This lady I dated back in the day. She cared for me and I took her for granted and ended it. She still kept fighting for a way back in my life but I was reluctant because I felt she having an affair with my friend after our breakup was a stain on her virtue and I would be mocked for it too.

A couple of years ago she moved on, now I find myself attracted to her again like never before. I asked for forgiveness and she accepted. I'm single but she has a boyfriend. From the conversations we had, she's ready to have me back but I'm not ready for a relationship which I explained my reasons. I'm more focused on the hustle.

The problem is, I confide in her with my biggest secrets, plans, and moves same goes with her. Apparently, I feel comfortable doing this especially when I'm depressed and need someone to talk to. Please, is this right?
She might end up getting married to this guy if I don't meet up and I won't forgive myself for everything especially sharing most of my life details with her.
My previous date knew me 90% but now she's married, I feel I'm repeating the same mistake.

Your advice is needed.

Tell but don't offend the gods,cos if you do, the gods will be angry_ fowl yansh will blow.

No

If you can't keep your secret, don't expect others to do that for you...shey you hear?
mehn love dey shack una oooo... why you go even tell woman your secret.. those ones wey dey leak anything like water? nor tell anybody wetin you go dey regret later .....shalom

Holly Gram

NA EXPRESS U DE GO...

WTF MAN

Guy, don't you have a man you can discuss life with?

Must it be a lady whose in a relationship?

Move on.

Arrrrrrrrrh

Women in general hardly close Thier mouth... No matter how compose she is some day some how she will lay one of your eggs out it doesn't matter even it's the smallest but just know she will.


I was in a same situation last 2 years. Mine, we never dated but I was having feeling for her. I thought she was nice and can keep quite, I told her most of my previous relationship wahala and she knows some stuffs about me to. But what broke the Carmel back was when her best had an altercation with my lil sis to by surprise that girl told my sis that she seniors me that my kid sis should not talk rubbish to her.... Wow... I was surprised when my sis told me, I just conclude it must be that lady... From that day on I cut every conversation that will lead to anything about me.


So be very careful who you communicate your life with.

It is a secret when you're the only person that knows about it. She might use it against you or tell others about it

manee2:
This lady I dated back in the day. She cared for me and I took her for granted and ended it. She still kept fighting for a way back in my life but I was reluctant because I felt she having an affair with my friend after our breakup was a stain on her virtue and I would be mocked for it too.

A couple of years ago she moved on, now I find myself attracted to her again like never before. I asked for forgiveness and she accepted. I'm single but she has a boyfriend. From the conversations we had, she's ready to have me back but I'm not ready for a relationship which I explained my reasons. I'm more focused on the hustle.

The problem is, I confide in her with my biggest secrets, plans, and moves same goes with her. Apparently, I feel comfortable doing this especially when I'm depressed and need someone to talk to. Please, is this right?
She might end up getting married to this guy if I don't meet up and I won't forgive myself for everything especially sharing most of my life details with her.
My previous date knew me 90% but now she's married, I feel I'm repeating the same mistake.

Your advice is needed.

This is my best advice for u.

**rather keep stuffs to **self than disclose em to persons who might hurt ** with it..

People are dangerous..trust no one..**don't even love keeping people..stay far away from people and do your thing yourself..

FernandezReturn:
**rather keep stuffs to **self than disclose em to persons who might hurt ** with it..

People are dangerous..trust no one..**don't even love keeping people..stay far away from people and do your thing yourself..

This is true but I see her as a motivator

manee2:

This is true but I see her as a motivator

Well at your risk..