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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 8:44am On Jan 17, 2022
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 8:52pm On Jan 17, 2022
Typing... @Newboss
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 9:18pm On Jan 17, 2022
PART VII:

In a relationship, women have a propensity for logic (if you can call manipulation logic) while, funnily, men have a propensity for emotions. When one looks at this pitiful cocktail they'll see that woman thinks clearly whereas man's mind is muddied by 'love'.

Women (manipulative) + Men (naive/oblivious) = a good combo for the former; a bad combo for the latter.
The mistake most men make is that they see woman as their equal---a parent seeing their little child as an equal---and just like that, most men will lose guard. The parent gives the child leeway---gives the child power---a child in its infinite immaturity and impulsivity... One can easily imagine the outcome/aftermath.



Women have such a high sense of dependence (akin to a child) that in the absence of a man they'll herd-up and depend on one another rather than actually being independent (herd mentality).
This herd mentality is also the reason feminism is extremely prevalent amongst women. Ironically, or perhaps paradoxically, the only way to eradicate feminism is to have their fellow women stigmatise it one by one, causing a chain reaction; manifesting the herd mentality like sheeps (or kids) following one another.

Another way of observing their heightened dependence is in their everyday lives. A woman is so dependent on man that if she had her way she would make man take initiative for things she could do herself. Couple this with her indirect/manipulative nature and you get a somewhat funny sight.
For example, she's with her man in an air conditioned room and she's cold, she wouldn't ask him if he could turn off the A.C.. no no no that'd be "too direct". She'll instead say "Aren't  YOU feeling cold?" If she's hungry: "Are(n't) YOU hungry? Do YOU want to eat [insert what she wants to eat here]"

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 12:39pm On Jan 18, 2022
Typing... @chatinent SmellySperm

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 1:09pm On Jan 18, 2022
PART VIII:

To elucidate the previous points on sex,
Money and sex are not of equal value. Man gives woman money and woman grants access to man. Man works for money but woman does not work for sex; she could step outside and ask a random man to have sex with her and he probably wouldn't think twice.

Sex is mutually pleasurable despite women having the notion (rationalisation) that they are doing men a favor, whereas money given to woman is not pleasurable for man; she's the one spending it hence it's only pleasurable for her. If she truly thinks sex is not mutually pleasurable and still has sex (with a man she doesn't like) then she is simply a sex worker.

"What value can one give when their worth is in the cavity between their legs? All women have said cavity but the ones with true value are but few. Very few."

A boyfriend* calls his girlfriend* to come over, he pays her for her tfare/uber, they proceed with coitus, he later gives her money (if he didn't give beforehand), and then she leaves.
Swap out the words* boyfriend & girlfriend with man & woman. Now, one should ask themselves... what is the difference between "girlfriend" and a call girl/escort?


On a side note, I do find it interesting that some men believe they can discipline a woman or extinguish her bad behaviors by giving her "a good knacking/lashing" in the bedroom.
Why on earth would someone think they can use pleasure to stop bad behaviour/habits of a child, or anyone else for that matter?---bad habits that are well known to die hard.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 18, 2022
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I'll engage you in a discuss when stop talking like an angry baby undecided...
Supposedly she's barely past 18 years, her reasoning is unexpected but not surprising.
If anything, the guys replying her should do us all a favour and stop.

To quote the OP, Dizzyyish

"What does one hope to gain when they argue with children? At the end, children will simply do and follow what feels right to them and one would be left wondering what they've achieved by engaging in such folly."

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 4:56pm On Jan 18, 2022
WOMEN HAVING MALE FRIENDS:

As stated earlier, women have certain reasons for being friends with men.

Here's a comment from someone who has experience with "he's just a friend" women:

Men who only have women friends aren't players. They're either gay or really feminine men.

Either way, women who hangout with guys more than women, definitely avoid at all costs. When I was getting out there in the dating world I was warned about this. I met a super cool girl. But she told me the majority of her friends were guys and that she can't get along with women due to the drama. I thought it made sense because women definitely bring more drama than men. And their fake compliments haha oh boy, was that a huge mistake. The girl cheated on me with multiple guys. Not only that but she was out of her mind.It slowly started coming out more and more shit the longer I got to know her. By far the most bleeped up girl I ever dated.

I didn't listen and I bleeped myself over. I even started asking a whole bunch of friends about this. A lot of them told me either them or they knew someone who shared similar experiences with girls who hangout with guys more.

The whole defensive argument that snags a lot of people is that "you're so insecure that you don't want a woman who has male friends??" never fall for this. Men and women are completely different. But they attract each other to mate, not to be friends with. If you have a gf and makes a male friend, be very cautious. Do not overlook this. I made this mistake before so has so many other guys I know.

Girls in general cheat a whole lot. I was talking to my friend about this the other day. Do you know how many girls wanted my friend and my self while they had boyfriends? Those are the only one's we knew about who flat out said something to people we knew. How many more would have dropped their pants for us that either kept it to themselves or didn't tell the same people we knew?

I'm older and a bit wiser now. Even a girl who seems the most trustworthy, can be the biggest cheater. Don't believe the stereotype that girls care more about relationships than guys and cheat way less. Because it's not true. Maybe at some point in history that was, certainly not 2018. The stereotypes I truly believe has flipped.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 5:19pm On Jan 18, 2022
In the critically acclaimed movie As Good As It Gets (1997) a woman asks the main character Melvin (played by Jack Nicholson) who's a novelist how he writes authentic female characters.

Woman: How do you write women so well?
Melvin: I think of a man... then I take away reason, and accountability.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Grom4ik(m): 5:22pm On Jan 18, 2022
I totally agree with you. You can't just be friends with a girl. In any case, a man is attracted to a given girl, whether it's mutual or not. And as for cheating, once a friend advised me to look for a girl on the internet fling.com, because because of my work I have no time to go to bars and get acquainted with girls. I registered quickly and easily enough and began my search. After 5 minutes of being online a girl wrote to me. When I looked at her profile, it turned out to be my friend's girlfriend. I of course showed him her profile so he would know that she was not to be trusted.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 5:47pm On Jan 18, 2022
Grom4ik:
I totally agree with you. You can't just be friends with a girl. In any case, a man is attracted to a given girl, whether it's mutual or not. And as for cheating, once a friend advised me to look for a girl on the internet fling.com, because because of my work I have no time to go to bars and get acquainted with girls. I registered quickly and easily enough and began my search. After 5 minutes of being online a girl wrote to me. When I looked at her profile, it turned out to be my friend's girlfriend. I of course showed him her profile so he would know that she was not to be trusted.
You did good looking out for your boy

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jan 18, 2022
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 6:35pm On Jan 18, 2022
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 18, 2022
Dizzyyish:
PART VIII:

To elucidate the previous points on sex,
Money and sex are not of equal value. Man gives woman money and woman grants access to man. Man works for money but woman does not work for sex; she could step outside and ask a random man to have sex with her and he probably wouldn't think twice.

Sex is mutually pleasurable despite women having the notion (rationalisation) that they are doing men a favor, whereas money given to woman she not pleasurable for man; she's the one spending it hence it's only pleasurable for her. If she truly thinks sex is not mutually pleasurable and still has sex (with a man she doesn't like) then she is simply a sex worker.

"What value can one give when their worth is in the cavity between their legs? All women have said cavity but the ones with true value are but few. Very few."

A boyfriend* calls his girlfriend* to come over, he pays her for her tfare/uber, they proceed with coitus, he later gives her money (if he didn't give beforehand), and then she leaves.
Swap out the words* boyfriend & girlfriend with man & woman. Now, one should ask themselves... what is the difference between "girlfriend" and a call girl/escort?


On a side note, I do find it interesting that some men believe they can discipline a woman or extinguish her bad behaviors by giving her "a good knacking/lashing" in the bedroom.
Why on earth would someone think they can use pleasure to stop bad behaviour/habits of a child?---bad habits that are well known to die hard.
This last paragraph bothers me too. Like how do these men think?

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by mediainc: 7:25pm On Jan 18, 2022
This is deep intelligent stuff. Kudos

"Why else would one pay money to attach synthetic hair or real hair harvested from the scalps of other humans to their own heads? (On top the discomfort that comes with it like their head scratching them because they can't let water touch the hair or inability to sleep properly)...

"The beauty accessories women use perform the same function as a hunter's collection of weapons. The discomfort borne in carrying and maintaining them is offset by the acquisition of the prey (man)."
- ReacherSaidNoth

Apt.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by mediainc: 7:47pm On Jan 18, 2022
Datboredberry:
stop taking bullshit... Civilization started in Egypt... Mankind started in Africa...

You're a confused mofo... The white inventors who were of broken marriages? Most were middle-aged married men... undecided

The African man is just a simple-minded, greedy creature incapable of creativity...

Every man has been subjected to the roles of provider and protector... Especially white men... They even refused to let their women work until a few hundred years ago... They took up the excess responsibilities like men...

Black men never did anything to better the lives of their women... Just to provide bush, burn it and call it farm... and set traps then drink palm wine and eat alligator pepper... So what's the betterment?

If the white men hadn't brought civilization to Africa, you black men would still be worshipping stones and waterfalls... undecided
Stop sounding ignorant, the first civilization was from the black race, Mayans and Egyptians...a lot of black inventors and scientist. Talk sense.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 8:31pm On Jan 18, 2022
mediainc:

Stop sounding ignorant, the first civilization was from the black race, Mayans and Egyptians...a lot of black inventors and scientist. Talk sense.
Please refer to PART IV and its addendum

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dliquidmetal(m): 12:00am On Jan 19, 2022
mediainc:

Stop sounding ignorant, the first civilization was from the black race, Mayans and Egyptians...a lot of black inventors and scientist. Talk sense.
she isn't worth responding to,someone that doesn't even know Egypt is in Africa.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Nobody: 3:19am On Jan 19, 2022
Dizzyyish:
Addendum for PART IV:

"Never argue with a fool; onlookers may not be able to tell the difference."
- Mark Twain

Do not answer a fool according to his folly,
Or you will also be like him.
Answer a fool as his folly deserves,
That he not be wise in his own eyes.


What does one hope to gain when they argue with children? At the end, children will simply do and follow what feels right to them and one would be left wondering what they've achieved by engaging in such folly.
When someone drags you down to their level, they've shown you that they were already beneath you.
This is the golden rule for this thread.
Men do not engage with these people in order not to derail this thread.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Nobody: 3:20am On Jan 19, 2022
Dizzyyish:
Addendum for PART IV:

"Never argue with a fool; onlookers may not be able to tell the difference."
- Mark Twain

Do not answer a fool according to his folly,
Or you will also be like him.
Answer a fool as his folly deserves,
That he not be wise in his own eyes.


What does one hope to gain when they argue with children? At the end, children will simply do and follow what feels right to them and one would be left wondering what they've achieved by engaging in such folly.
When someone drags you down to their level, they've shown you that they were already beneath you.
As this thread progresses, always remember this.
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Chikarata2020(m): 4:35am On Jan 19, 2022
This thread makes a whole lot of sense, even the Igbo's calls women "nwanyi" meaning our children. The only problem here is that the modern women don't want to know their position claiming to be feminist, thereby creating more drama for themselves

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 9:49am On Jan 19, 2022
PART IX:

Men and women are different. Men and women are not equals. Whatever works for man, take it reverse it and it now works for woman.

Women use complements to show their contempt. Men use insults to show their affection. Men want effeminate/submissive (obedient child); women want masculine/strong men (physically and/or mentally strong parent).

Gender equality is essentially stating that the parent (man) and child (woman) are equals. Quite the funny thought indeed.
From "Nigerian princes" to ponzi schemes, gender equality is probably the biggest scam of the 21st century.

"Women understand women, and they hate each other."

"Women don't help women because they want to see the 'new' girls fall on their face like they did."

"Behind all their personal vanity, women themselves always have an impersonal contempt for woman."
- Friedrich Nietzsche

This is one of the few ways women differ from children. Whereas a child's antics are powered by naivety a woman's antics are powered by cunning and manipulation, making them more malicious. A child may harm its parent but still feel remorse for the parent is their blood, but for a woman the man is not her blood so she has little to no reason to feel such remorse.

Women don't like women so isn't feminism fighting for equality? No. It's fighting for power. The power that man possesses. Woman; with their privileges and natural inability to be accountable...
A child having equal or more power in regard to its parent. While not impossible, only weak parents (who spoil their children) would allow that.

"Women don't help women. Why? Because if they do so, they already made available a woman who becomes noticeable by their boyfriends, fiances or husbands. And since high value men don't go round, these women must protect the ones they've got by all means. And if it involves shadowing other women, it is a welcome development.
The way a woman becomes attractive to other men when a man upgrade her works same say as when women upgrade other women. They do donate gifts like pads, books, pencils, food clothes etc. But these things aren't bringing these women to the limelight to the extent they become a challenge. Observe very well, most of these charity works takes place in rural areas where competition is very low. If the same women were to help their counterparts nearby, hell will break loose as the game becomes intense and more competitive."

- Ubunnja

As stated above, women want masculine men, their nature demands masculine men. So why the modern attack on masculinity, calling it "toxic" and whatnot?
Because, in order for feminism to succeed masculinity must fail/die. Half a century ago, would one think they'd be feminists amongst men? Male feminists?

A child may tell you "I'm this, I don't do that..." but don't take a child's word. Watch the child's actions and see how they don't even know what they are saying.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY5YSOm8Ixk
Video, courtesy of luminouz

The above video is about a couple breaking up after the woman had made the man get a vasectomy 2 months prior (interestingly, during that period she apparently had another guy she was timing).
Throughout the video, she made fun of him, spoke over him and disrespected him. He has given child leeway and power over him and this is the outcome.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by FuckDModz: 10:23am On Jan 19, 2022
Very interesting read...

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 10:52am On Jan 19, 2022
Kellzzyy:

This last paragraph bothers me too. Like how do these men think?
"The male libido is like being chained to a madman." apparently.

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 11:09am On Jan 19, 2022
PART X:

Women consistently show favoritism for other women (this favoritism is only prevalent when they're against a man;common enemy). When there's a woman boss, she will discriminate against men. For instance Marissa Mayer the former CEO of yahoo got in trouble for just going around firing the men. And remember that show "Weakest Link"? Remember what happened when there were 2 women and 1 man left? They'd vote the man off, because they wanted to insure a woman to win even if it wasn't themselves, and sometimes they'd even admit it out loud when asked for their reasons for voting him off (children supporting children).

And unfortunately.... men tend to show favoritism for women too (parents supporting children). That's why we have that saying bros before hos. Because our natural instinct instilled in us by society is to be parents (simps) to women and we have to make conscious effort to rise above that.


Envy, though common in humans, is more prevalent in children. As a child or a parent one must have seen or experienced envy for what other kids have, be it a new playstation, toy, etc.
Envy, though common in humans, is more prevalent in women. One must have probably seen, heard or experienced the infamous "Your mates are buying cars for their wives, taking them to dubai, doing this and that for their wives..."

Women are typically victims of chronic dissatisfaction.

"There are many kinds of infector to be aware of, but one of the most insidious is the sufferer from chronic dissatisfaction.
A Virus. Unseen, it lems. Infectors can be recognized by the misfortune they draw on them-enters your pores without selves, their turbulent past, their long line of broken relationships, their un-warning, spreading silently and stable careers, and the very force of their character, which sweeps you up slowly. Before you are aware they makes you lose your reason. Be forewarned by these signs of an infector, the infection, it is deep inside you. Tor; learn to see the discontent in their eye. Most important of all, do not take pity. Do not enmesh yourself in trying to help. The infector will remain unchanged, but you will be unhinged."

- Robert Greene

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by temielects(m): 11:22am On Jan 19, 2022
Datboredberry:
As long as black men are still nuisances, contributing nothing and being lynched by the superior White men, I'm clool.

There's a difference between men and BLACK men... The latter are the leaders of Africa, the ritualists, the kidnappers, drug pusher, traffickers, fraudsters...

When men come out, BLACK men should hide their faces in shame...
are you a man or a black man?

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by temielects(m): 11:33am On Jan 19, 2022
Favfables1:


Racist spotted undecided
'men' not 'white men'..think there are men in Africa too who are creative and purpose driven.
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by ImpactCrater: 12:37pm On Jan 19, 2022
Datboredberry:
I know more about Africa's History than you do...

Don't give me that crap that civilization started in Africa... It began in Egypt...

And what version of history do you have?

Black men where once geniuses, inventing and discovering... who got distracted by their women and providing them with comforts... Etc...

What's comforts exactly? The round huts that's smaller than my toilet? The pieces of farm the said women had to clear and plant in and harvest? The multiple co-wives and their children? What exactly did black men do for their women? The women who were burden of beasts to impregnate... undecided

Unlike white men who gave their women ample luxury and space, it even became suffocating...
There are stages of civilization.
The white men who have become gods to a myopic few were living in huts, practicing cannibalism and witchcraft at a point in their history. They evolved. Every society evolves.
Ethiopia was never colonized or "civilized" by any fvcking white man. Have they not evolved?
So the useless argument that black men are inferior to the white gods is simply nonsensical.
IT IS A SHAMING TACTICS FROM A WOMAN.
You left the crux of the argument and went on an emotional tirade hoping to deploy one of your age old tools of shaming men which ironically, this thread is exposing.

Granted, African men are all that you say they are. Does that change the fact that women regardless of race are manipulative and selfish? That is the key argument here not your useless, false attempt to deploy shaming tactics African men as a decoy.
Secondly, what are African women if not the enabling intimacy gadgets of all the evil that the African men are doing?
If African men are so useless in comparison to your white gods/counterparts, what then are African women who are much more useless and manipulative compared to the African men?

If you are a racist white pig as I suspect, then we can have a different discussion to treat your fuckup.
But if you are a black manipulative bitch, then ... Just woe!!!!

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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by ironkurtain(m): 1:29pm On Jan 19, 2022
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Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jan 19, 2022
ImpactCrater:

There are stages of civilization.
The white men who have become gods to a myopic few were living in huts, practicing cannibalism and witchcraft at a point in their history. They evolved. Every society evolves.
Ethiopia was never colonized or "civilized" by any fvcking white man. Have they not evolved?
So the useless argument that black men are inferior to the white gods is simply nonsensical.
IT IS A SHAMING TACTICS FROM A WOMAN.
You left the crux of the argument and went on an emotional tirade hoping to deploy one of your age old tools of shaming men which ironically, this thread is exposing.

Granted, African men are all that you say they are. Does that change the fact that women regardless of race are manipulative and selfish? That is the key argument here not your useless, false attempt to deploy shaming tactics African men as a decoy.
Secondly, what are African women if not the enabling intimacy gadgets of all the evil that the African men are doing?
If African men are so useless in comparison to your white gods/counterparts, what then are African women who are much more useless and manipulative compared to the African men?

If you are a racist white pig as I suspect, then we can have a different discussion to treat your fuckup.
But if you are a black manipulative bitch, then ... Just woe!!!!
fu** off
Re: Women Are Essentially Children (WAEC) by Dizzyyish: 3:59pm On Jan 19, 2022
Cc lecturer50 KingOfTheDamned

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