ablejesus26:


Bro there is no excuse for the rubbish the op has done.
Even if the woman comes back nothing will change,bcus nothing has been done about the issue that warrants a woman to starve her husband of sex for months and still says he irritates her.
No real man will have peace of mind if someone tells him he disgust them,not to talk of his wife.

socialmediaman:


Will he force the marriage to work? Will he lock up a woman who doesn’t want to be with him anymore? My brother, take life easy. If it doesn’t work, that’s not the end of the world. That thing people spend their lives trying to protect, they eventually lose their lives and whatever will happen will still happen.

bonnyhope:

Seriously
Most men are becoming women day by day

VickyRotex:


As in. The OP is just looking for an excuse to cheat. If not, allowing his wife to leave the house is not the solution here.

advanceDNA:
Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said she wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?


Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s our own...
Carry go..

advanceDNA:


You are funny man....
this one does not know he needs help...he even thinks he is advising us men...:

The part that god me laughing is is where he said : “Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh themself as no woman wants to be tied own”

Ive been trying to wrap my head around what he meant by “no woman want to be tied down”

advanceDNA:
Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said she wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?


Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s our own...
Carry go..
Las las dem go help am chop am

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

edunaragold:
I even called my pastor to it,and my pastor said allow her to leave ,after 3 weeks ,she is gonna miss you,honestly that is what is happing now.woman can miss somebody without telling the person I miss you .but her characters must show that she miss you,you don't need to beat your wife,but follow her jeje.even if cheating in her back without her knowing just do it, so both you will have peace at home,when you no longer make sexual advancement to her, no body go tell her say she done dey useless for house .when there are many fishes in water.

emmaodet:


Yes sir

SugarGirl44:

What should he have done o hulk Hogan?
He should have called soldiers to beat or report her to SSS.
Small pikin dey worry you.
When you get married, come back and tell us how far, till then just dey observe.

ednut1:
This marriage is dead, so if she returns you think you will now be getting sex Some women are wicked abeg after all the investments she saying you irritate her.God forbid

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

milliondollas:
THIS GUY IS A GOAT

socialmediaman:


Will he force the marriage to work? Will he lock up a woman who doesn’t want to be with him anymore? My brother, take life easy. If it doesn’t work, that’s not the end of the world. That thing people spend their lives trying to protect, they eventually lose their lives and whatever will happen will still happen.

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Hashabiah:
Brother, you are just taking a risk with this decision. Now I am not here to give you advice (since it is obvious that you have taken matters into your hands ) but you should know that having a successful marriage requires one thing: the presence God. Human wisdom will only lead to confusion and the way I see it, your marriage might just be heading in that direction if you do not put things right.

killmods:

But if the man was the one denying her sex y'all will find ways to blame him. Now his wife is denying him sex for more than half of a year u still come out to blame the man? Even if he's boring as u say a normal loyal wife will communicate and relate her pains with him then both of them will work together on it as a team. But u rather see nothing wrong in her actions. So her going solo now has it brought the excitement to their sex life? Will denying the husband conjugal right satisfy her sexually? How has she been filling that void for 7 months and counting? Most of u NL females are empty and all u have is bitterness to fuel gender wars even when no one is fighting. So quick to say he's boring. If u even know anything about what u typed, u will also know that an exciting woman can turn a boring man over in marriage and vice versa (assuming they had a no sex till wedding arrangement)... Frigid and scared lots. To say the truth dey hard una.

edunaragold:

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

Ninisun:




Have you checked the statistics of the gender that mostly shy away from se!X in marriage? Forget if you don't spice up your marriage, it really gets boring I am telling you the gospel truth. Just pray you marry a wife that is outspoken, change you for better when it comes to hygiene. I don't comment like a novice in a topic like this and please don't insult your lineage while trying to make a comment . Every couple should not just relax in marriage cus they feel n retreat no surrender..check loopholes and make positive adjustments.

edunaragold:
I even called my pastor to it,and my pastor said allow her to leave ,after 3 weeks ,she is gonna miss you,honestly that is what is happing now.woman can miss somebody without telling the person I miss you .but her characters must show that she miss you,you don't need to beat your wife,but follow her jeje.even if cheating in her back without her knowing just do it, so both you will have peace at home,when you no longer make sexual advancement to her, no body go tell her say she done dey useless for house .when there are many fishes in water.

bonnyhope:


You guys are giving women more hand

SugarGirl44:

More hands how?

emerged01:


I want to believe you are married if not you wont understand. For the fact that I said my wife is a favour from God doesn't mean we dont have our shortcomings but I thank God our love for each other and for the kids always overcome issues.
Do you know that sometimes in marriage love always fade? Those are the times when one needs the spirit of endurance and tolerance to overcome those moments. The tolerance of op doesn't mean he is stupid,his choice to tolerate is best known to him. we should not condemn him. I pray his wife appreciate him and come back for good.
No one should think he or she has full knowledge of what marriage entails. We learn day by day in marriage.