Hathor5:
She is the one you should talk it over with.

You should tell her how you feel about her behavior and not us.

It is always better to seek direct communication first.

Talk to each other instead about one another.

NovesaTillie:
Her money is her money.
Your money is OUR money

I'm not that kind of woman.
My husband will be lucky to have me.

ogawisdom:
Lol

she doesnt believe in supporting his man financially.

you are wasting ur money opening a business for her except u dont mind if she doesnt support ur family from the biz.

whatever u do never ever go broke otherwise u will see ur ears with ur eyes.

Have plans A to F for making money n different reserve funds for the family.

By the way 95% of women are like dt, it's difficult for a woman to give their husband their money. In ur case i am shocked she let her daughter go to bed hungry, women don't play with their kids

Mrkumareze:
Op, she is not working yet, wait until she starts business... And, don't expect her to start spending from a biz that's not stable yet.. grow your wife, she ll support you when she balance wella...
no reason wahala, the economy sometimes frustrates man thinking ... to survive in naija as a family man, u get to be strong psychologically n physically

Palema007:
" you saw her bank balance, she lied that she doesn't have cash. It was too late to go to bank" all these you typed in a paragraph yet you resent your wife for something as an incident as unclear as this? What if she doesn't have cash truly and it was really late to go to the bank for her too?. Seriously op, the feeling of resentment should be felt towards anyone let alone your wife. It is deep anger that results in hatred.

You two are still very young in your marriage, you are just getting to know and understand one another. I believe it is at this stage you both build your communication strength. Obviously your wife is just coming to terms with what marriage is. That's why she is treating you as a boyfriend by buying you gifts and not supporting the family financially. Talk to her, some people needs to be told what is expected of them before they do it.

Mille:


Exactly what I was thinking. Of what use is opening a business for her if I'm not getting any benefits.

Mehn, I was shocked she did that and it was the main reason I lambasted her. My daughter only takes breast milk and adult food. She'll rather take water than cerealac. I already told my wife I'll never forgive that in my life.

Mille:


Exactly what I was thinking. Of what use is opening a business for her if I'm not getting any benefits.

Mehn, I was shocked she did that and it was the main reason I lambasted her. My daughter only takes breast milk and adult food. She'll rather take water than cerealac. I already told my wife I'll never forgive that in my life.

Mille:


Perhaps you didn't understand my post. Let me explain a bit. I actually saw her bank balance. I still saw it the same evening and the next morning. I know how much was in there at the time. I have always been self-sufficient from a young age so I have never cared about anyone else's money.

When I say it's too late for me to go to the bank. I mean it was already past 4pm and banks would be closed by then. Anyone familiar with dorm accounts know you can only withdraw dollar at the counter in the bank.

Mille:


Perhaps you didn't understand my post. Let me explain a bit. I actually saw her bank balance. I still saw it the same evening and the next morning. I know how much was in there at the time. I have always been self-sufficient from a young age so I have never cared about anyone else's money.

When I say it's too late for me to go to the bank. I mean it was already past 4pm and banks would be closed by then. Anyone familiar with dorm accounts know you can only withdraw dollar at the counter in the bank.

merieam16:
u had better forgive that and move on. Marriage is all about enduring and forgiveness....e be like say u never ready. Marriage is not for the faint at heart

Raalsalghul:


Another member of the sisterhood.

Marriage is all about endurance yen yen yen.

So he should endure the fact that his wife was willing to let their child go to bed hungry even when she had the resources to feed her.

And yet you people wonder why they say "marriage is a scam".

Jesus Christ, this is beyond me.

Mrkumareze:
Op, she is not working yet, wait until she starts business... And, don't expect her to start spending from a biz that's not stable yet.. grow your wife, she ll support you when she balance wella...
no reason wahala, the economy sometimes frustrates man thinking ... to survive in naija as a family man, u get to be strong psychologically n physically