Enny2013:
Stingyness...

GRACEGLORY:
The kinda woman or man you want, only exist in your head. If you can’t overlook, you are not ready for a relationship

People can overlook any shortcoming, but they will not tolerate arrogance.
-Sushma Swaraj

uthlaw:
pls can you explain this bad communication?

Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

LesbianBoy:
A mannerless lady is a no no for me!

A lady that wants equality. All my experiences has shown me that ladies especially the Nigerian ones don't want equality in reality na only for mouth and when it favours them.

So these days when I hear a lady talk about equality, what comes to my mind first is.....


"And yet another girl who think say she dey wise"
Oga, how can you be looking to being superior
to her when the both of you are female? Infact the only thing separating you both is that you are a boy and as you may know a boy is a child.
I didn't say so, your moniker did. LESBIANBOY

Afriqan:
Gluttony. I detest female gluttons with a passion.

Those ones would sleep with your neighbour for fried rice and chicken if you go broke...

Others are unforgiving heart and cheating... Not to be tolerated at all.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
If her toto has gone slack,I leave without looking back.

BigSarah:
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

Niece:
Every redflag shouldn't be overlooked.

Mikefrik:

You detest people who are cold doesn't make them bad. It's the way God created them. It's not a bad trait like lieing, adultery and the rest. Please, if you don't like such people leave them for those who do. To some others they are gems.

Timekeeper:


One liability spotted.... U want him to give u money bcox u don't have hands to work abi

ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.

ubaobi:
The only thing that can't be fixed is cheating

newdawn2017:
gluttony isn't gender based. So I can't deal with any

BigSarah:
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

Johel:



I value friendship most

Enny2013:


Haa! I meant, "core stingyness"