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I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Rachel98(f): 11:04am On Dec 23, 2021
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Kriss216: 11:05am On Dec 23, 2021
But, are you a prostitute?

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by helinues: 11:06am On Dec 23, 2021
Na when would this make Nollywood movies?

undecided

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by isaiah4life(m): 11:06am On Dec 23, 2021
You exhibit the traits of one. wink

If you can't stand your ground and bluntly refuse to stay with him in a hotel, then you will continue to be his hoe.

Next time, say no. If he's not fine with it, bounce.

Tell him wife to be acclimatise herself in her intending spouse house while hoes stay in the hotel.

If he's not fine with it, moooooooove. His not the only guy on planet earth.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by coolcharm(m): 11:07am On Dec 23, 2021
Dump his ass. You deserve better.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nyascobar1414(m): 11:08am On Dec 23, 2021
Daah.. Juz pele oo
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by HopeVictor(m): 11:09am On Dec 23, 2021
Omo..

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by house10s: 11:13am On Dec 23, 2021
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

let start dating, am searching for a gf to start something serious with

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by habsydiamond(m): 11:15am On Dec 23, 2021
Only a prostitute will agree to sex in the hotel every time with a client. Ur boyfriend can make out with u in his house and u still think he is not up to something.. U better be careful.. Do u even know if he don use u finish self.. U need deliverance once u end the relationship

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by VOsimhen144(m): 11:15am On Dec 23, 2021
NobleSeed:
few more days to 2022 ,abeg I dey beg this kind fallacious and yeye Post should end this year abeg.wtf angry
na wa for una. Person dey find help. U dey insult am.

O.P. Maybe your boyfriend get secret relationship. That's why he's not taking you serious.
Pick his call and tell him it's over. You deserve better.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Double0h7: 11:16am On Dec 23, 2021
If you've allowed this behaviour for a whole year, what's changed now that you want a different style?

Maybe he thinks he's spoiling you when he takes you to hotels and he's being freaky when he takes you in the car

Maybe he has noticed something about your behaviour, since he's an observant and intelligent man and he is passing a message to you.

Maybe he thinks you're a prostitute. The list is endless so you have to make a decision. Pick up his call and tell him everything on your mind and if his answers don't satisfy you then move on.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by ab1x: 11:19am On Dec 23, 2021
He has a girlfriend. You are just his side chick

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:19am On Dec 23, 2021
house10s:


let start dating, my searching for a gf to start something serious with

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Ynix: 11:20am On Dec 23, 2021
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.
Stop being stupid by building your life around a man who feels you are just good for sex outside of marriage. If he want sex he should marry. Be wise

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Rachel98(f): 11:22am On Dec 23, 2021
SmellySperm:

Op answer this simple question. Are you?
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by NobleSeed(m): 11:23am On Dec 23, 2021
which help? Make we tell her to go back and start having sex in his boyfriend car abi? So you take the op serious? You are doing well .
VOsimhen144:
na wa for una. Person dey find help. U dey insult am.

O.P. Maybe your boyfriend get secret relationship. That's why he's not taking you serious.
Pick his call and tell him it's over. You deserve better.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by dingbang(m): 11:23am On Dec 23, 2021
cheesy
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Hamzaaaaaaaa(m): 11:25am On Dec 23, 2021
Well, if the first intimacy takes place in his place before opting for hotel in other subsequent ones, that means the styles you gave him during the sex indicate that you are a bloody hoe

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:26am On Dec 23, 2021
Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.
Yes babes. Your parents trained you well to be giving doggy to a love peddler in hotels and car.
They didn't train you to be chaste undecided

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Whazar(m): 11:27am On Dec 23, 2021
U no even sabi lie

So if he wan gbola u for midnight too u go go hotel mtchew

Abeg shift asahwwo

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Rachel98(f): 11:27am On Dec 23, 2021
Nat404:
You're probably dating and cheating on him with other guys and that's why he doesn't take you serious.

Stop cheating on him!
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Rachel98(f): 11:28am On Dec 23, 2021
SmellySperm:

Yes babes. Your parents trained you well to be giving doggy to a love peddler in hotels and car.
They didn't train you to be chaste undecided
Pls don't bring my parents into this. I never said I had sex with him in the car.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nat404: 11:29am On Dec 23, 2021
Rachel98:
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.
You aren't faithful to him.

Again, stop cheating on him with so many guys. That guy is very smart.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nobody: 11:30am On Dec 23, 2021
Rachel98:
Pls don't bring my parents into this. I never said I had sex with him in the car.
But you gave him reverse cowgirl in hotels?

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by LordIsaac(m): 11:31am On Dec 23, 2021
Just imagine what this gender is prepared to put up with for comfort. And in the other thread, one was saying women are stronger than men.....I laugh in Swahili!

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:32am On Dec 23, 2021
its called RESPECT FOR YOUR FATHER'S HOUSE.. but hey, here is a simple clue: if you want to have sex inside house, why dont you go and have sex with him in YOUR father's house?! EOD

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by daddytime(m): 11:40am On Dec 23, 2021
Those 5-6-year-old kids in the neighbourhood definitely know something you don't know about brother-hotel. Dem go just dey look you like "aunty wey mumu" with corner eye.

By the way, what does this boyfriend do for a living? Im just asking oh.

I'd advise you to buy some lollipops plus some "knockouts" for them this season and sit them down for a gist. Believe me, they'll fill your ears up with original gists about your guy in their innocence.

Follow my suggestion and come back here to update this thread.

Check my siggy...

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