solomto:

she's 28 and earns 120,000 p/m and her family are comfortable too. The only advice i gave her was to drop the car since its too flashy and may b get a smaller one.
Concerning d men, i was thinking that those men are nt educated and thus d ego in them coz i discused it wt my guy and he said that traders doesn't like their wife to earn more than them to avoid the disrespect.

upendo 98:

Oooooh.Okay thank you for that dear

Shes kind of past the 'age'but come on,28 is still young as there's women at 35 still searching. Am 81 and searching anyway.
Well if shes comfortable then she should live her life.
[b]PLEASE DO NOT ADVISE HER TO SELL HER CAR IN ORDER TO GET A MAN!! [/b]jeeeez! thats soo remote and cruel.Wrong foundation to a happy future.
What has a car got to do with marriage anyway unless you want to worship it more than your spouse.A man worth her standard will come along one day and will embrace her together with all she got.
Hes only coming to add value to her life not take it away and viceversa!!
Now are u telling me that its only market traders that live where she is the bank?? I mean tell her to get out there.
Ask her to place herself in strategic places and she will get her kind.
She spends all her hours in the market, then she will get market people cz they are the only ones noticing her.Dont blame them.
Do you have great hang out places there? I blve yes.Go with her every weeknd

ikoha:

i dont think her status warrants her to be treated like that, well, am 34, i work with a renowned satellite tv company in lagos, if she is good-looking, speaks igbo, not too fat and a wife material then send her number to papifrankee@yahoo.com. i am seriously looking for a wife.

@MBG4Real

Are you for real?? First did you say am 18 and a baby?? oh pliz ok I wont comment on that.Always read btw the LINES before u pass judgement
By me saying am 81 not even as u claim,18,Am trying to make her see that 28 is not very old since some women older are still on the field
Now you dont even know my status at all. sorry.
Another thing, are you saying the best advise is for her to SELL HER CAR?? Get real.
Cant you even see what some REAL men here are talking about here
Seriously evrybody here makes sense except that one bit.
Finally oops soryy I dont stoop low to the point of insult.I am way too mature for that.
Just asking are you like the NL chief whip or something?? I dnt knwo for real. clarify.I would appreci

ikoha:

i smell something fishy here, how come the bank gave her a car and she is just earning a miserable 120K, leaves in a 3-bedroom apartment. maybe she didnt tell you her actual monthly earning. becoz for the bank to have given her a car, that means she is a high flyer in her department, therefore, the car should also come with promotion which translates to a fatter income. 120K is below the start-up salary of a banker in today's banks unless the bank in question is a micro-finance bank bcoz i have a frend that just landed a job in a new gen' bank, her salary as a beginner is 180K gross. and as per the apartment, somebody earning 120K cannot inhabit a 3-bedroom flat in a decent part of the city(lagos), where i stay. maybe the lady stays in a place like Aba, Onitsha or Enugu. meanwhile am still open to hearing this lady's side of the story. plz tell us the truth.

Donlittle:

Before I. Used to say I won't marry sum1 richer thn me
But now that the recession, has caused wahala, no money ehnnn,
Omo I go marry. Obasanjo pikin this time around, or even BuhAri self?

Hey girls, dnt call me a gold digger

ronkebp:

You no get problem, 'hand supposed wash hand, ' then it will be cleaner,

my mum actually believes a spinster shouldn't drive so as not to scare guys. But, to me I don't believe that. I'm even getting a car soon. A good man will love you for who you are, irrespective.

@ kobikwelu.

Stop being funny now.
I am outtta of here b4 I get clobbered.
In case nobody sees me again,you all know the culprit.
Gone to intercede

9jarocks:

How did she get a 3 bedroom apartment earning 120k/month  

i need her magical powers

Obviously not in Lagos or other buzzy cities . . If yes, let's assume  she was catered for in her office . . Wonder where she is working  

solomto:
My friend is desperate for marriage and weneva she takes a guy to her apartment,the guy wl forget everytin abt her.
She works in a bank and the men that met her likes whatever the see in her physically,she drives a good car and lives in a well furnished 3 bedroom flat. She works in a City that is predominantly wt traders.she narrated her ordeal to me and she also said that the car she's driving was provided to her by her employers as a prize gift.
Nw she was asking me wat to do to attract suitors since they were avoiding her.