To most people , getting married is one of the greatest achievement of life. And everyone always want to make the wedding ceremony memorable and special. And millions are spend for these ceremonies.
But the reality now is that, most marriages don't practically work. Mostly, In the one that seems working, the partners are just enduring.
BUT CAN ANYONE ENJOY WHAT THEY ENDURE?
In Africa most people endure marriage because of their religions, some endure it because of stigma/what people will say-if they divorce, some endure it for the sake of the children. But with all these, the marriage don't work practically, couples are just living together.
I tell people who endure marriage because of what their religions or Holy Books say -that marriage will even take a lot of people to hell,because a place where husband and wife live and don't talk to each other, where they envy each other, where they hid secret from each other, where they fight , is not where God will want and their actions are sins.

And i always say this, Most people enjoy their single life, than marriage life. And have seen so many people that are full of life when they are single but when they marry they turn miserable.
And interestingly, nobody knows what can make any marriage work, because even money( that can make most things) can not make happy marriages- and that is why BILL GATE, BEZOS, ELON MUSK, DANGOTE, ETC are not into marriage again.
In fact, marriage has brought bondage to people, and I see people enjoy this life when they get some freedom- freedom that marriage don't mostly bring.
I laugh, when I see singles envisaging how they will be enjoying sex when they marry everyday, but in reality, so many husbands or wives are sex starved. And a lot of people are cheating too cos of this. And a lot has depression from this, if they cant get satisfaction.

Sadly, just a cheat, or one evidence of cheating can destroy a marriage of years. Does it even make sense?

Divorce is now on high rate everywhere in the world , and these are the 10 countries with highest divorce rate
Belgium- 71%
Portugal- 68%
Hungary- 67%
Czech republic-66%
Spain - 63%
Luxembourg- 60%
Estonia- 58%
Cuba- 56%
France- 55%
USA- 53%


SO GENERALLY, DOES MARRIGE WORK?

IF MARRIAGE WORK- CLICK LIKE
IF MARRIAGE DONT WORK - CLICK SHARE.

Marriages can and do work.

ENGINEERG:
To most people , getting married is one of the greatest achievement of life. And everyone always want to make the wedding ceremony memorable and special. And millions are spend for these ceremonies.
But the reality now is that, most marriages don't practically work. Mostly, In the one that seems working, the partners are just enduring.
BUT CAN ANYONE ENJOY WHAT THEY ENDURE?
In Africa most people endure marriage because of their religions, some endure it because of stigma/what people will say-if they divorce, some endure it for the sake of the children. But with all these, the marriage don't work practically, couples are just living together.
I tell people who endure marriage because of what their religions or Holy Books say -that marriage will even take a lot of people to hell,because a place where husband and wife live and don't talk to each other, where they envy each other, where they hid secret from each other, where they fight , is not where God will want and their actions are sins.

And i always say this, Most people enjoy their single life, than marriage life. And have seen so many people that are full of life when they are single but when they marry they turn miserable.
And interestingly, nobody knows what can make any marriage work, because even money( that can make most things) can not make happy marriages- and that is why BILL GATE, BEZOS, ELON MUSK, DANGOTE, ETC are not into marriage again.
In fact, marriage has brought bondage to people, and I see people enjoy this life when they get some freedom- freedom that marriage don't mostly bring.
I laugh, when I see singles envisaging how they will be enjoying sex when they marry everyday, but in reality, so many husbands or wives are sex starved. And a lot of people are cheating too cos of this. And a lot has depression from this, if they cant get satisfaction.

Sadly, just a cheat, or one evidence of cheating can destroy a marriage of years. Does it even make sense?

Divorce is now on high rate everywhere in the world , and these are the 10 countries with highest divorce rate
Belgium- 71%
Portugal- 68%
Hungary- 67%
Czech republic-66%
Spain - 63%
Luxembourg- 60%
Estonia- 58%
Cuba- 56%
France- 55%
USA- 53%


SO GENERALLY, DOES MARRIGE WORK?

IF MARRIAGE WORK- CLICK LIKE
IF MARRIAGE DONT WORK - CLICK SHARE.

We are taking generally now, so how many are working around you, or people are just enduring ?

Opeyemiextra:
Marriages can and do work.

Depends on d Parties

Dat of my greatgrandfather worked and dat of his father's father also,my grandfather's own worked,my father's own also worked..mine is working and doing great.

Yes. If you are willing to put the work in because it requires work!

Do you live with your ancestors that you know it worked? Is it the era when husband had canes to beat wives ? But in their era, marriage seems to work than now...The more the work develop, the more divorce increase...But some marriages are not working but couples are still living together, so note this

donbachi:
Dat of my greatgrandfather worked and dat of his father's father also,my grandfather's own worked,my father's own also worked..mine is working and doing great.

The work is the stress, and no one enjoy work or stress too...

Double0h7:
Yes. If you are willing to put the work in because it requires work!

ENGINEERG:
The work is the stress, and no one enjoy work or stress too...

Nobody is forcing you, stay by yourself and enjoy your life if that's what you want.

ENGINEERG:
Do you live with your ancestors that you know it worked? Is it the era when husband had canes to beat wives ? But in their era, marriage seems to work than now...The more the work develop, the more divorce increase...But some marriages are not working but couples are still living together, so note this

know the difference between married couple and married but single.

Those dat are married but single.are still in such marriages because their kids,what people will say,religion and raising kids as separate parents.

% that don't work..............% that works
Belgium- 71%........... .........................29%
Portugal- 68%.....................................32%
Hungary- 67%.................................... 33%
Czech republic-66%........................... 34%
Spain - 63%........................................ 37%
Luxembourg- 60%............................ 40%
Estonia- 58%. ..................................... 42%
Cuba- 56%............................................44%
France- 55%......................................... 45%
USA- 53%. ..............................................47%

I believe the right part of the column above answers your question ..

Correct

Favfables1:
% that don't work..............% that works
Belgium- 71%........... .........................29%
Portugal- 68%.....................................32%
Hungary- 67%.................................... 33%
Czech republic-66%........................... 34%
Spain - 63%........................................ 37%
Luxembourg- 60%............................ 40%
Estonia- 58%. ..................................... 42%
Cuba- 56%............................................44%
France- 55%......................................... 45%
USA- 53%. ..............................................47%

I believe the right part of the column above answers your question ..

donbachi:
know the difference between married couple and married but single.

Those dat are married but single.are still in such marriages because their kids,what people will say,religion and raising kids as separate parents.

I think their is something that is forcing you to do something, i pray that something doesn’t keep you single or divorce

Life is all about choice, there is a true life partner for everyone in life. Most marriages never worked cos they were built on lies, lust and materialistic things.

Only the marriages built on true love, respect, friendship, and knowing the fact that no one is perfect except God gives births to a happy family forever.

Of course marriage works well. My parents are married. I have few friends and family having a swell time being married. Marriage is heaven on earth with the right person and being the right person too.

The op has drawn his conclusion. I wonder why he is still asking us.

You guys should leave Mr&Mrs Marriage alone. They are not begging anybody to come and belong to their club.

I will only take anybody that derides marriage serious when the person will avoid bleeping totally (even self help), no child, no devil's marriage (lesbian and homo), no opposite sex friendship.