I'm not good at maintaining long term relationships, majority of my relationships never survived upto a year because I would be so excited at first and give you all the attention until I get bored and run out of things to do with you, then I stop communicating and at the end it'll feel like you're dating yourself and probably end the relationship yourself.

I have been trying to change the norms but it's not working, I recently got into a new relationship and it's happening again, I really like this one but I don't think this would be enough on the long run, so those who have been in long term relationships, how did you keep the spark alive?

You need serious deliverance from spiritual wife

agbonkamen:
You need serious deliverance from spiritual wife

I don't believe anything spiritual

In mummy Go voice.you're going to hell bcus this is how the spark will cause hell fire to light up

dauntless15:
I'm not good at maintaining long term relationships, majority of my relationships never survived upto a year because I would be so excited at first and give you all the attention until I get bored and run out of things to do with you, then I stop communicating and at the end it'll feel like you're dating yourself and probably end the relationship yourself, I have been trying to change the norms but it's not working, I recently got into a new relationship and it's happening again, I really like this one but I don't think this would be enough on the long run, so those who have been in long term relationships, how did you keep the spark alive?

That's how all relationships are and is the reason why people cheat

Lightway:


That's how all relationships are and is the reason why people cheat

All? For real? How come people stay in relationships for years then?

dauntless15:
All? For real? How come people stay in relationships for years then?

Because they want to get married?

Marriage is not about feelings

Lightway:

Because they want to get married?

Marriage is not about feelings

How do you even get married to someone you don't have feelings for? And I thought it's my fault my relationships don't last.

Exactly what I've been facing overtime. I'll get excited at the beginning then fall off after few weeks. I can't keep relationships for long. I got games tho but it isn't just working.

I pray it isn't spiritual,when I see people celebrate 1 or 2yrs anniversary, I'm like wtf,I wish mine could last up to a year. We're in this shit together bruv!

Change your name.. Just do that, and see some changes �

SmellySperm:
Exactly what I've been facing overtime. I'll get excited at the beginning then fall off after few weeks. I can't keep relationships for long. I got games tho but it isn't just working.

I pray it isn't spiritual,when I see people celebrate 1 or 2yrs anniversary, I'm like wtf,I wish mine could last up to a year. We're in this shit together bruv!

SmellySperm:
Exactly what I've been facing overtime. I'll get excited at the beginning then fall off after few weeks. I can't keep relationships for long. I got games tho but it isn't just working.

I pray it isn't spiritual,when I see people celebrate 1 or 2yrs anniversary, I'm like wtf,I wish mine could last up to a year. We're in this shit together bruv!

Trust me, it's not spiritual

Lol you guys reach almost a year?.

Mine is like in weeks. I start up something with a girl, i lose interest along the line and stop communicating with her.

I wish to get married but i don't see it becoming possible

Baloranking:
Lol you guys reach almost a year?.

Mine is like in weeks. I start up something with a girl, i lose interest along the line and stop communicating with her.

I wish to get married but i don't see it becoming possible

Which year? Nothing like year bro, highest six months, as I'm talking to you rn I'm wondering which kind Wahala I enter like this.

Then don't go into a relationship at all..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Then don't go into a relationship at all..

And die single shey? you dey madt.

dauntless15:
And die single shey? you dey madt.

Relationship ain't for all..get off that mentality pls..

Holly Gram real matter...


LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN

That's the standard of Modern relationship. Any relationship that surpasses 1 yr in this gen is c onsidered remarkable.
My first and only relationship lasted only for 3days. These days na No-string-attached kinda thing man dey do.
No love lost
No love found
But sha, I believe there is a banny wey fit break record with me

Shey tecno spark? Baba, I dey in your shoe. I've decided to close my eyes and choose one of them. Whether na right or left, I no wan know.

It takes two to make a relationship work. If you're the one doing all the work without any input from the other, you'll surely get tired and bail.

Perhaps it's not your fault. Have you ever considered that? What is the other partner doing to keep the fire burning?

HenryDion:
It takes two to make a relationship work. If you're the one doing all the work without any input from the other, you'll surely get tired and bail.

Perhaps it's not your fault. Have you ever considered that? What is the other partner doing to keep the fire burning?

That's true.

HenryDion:
It takes two to make a relationship work. If you're the one doing all the work without any input from the other, you'll surely get tired and bail.

Perhaps it's not your fault. Have you ever considered that? What is the other partner doing to keep the fire burning?

She's busy distracting me with sex, funny thing is I don't even crave the sex anymore too, i know I'm hard to please and nothing fascinates me for long, it makes me fear for my future tbh, especially marriage, I don't think I'll be able to maintain my marriage if I ever tie the knot.

HenryDion:
It takes two to make a relationship work. If you're the one doing all the work without any input from the other, you'll surely get tired and bail.

Perhaps it's not your fault. Have you ever considered that? What is the other partner doing to keep the fire burning?

Very On point

dauntless15:
I'm not good at maintaining long term relationships, majority of my relationships never survived upto a year because I would be so excited at first and give you all the attention until I get bored and run out of things to do with you, then I stop communicating and at the end it'll feel like you're dating yourself and probably end the relationship yourself, I have been trying to change the norms but it's not working, I recently got into a new relationship and it's happening again, I really like this one but I don't think this would be enough on the long run, so those who have been in long term relationships, how did you keep the spark alive?

U have Low love count and dysfunctional communication.

Truvelisback:
U have Low love count and dysfunctional communication.

What is love count please?

You're a very selfish and fake person. You don't put in any effort to spice up the relationship that's why you easily get bored. People like you use people alot until you get bored and discard or withdraw from the person.

That's why I don't get carried away or lose guard when in a relationship or friendship with anyone.

dauntless15:
What is love count please?

Wara i mean is that, u are poor in handling relationship with the opposite sex. And ur communication is likely poor or boring.

Truvelisback:
Wara i mean is that, u are poor in handling relationship with the opposite sex. And ur communication is likely poor or boring.

On the contrary bro I'm not a boring person, I don't mean to brag but all the girls I've met have this subpar level of intelligence, they don't know alot, so they're not interested in the things I'm interested in, and those who act like they're interested don't really know what I'm talking about so they end up making a fool of themselves, I sometimes act like I'm interested in what they are interested in just to keep the conversation going but at the end it becomes a question and answer session where I ask the question and they answer with monotonous replies and they won't bother asking me back or contributing, besides what will you be discussing with a girl who only knows how to fix nails and makeup? Since I can't find someone as intelligent as I want I lowered my expectations, this is why it seems like I'm a boring person, trust me I'm not, although your first point is kinda true.

Try light up some weed and start a new relationship.

dauntless15:
On the contrary bro I'm not a boring person, I don't mean to brag but all the girls I've met have this subpar level of intelligence, they don't know alot, so they're not interested in the things I'm interested in, and those who act like they're interested don't really know what I'm talking about so they end up making a fool of themselves, I sometimes act like I'm interested in what they are interested in just to keep the conversation going but at the end it becomes a question and answer session where I ask the question and they answer with monotonous replies and they won't bother asking me back or contributing, besides what will you be discussing with a girl who only knows how to fix nails and makeup? Since I can't find someone as intelligent as I want I lowered my expectations, this is why it seems like I'm a boring person, trust me I'm not, although your first point is kinda true.

U consciously or unconsciously made it answer and question. I once chatted a Deeper life girl on fb. We chatted from like 10 pm to 2 am. The chat became intense that we started chatting naught. I know u will be surprised that a Deeper life girl would go on a chat with me to point of chatting naughty. I initiated the chat. I was fully in control. If a SIMP had chatted with her, she wouldn't have gone naughty with the guy. Note: This lady had just broke up with her guy. According to her, the guy wanted to have sex with her, against her will. That was what led to their break up. If only the guy knew how women's are like, he would have gotten the sex freely. While she was chatting with me, she was even crying.

Truvelisback:
U consciously or unconsciously made it answer and question. I once chatted a Deeper life girl on fb. We chatted from like 10 pm to 2 am. The chat became intense that we started chatting naught. I know u will be surprised that a Deeper life girl would go on a chat with me to point of chatting naughty. I initiated the chat. I was fully in control. If a SIMP had chatted with her, she wouldn't have gone naughty with the guy. Note: This lady had just broke up with her guy. According to her, the guy wanted to have sex with her against her will. That was what led to their break up. If only the guy knew how women's are like, he would have gotten the sex freely. While she was chatting with me, she was even crying.

Well I was only trying to keep the conversation going, although I don't force things.