her to say out anything that happens to her, in her school, church just anywhere, God help parents and our Children.

callthefred:
I'm quite amazed about all these incidences if bullying. an be called to preach unexpectedly. And yes we get beat up by teachers on a steady when we misbehave.

However, beating m, I was beaten like a criminal and made to sleep outside.