efficiencie:
The problem with this is that there is the risk that this woman may wait until she can't bear a child then when he finally makes it he will get another woman pregnant.

CSTRR:

But her body clock is essential TO HER.
It's a serious factor FOR HER to consider, so she is definitely not looking for the wrong thing.

Treepower2000:
It would have been easier for him to achieve his goal before getting married. I have the feeling he has something to hide. A man still struggling at 35 cannot be said to be focused. Infact he is not serious.

BRATISLAVA:
But he should try to change her to not wanting children, right?

What is narrow-minded about her wanting a child at her age?

Is it when she's 40 she should have a child?

Is everyone a billionaire that there is a point to him keeping his wife in suspense for more than 3 years?

The kinds of advice on this forum... Do not try to change a man who is hiding his fertility issues or already secretly has a child outside so isn't concerned.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Stop being a hypocrite, will you? What do you mean by a man with better sense? Going by the OP's story, her husband is just a selfish, inconsiderate and myopic man. If you like, wait till you amass all the imaginary millions, when PMS hits you, you won't believe it.

Skyview01:


She is on point and nothing hypocritical about her stand.

ElPayaso:
So a woman of 32 years and a man of 35 years is not ready emotionally and physically to procreate? The part where they both earn close to 200k is self explanatory

Then why did he bother to get married? Why can't he chase the bag then marry later?

What was the man doing when during his youthful days?? Why did he bother to get married when he knew he was not ready to father any kids.

This is dumb. So a woman should not bother about her future cos she is married to a self centred MF

A woman earning 70k can survive on her own.. what will be her fate if her husband dies and she is without a kid? Won't her husband family chase her out? Or you expect her husband family to fold their hands?

So her husband family most especially her husband's parents should not see their grandchildren cos of a future that is not certain? What is the assurance that all the wealth he is acquiring won't turn to dust before the arrival of the child?

Age is important. Don't reason like a nit-wit. The time they are meant to rest, that is when they'll be running helter-skelter in training a kid or you thought raising a kid at a latter stage in life is easy??

My father will always regret the stupid decision he took by having kids at a latter stage

May a man waste your sister life the same way the OP husband is doing to her now

StreetFight:


Wretched fellow looking for companions

UyaiIncomparabl:


Your opinion.

Treepower2000:

You are as selfish and deceptive as the husband. He only wants an ATM to further his ambition. Why should a man get married if he is not ready to bear children.

uthlaw:
if your wish do come true,you should have wish yourself to be like otedola...how old is your father!

amnesty7:
Imagine! Oyinbo capitalist mentality. He never knows that the kids will definitely come with their own blessings. And who promises or guarantees him tomorrow?
He may have to raise the kids in his old age.