Dear fellow NL friends,
Am a guy who resides in Nigeria having a relationship with a lady in far Australia,
Who have been in a long distance relationship that ended up to becoming a wedlock " marriage"
Kindly advise because of recent my girl always form busy" saying she is busy busy at work due to timing difference " also uses the word i will call you when am free but she always never call me back. I noticed she always check my WhatsApp status daily, funniest part of it anytime I bring up marriage things she do say we should exercise patient.
My fellow NL family advise a brother.

She's seeing someone else

Abfinest007:
She's seeing someone else

What is your best advise should I move on ?

What makes you think long distance relationship works for women?

Oluromantic:
What makes you think long distance relationship works for women?

No idea brotherly, just guide a brother on the best next line of action. I appreciate

Osagbovo2:
Dear fellow NL friends,
Am a guy who resides in Nigeria having a relationship with a lady in far Australia,
Who have been in a long distance relationship that ended up to becoming a wedlock " marriage"
Kindly advise because of recent my girl always form busy" saying she is busy busy at work due to timing difference " also uses the word i will call you when am free but she always never call me back. I noticed she always check my WhatsApp status daily, funniest part of it anytime I bring up marriage things she do say we should exercise patient.
My fellow NL family advise a brother.

Client wey we dey manage, dey use catch cruise, e reach your turn you go dey catch feelings

Oga, most long distance relationships don't work, an average girl gets up to 5-10 toasters everyday not to talk of the Beautiful ones, then you'll expect your girl faraway in another continent (Which might be very beautiful sef) to keep saying No to guys who Approach her everyday? You must be a Joker!

She might be sincerely busy though (but who becomes busy forever? no matter how busy you claim to be, you'd Squeeze out time for that person you like/love I think) telling you she would call you back and not get back to you is bad. In anything you do, just don't give her 100% of your trust and always expect the worst when dealing with these Pussynarians (and to think she's a Nigerian girl is a big cause for Concern)

I don't know for you oo but Long distance relationship is a no-no for me. Like, it's dead on arrival sef!!

Well, whatever way you choose to handle it, I wish you the best

I'm off!!!

Op which kind work she dey do there? Or she just a student there? Always call her around 11pm our time, she will be in the morning there and sometimes around 12noon here ,she will be in the night there around 10pm . always consider her time factor too ,you know our Time is 9hrs diff

EmzyT:



Client wey we dey manage, dey use catch cruise, e reach your turn you go dey catch feelings

Oga, most long distance relationships don't work, an average girl gets up to 5-10 toasters everyday not to talk of the Beautiful ones, then you'll expect your girl faraway in another continent (Which might be very beautiful sef) to keep saying No to guys who Approach her everyday? You must be a Joker!

She might be sincerely busy though (but who becomes busy forever? no matter how busy you claim to be, you'd Squeeze out time for that person you like/love I think) telling you she would call you back and not get back to you is bad. In anything you do, just don't give her 100% of your trust and always expect the worst when dealing with these Pussynarians

I don't know for you oo but Long distance relationship is a no-no for me. Like, it's dead on arrival sef!!

Well, whatever way you choose to handle it, I wish you the best

I'm off!!!

Brotherly you just open my eyes and the feelings just start declining about her. Am beginning to get the gist now. She went to do her master degree afterwards she applied for PR and now an Australian citizen.

aktolly54:
Op which kind work she dey do there? Or she just a student there? Always call her around 11pm our time, she will be in the morning there and sometimes around 12noon here ,she will be in the night there around 10pm . always consider her time factor too ,you know our Time is 9hrs diff

She went to do her master degree afterwards she applied for PR and now an Australian citizen.

Osagbovo2:


Brotherly you just open my eyes and the feelings just start declining about her. Am beginning to get the gist now. She went to do her master degree afterwards she applied for PR and now an Australian citizen.

Bro, applying for Austrialian visa isn't a bad idea, you'd do same if you had the Opportunity. Who doesn't wanna leave this Shithole?

In whatever you do, just have an heart-to-heart discussion with her via Video call or any other means you find worthy, or better still you'd meet her people, discuss things with them and know where you belong! know your place in her life and know it fast, not her leading you on all through and then dumping you when it matters the most!

Like i said earlier; ‘Expect the worst when dealing with Nigerian Girls!’


Shalom!!!

My people, should we tell him?

Move on Dnt wait for her . .

Osagbovo2:


She went to do her master degree afterwards she applied for PR and now an Australian citizen.

abroad ,time is money. Try send her message reminding her of your love and ask her to do the same if she can't be calling you everytime

Osagbovo2:
Dear fellow NL friends,
Am a guy who resides in Nigeria having a relationship with a lady in far Australia,
Who have been in a long distance relationship that ended up to becoming a wedlock " marriage"
Kindly advise because of recent my girl always form busy" saying she is busy busy at work due to timing difference " also uses the word i will call you when am free but she always never call me back. I noticed she always check my WhatsApp status daily, funniest part of it anytime I bring up marriage things she do say we should exercise patient.
My fellow NL family advise a brother.

Lol your boo get another boo
But you never get sense to know yet bAa?

Move on ... She is seeing someone else. Naija distance relationship never work na abroad. It takes a girl who genuinely loves you to stay and stick to you. Absence they say makes the heart grow fonder. I am in long distance relationship but I don't trust my girl anything can happen. For me I am removing my heart from trusting her. This babes are funny ooo. Except God says she is your wife and both of you are destined for each other. Nobody gives excuses for what they love or who they love. That excuse is a subtle language of her communicating to you guy, begin port to another network oooo. Save your life and heart stress and free your mind.
I have been there many times.

arthurwillia:


Lol your boo get another boo
But you never get sense to know yet bAa?

Brotherly my eyes just dey clear every minutes by minutes as I read the response of my fellow NL family

Do we always need advise on some issues that are self explanatory?

kepstone:
Move on ... She is seeing someone else. Naija distance relationship never work na abroad. It takes a girl who genuinely loves you to stay and stick to you. Absence they say makes the heart grow fonder. I am in long distance relationship but I don't trust my girl anything can happen. For me I am removing my heart from trusting her. This babes are funny ooo. Except God says she is your wife and both of you are destined for each other. Nobody gives excuses for what they love or who they love. That excuse is a subtle language of her communicating to you guy, begin port to another network oooo. Save your life and heart stress and free your mind.
I have been there many times.

Your words are so touching brotherly and full of wisdom I indeed salute your courage to taking this steps in advising a brother .
I will surely respond to treatment as you have kindly advised. One love my fellow NL family

Innobee99:
Do we always need advise on some issues that are self explanatory?

Brotherly always learn to drop your piece of advise as we all need ourselves to make a better world . One Love @ innobee99

Osagbovo2:


Brotherly my eyes just dey clear every minutes by minutes as I read the response of my fellow NL family

Your head correct!
No body is too busy to chat or call her loved one
Where your mind is, is where your treasure is
It happens once in blue moon that we get too busy but when it becomes something you nag about
It’s a problem

Osagbovo2:
Dear fellow NL friends,
Am a guy who resides in Nigeria having a relationship with a lady in far Australia,
Who have been in a long distance relationship that ended up to becoming a wedlock " marriage"
Kindly advise because of recent my girl always form busy" saying she is busy busy at work due to timing difference " also uses the word i will call you when am free but she always never call me back. I noticed she always check my WhatsApp status daily, funniest part of it anytime I bring up marriage things she do say we should exercise patient.
My fellow NL family advise a brother.

Mr Man move on with your life.

How can you be in Nigeria and be deceiving yourself that you're dating someone in far away Australia?

arthurwillia:


Your head correct!
No body is too busy to chat or call her loved one
Where your mind is, is where your treasure is
It happens once in blue moon that we get too busy but when it becomes something you nag about
It’s a problem

Brotherly one love I salute your message ❤ nothing do yaaa

Kobicove:


Mr Man move on with your life.

How can you be in Nigeria and be deceiving yourself that you're dating someone in far away Australia?

Brotherly I been dey feel say the lady dey respond to treatment being that we have been together for while but na her reaction make me shout aloud for help from the Wise men of this platform to save a soul. Lol

she don go.

she's begging you to fast but you are asking for breakfast

Latest update on this my long distance relationship issue,
Dear nairaland Comrade,
I have observed that this my acclaimed lady checks my WhatsApp status upload daily but she don't say hi or respond to my Greetings even up till now that am sending this message.
Am wondering if indeed she isn't interested in me again and why is she having my number and let alone checking my status daily and every of my status upload.
Kindly advise me what could she be thinking still having my number and also checks my status daily
Nairaland comrade male and female help you friend with calm advise .
One love

Osagbovo2:
Latest update on this my long distance relationship issue,
Dear nairaland Comrade,
I have observed that this my acclaimed lady checks my WhatsApp status upload daily but she don't say hi or respond to my Greetings even up till now that am sending this message.
Am wondering if indeed she isn't interested in me again and why is she having my number and let alone checking my status daily and every of my status upload.
Kindly advise me what could she be thinking still having my number and also checks my status daily
Nairaland comrade male and female help you friend with calm advise .
One love

Gee you are in Nigeria and you think a lady in Australia is actually thinking about you because she checks your WhatsApp status, so you realize some people just watch status like film..
What if she's just scrolling through and not even bothered about what's written on it.
Move on gee

Appreciate bros�

Osagbovo2:
Latest update on this my long distance relationship issue,
Dear nairaland Comrade,
I have observed that this my acclaimed lady checks my WhatsApp status upload daily but she don't say hi or respond to my Greetings even up till now that am sending this message.
Am wondering if indeed she isn't interested in me again and why is she having my number and let alone checking my status daily and every of my status upload.
Kindly advise me what could she be thinking still having my number and also checks my status daily
Nairaland comrade male and female help you friend with calm advise .
One love

You are a big fool. An irredeemable simp.
People here gave you advice last year to forget about that girl, but you're so emotionally invested in her and so helplessly in love that you can't act right.

I know you'll still go back to act out your deranged blue pilled mentality towards her.

You're a lost soul. If you weren't, the advice given to you last year was sufficient. But you're not man enough to break away from that toxic relationship - that is, you dating yourself.

Mumu, go and beg her again. Offer to drink her urine, maybe then she'll get to reciprocate the feelings.

Bloody simp.

Abfinest007:
She's seeing someone else

this is just the simple truth. Believe it or not.am speaking from what I experienced

Osagbovo2:


What is your best advise should I move on ?

Move on, the distance is too far except you wa t to continue to deceive yourself