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Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 12:28pm On Dec 25, 2021
I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.

He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.

I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.

The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.

Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Righteousness2(m): 12:42pm On Dec 25, 2021
First of all Nobody has a right to Force or threaten you in a bid to obtain things from you under any guise. It should be solely your Decision to give or not to give.

Secondly I sense Fear in you.
That fear is of the devil.
You need to Soak yourself Genuiely in JESUS Christ so that you can Live and Operate in POWER! So that any being that tries to bully you Spiritually or Physically will be quickly sent to meet our Creator

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Ynix: 12:42pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gsve us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.
He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.
I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family, . I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.


The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter
Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?
Bros all you need is wisdom. Speak with your wife and mother in law. Call the man too and gist with him and just divide the gift into 50% for both party. It's only December..
Moreover fear no man, Prayers answers it all.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by KiNg0G: 12:54pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gsve us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.
He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.
I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family, . I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.


The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter
Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?

too many weak men in our generation who can't man up to speak when need be..... thank you Lord for creating men like us different.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Mariangeles(f): 12:55pm On Dec 25, 2021
Ynix:

Bros all you need is wisdom. Speak with your wife and mother in law. Call the man too and gist with him and just divide the gift into 50% for both party. It's only December..
Moreover fear no man, Prayers answers it all.

Doing that would be enabling his entitlement mentality. Op owes him nothing , as he’s not the father of op’s wife.
Does he not have his own children? He should sit down and mind his business!

Even if op decides to give him anything, it should be of his own free will.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Wawelexy: 1:06pm On Dec 25, 2021
OP fear not, u owe him nothing. You can only give out of willingness.....

Just dey ur lane, and if he ask for anything, politely explain things to him.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:07pm On Dec 25, 2021
Too many greedy people. The man is hungry. You do not owe him, however you can give him a token like once in every 2-3yrs and not a yearly affair. You take the items for a genuine MOG to pray over before you give him, or you ensure that whatever gift you give him is strictly cash. That is cash paid through POS/bank, and not direct transfer. Beware of village people.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by NoToPile: 1:07pm On Dec 25, 2021
Ignore the uncle inlaw, all these Uncles that's how most of them are.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by GboyegaD(m): 2:47pm On Dec 25, 2021
First, get close to the God you worship so that He can help you destroy the world of the evil ones concerning you.

Tell the uncle, you got no business with him and he had no right to dictate how you spend your income. Match him man to man.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by missimelda01(f): 3:51pm On Dec 25, 2021
What do you mean by ‘threatening fire and brimstone’? Because of food items? He hasn’t said what’s on his mind yet. Pay no attention to him abeg, plus why are you scared of witchcraft like this?

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by anthonyuncle(m): 4:17pm On Dec 25, 2021
guy,
bone that rubbish man with his entitlement mentality.
who knows if he wasn't jealous of what you were giving his brother and then went ahead to do chinwetalu agu things on the guy.
if your mother in-law is fine wink then no need to guess


Righteousness2:
[i] First of all Nobody has a right to Force or threaten you in a bid to obtain things from you under any guise. It should be solely your Decision to give or not to give.

Secondly I sense Fear in you.
That fear is of the devil.
You need to Soak yourself Genuiely in JESUS Christ so that you can Live and Operate in POWER! So that any being that tries to bully you Spiritually or Physically will be quickly sent to meet our Creator

one thing you are very good at is timing .
the way you hijack first comments is classy.

your comments are also cool,
but you should've backed this one up with a Bible verse naw grin

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 4:18pm On Dec 25, 2021
missimelda01:
What do you mean by ‘threatening fire and brimstone’? Because of food items? He hasn’t said what’s on his mind yet. Pay no attention to him abeg, plus why are you scared of witchcraft like this?

All i need is advise,abi you no be Africa?

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 4:20pm On Dec 25, 2021
KiNg0G:


too many weak men in our generation who can't man up to speak when need be..... thank you Lord for creating me different.

Know ye that he is my in-law i can't treat him as with every other person
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Kobojunkie: 4:26pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:
I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family, . I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.
The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.
Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter
Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?
Divorce your wife because her uncle is bullying you? You be man at all? undecided

Why are you paying the man any attention though? Does he service his own uncle-in-laws in the same manner which he demands of your wife? Abeg, learn how to ignore people and move on with your life abeg! undecided

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 4:28pm On Dec 25, 2021
missimelda01:
What do you mean by ‘threatening fire and brimstone’? Because of food items? He hasn’t said what’s on his mind yet. Pay no attention to him abeg, plus why are you scared of witchcraft like this?

You mean i shouldn't mind him but that is what I decided to do before but himself is not relenting for he resorted to narrating me to neighbours and loved ones
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Kobojunkie: 4:28pm On Dec 25, 2021
Ynix:

Bros all you need is wisdom. Speak with your wife and mother in law. Call the man too and gist with him and just divide the gift into 50% for both party. It's only December..
Moreover fear no man, Prayers answers it all.
Rubbish.... divide wetin? The man is her uncle and should instead be giving to her ... not taking from his niece. undecided

You speak of wisdom but this your suggestion reeks of folly. undecided

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 4:31pm On Dec 25, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Too many greedy people. The man is hungry. You do not owe him, however you can give him a token like once in every 2-3yrs and not a yearly affair. You take the items for a genuine MOG to pray over before you give him, or you ensure that whatever gift you give him is strictly cash. That is cash paid through POS/bank, and not direct transfer. Beware of village people.

Bros e be like say you don get espiriece for this kind things before.
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 4:38pm On Dec 25, 2021
Righteousness2:
First of all Nobody has a right to Force or threaten you in a bid to obtain things from you under any guise. It should be solely your Decision to give or not to give.

Secondly I sense Fear in you.
That fear is of the devil.
You need to Soak yourself Genuiely in JESUS Christ so that you can Live and Operate in POWER! So that any being that tries to bully you Spiritually or Physically will be quickly sent to meet our Creator
Sorry Bros you mean it's this easy?i am not trying to be not able to do anything but does it comes easy and goes easy?
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Righteousness2(m): 4:47pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:

Sorry Bros you mean it's this easy?i am not trying to be not able to do anything but does it comes easy and goes easy?

It is very Easy my Brother! It is up to you to Decide to Genuiely Soak yourself in Christ not just in Mouth but indeed. When you Decide to walk with JESUS in truth and in Spirit, No Human, Spirit or Demon can tamper with you.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 5:01pm On Dec 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Divorce your wife because her uncle is bullying you? You be man at all? undecided

Why are you paying the man any attention though? Does he service his own uncle-in-laws in the same manner which he demands of your wife? Abeg, learn how to ignore people and move on with your life abeg! undecided
Noted.
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by edego2up(m): 5:07pm On Dec 25, 2021
Righteousness2:


It is very Easy my Brother! It is up to you to Decide to Genuiely Soak yourself in Christ not just in Mouth but indeed. When you Decide to walk with JESUS in truth and in Spirit, No Human, Spirit or Demon can tamper with you.


You get mindooo unna na which church you dey go sef,abi you na pastor?
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Righteousness2(m): 5:14pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:



You get mindooo unna na which church you dey go sef,abi you na pastor?

You know what! Just Locate any Lord's CHOSEN Church near you. Listen to the teachings and adhere to what is being thought.

Dem no Born any man, woman, Principalities, Demon or devil to Do you anyhow again.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by oluseyiforjesus(m): 5:42pm On Dec 25, 2021
U give rice to u father in-law lolx, who will cook it? I even tot d mother in-law was no more until u said wen father in-law died u Start giving mother-in-law
Guy u funny

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by Godada(m): 5:43pm On Dec 25, 2021
shocked
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by DMerciful(m): 5:44pm On Dec 25, 2021
What's your business with your uncle in law?

So you're afraid of shadows(witchcraft) hence your lamentations?

Don't worry about him, I wonder why you even care! You're a low income earner, nor go dey do pass yourself!

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by helinues: 5:44pm On Dec 25, 2021


Seh the uncle in law no get his own children ni?

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by AliyuMahdi9: 5:44pm On Dec 25, 2021
I am trying to understand the correlation of Divorcing your wife in this matter.

Have you discussed the issue with you mother-in-law and your Wife?

Your MIL and your wife , are in the best position to advice you, if there insist you should do same for the Uncle, then I advice you share what goes to your MIL and the Uncle equally.

Times are hard, as you mentioned you income is low, no body expects you to do too much, that you sent something to him, is a way of saying you remember him.

Since you did not give him, anything this time around, the best is to place a call to him, and sincerely apologize, and assure him henceforth you will do.






edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.

He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.

I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.

The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.

Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?
Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by ednut1(m): 5:46pm On Dec 25, 2021
Ignore him. His own children or direct in laws should be his concern. May we never marry into a family with useless relatives.

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by greenie77: 5:46pm On Dec 25, 2021
Such entitlement! angry

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Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by seguno2: 5:46pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.

He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.

I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.

The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.

Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?

Did you not know about the witchcraft before you chook your head inside their family matter by marrying their daughter
Ayam not understanding

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