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What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by ghostboy: 4:04pm On Dec 08, 2021
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Parrie(m): 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2021
Cheating and nagging

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Olunmercy56(f): 4:16pm On Dec 08, 2021
Cheating, receiving calls outside, bad communication, slapping or beating, lies

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Ebubechuwku(m): 4:19pm On Dec 08, 2021
I hate liars apart from that, we are good.... shaa don't lie...tell me everything and tell me the truth..

And I detest people who are cold, who don't talk...

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Godada(m): 4:30pm On Dec 08, 2021
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by MufasaLion: 4:41pm On Dec 08, 2021
grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Polynek(m): 5:26pm On Dec 08, 2021
Making a secret call when am around her

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by jericco1(m): 5:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ingratitude
Supercilious attitude
Laziness
Low IQ

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by SirbobbyDgreat: 6:28pm On Dec 08, 2021
Is her mother living with her father?

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 6:43pm On Dec 08, 2021
If her toto has gone slack,I leave without looking back.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by LesbianBoy(m): 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2021
A rude and mannerless lady (and there are plenty of them) is a no no for me!

A lady that wants equality. All my experiences has shown me that ladies especially the Nigerian ones don't really want equality in reality, na only mouth and when they feel it favours them.

So these days when I hear a lady talk about equality, what comes to my mind first is.....


"And yet another MUMU girl who think say she dey wise"


angry angry angry angry angry angry

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by KingZaddy(m): 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2021
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That would definitely be body odour and mouth odor... It doesn't matter how beautiful she may be.... I'm out...



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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by FalseProphet1(m): 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2021
sad

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by BigSarah(f): 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by GRACEGLORY: 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
The kinda woman or man you want, only exist in your head. If you can’t overlook, you are not ready for a relationship

People can overlook any shortcoming, but they will not tolerate arrogance.
-Sushma Swaraj

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Mko123(m): 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
Ability to drop pu**y for you at the slightest request.

Just wanna play prank on her but I ended up cumin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Niece: 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.
Every redflag shouldn't be overlooked.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by dfrost: 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
Gluttony. I detest gluttons with a passion. angry
A woman with an untamed appetite could sleep with your neighbour for fried rice and chicken if you went broke...

Others are unforgiving heart and cheating... Not to be tolerated at all.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by iamyemiakins(m): 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
If you're too friendly, that's a red flag!
You're prone to be a gossiper grin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Talk2david1(m): 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
Entitlement mentality! Unfortunately this is really common amongst Nigerian ladies of nowadays especially the ones not working. The believe everything should be given to them while they cross their legs, relax and just demand.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by younglleo: 6:48pm On Dec 08, 2021
Dis one Na For people wey dey relationship!
Us jst hate loose kpekus

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by greenie77: 6:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder.....can't deal!

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
switching her phone to silent mode or rejecting some calls while you are together, red flag.

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
Liar
Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Nahunger(m): 6:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
Na the RELATIONSHIP gan gan be my REDFLAG

cheesy

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by dfrost: 6:49pm On Dec 08, 2021
MufasaLion:
grin grin grin

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

MufasaLion be calming down. Na person born you na brother cheesy grin

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Johel(m): 6:50pm On Dec 08, 2021
ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.


Lack of common sense, lifestyle and hygiene

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by Komolafe89: 6:50pm On Dec 08, 2021
Lying, bcs it's the root of all atrocities

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Re: What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? by mkoabiola: 6:50pm On Dec 08, 2021
Coconut head

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