Even if you're an expert at using intimacy gadgets when masturbating, using them with others can feel like a completely different tale. While it isn't an exact science, you may have some concerns about where to begin. Fortunately for you, there isn't much of a difference between using a toy with a partner and using one on yourself in many aspects. Most of the devices you use for masturbation can probably be used for partnered play as well.

Having a partner, on the other hand, brings up a lot of new possibilities, both in terms of companion-specific toys and techniques requiring an extra pair of hands. In any case, if all partners are interested, intimacy gadgets may be a great complement to any sex life. From picking the correct equipment to becoming creative, you'll find all you need to know about using intimacy gadgets with a partner right here.

First, why use intimacy gadgets?
Okay, so you're not convinced & mdash;and that's just fine. intimacy gadgets aren't for everyone or even every couple. However, if you're still undecided, there are a few compelling reasons to use intimacy gadgets. First and foremost, they're entertaining. Rosara Torrisi, L.C.S.W., PhD, a sex therapist, tells SELF, "Sex is the adult equivalent of the playground." "It's a place where we can let go and have fun." With that in mind, you are free to bring any toys you like to the playground."

Beyond that, many people—particularly those with vaginal stimulation—require specific forms of stimulation to achieve an orgasm. According to the Mayo Clinic, most persons with vaginas require at least some clitoral stimulation to get off. While a vibrator isn't required to play with your clitoris, it can be beneficial, especially if you or your partner require more strong stimulation than you or your spouse can provide on your own. Many people can only get off with the assistance of a vibrator, which is nothing to be ashamed of.

Even if orgasms aren't on the table (which is a perfectly legal approach to sex), toys provide sensations that you can't get anywhere else. So, instead of using toys, why not use toys?

Wait, what kind of intimacy gadgets are we talking about?
You can have any sex item you desire! But, just to be sure we're on the same page, let's go over some of the most popular toys and accessories that you and your partner might like.

Specific Toys for Couples:
While all toys can be turned into toys for couples if they choose to do so, certified sex therapist Courtney Geter, L.M.F.T., tells SELF that some toys are expressly designed for couples play. The Paloqueth Couples vibrator ($ 27, Amazon) can be placed in the vagina during penetration to produce stimulation for a partner's clitoris, center of gravity, and penis all at the same time.

Vibrators:
As you surely know, vibrators come in a variety of shapes and sizes, ranging from external wands and bullets to insertable vibrators and rabbits. Which is best for you depends on how you intend to use it, but there are a few factors to consider when it comes to partnered sex. For example, if you want to use an external vibe during penetration or if you want your partner to be able to hold it comfortably from particular angles, the size and shape of the vibe are vital.

Dildos, Straps, and Plugs:
Basically anything that can be used vaginally or anally to penetrate each other. This category, on the other hand, may overlap with the vibrator category. Many vibrators are dildos or plugs, and vice versa.

BDSM and Other Feel Play Toys:
Some BDSM fans prefer to refer to these items as props rather than toys, but whatever you name them, they should be on your radar. From bondage tapes to blindfolds, think of them as anything that helps you play with your five senses. Check out this compilation for additional information on Feel Game Items.