hello all,
I thought carrying your baby is a pride to every mother, but why is some pregnant ladies ashamed to walk down the road once they are pregnant?. one of my longtime friend girlfriend toke in last year. ever since the baby bump started showing she stopped going out... common to go make her hair at the salon infront of their street she can't walk there.

what about visiting her parents or where she grew up from? because it's same town, she always sneak in at night and goes back to her husband house in the early morning

nor be say them never do introduction or traditional wedding, even that day the street was clossed.. well wishers....so why the shame?

This is a matured lady, probably 27 or thereabouts...this is really getting my guy angry because common to go market... either keke drop or he goes himself..



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those asking how did I know she's ashamed.

while her husband was lamenting, all she does was
smile.
she doesn't need to tell me she is ashamed...it's
all there.

she even said you want me to carry all this (pointing her bumb) walking on the road eh

Did she tell you she is ashamed or you assumed she is ashamed?

Pregnancy takes a toll on some women, so they get pretty unconfident in their looks. Some are tired of going through 10 dresses to find the perfect one.

There is also this problem of Nigerians talking too much. Especially with women that have huge bumps. Belle is still 5mths old, but because it is big, people will start saying “afo ukwu, you never still born?” You will have to endure this for 4 months. So some women prefer to hide, the next thing you see is a baby.

She might not be ashamed. She might find public places discomforting. She has to pee per second, she has to spit, she has to keep her feet in one position and deal with swollen feet. Waist pain nko?

If inside the house is her comfort zone, why not allow her?

I know someone that also didn’t like carrying her baby out because she couldn’t deal with unsolicited advice. “Cover im head, wear am sweater, wear am socks, give am breast, give am the second breast”. Hey Charley!!!

Abeg allow her!

pocohantas:
Did she tell you she is ashamed of you assumed she is ashamed?

please rephrase I don't get you.

she's ashamed, while her husband was lamenting... she was there blushing And smiling.

she even said, make i come dey waka make people dey see me like this.
describing the baby bump.


yes shes shy and ashamed...lol

She's keeping it off evil and monitoring spiritz like u.

One of those things that set in when a woman is pregnant is IRRITATION

It would be funny when they get irritated at anything or doing anything. Some find it irritating to cook, sleep on the same bed with their partners or sitting indoor.

Don't blame her for that

donbachi:
She's keeping it off evil and monitoring spiritz like u.

Am not a monitoring spirit sir, am still here and my guy is lamenting pretty bad.

Someone once said " it's because they don't want people to know that they've been fvcked"

KiNg0G:


please rephrase I don't get you

Did she tell you she is ASHAMED?

Some men are equally ashamed of going out with their pregnant wives...Like say no be him poison her with the big belle

pocohantas:


Did she tell you she is ASHAMED?

while her husband is lamenting, all she does was smile.

she doesn't need to tell me she is ashamed...it's all there

How do you know that she is ashamed?

She could have other reasons why... and that aside, pregnancy is a big deal that men will never understand...

She could also be a shy type, pregnancy can pull a woman down. So you have no idea what she is going through.

Just let her be,don't conclude

She may not be ashamed.She may just not be comfortable stepping out due to internal and external reasons.

KiNg0G:

while her husband is lamenting, all she does was smile.

she doesn't need to tell me she is ashamed...it's all there

I would advise you go learn a skill like plumbing. You have too much time on your hands to monitor the home of a newly wedded couple. At this rate you will soon start giving the husband evil advice because whenever a man loves and understands his wife, it is juju.

pocohantas:


I would advise you go learn a skill like plumbing. You have too much time on your hands to monitor the home of a newly wedded couple. At this rate you will start giving the husband evil advice because whenever a man loves and understands his wife, it is juju.

we all know you to be lunatic towards the male counterparts at any giving opportunity on nairaland.

as for your info...I told him to leave her alone.
that can't he see the load he's carrying..the girl had to give me welcoming hug for that statement.. immediately.
not like I meant it.

so you assuming I try to break an happy couple, show's how wrong you are.

Fatigue is the culprit not shame

She's probably embarrassed because it's her first pregnancy.
Is it her first?

KiNg0G:
we all know you to be lunatic towards the male counterparts at any giving opportunity on nairaland.

as for your info...I told him to leave her alone. that can't he see the load he's carrying..the girl had to give me welcoming hug for that statement.. immediately.

Since you know this and you were even given a hug as reward, why are you here trying to push an agenda??

Mariangeles:
She's probably embarrassed because it's her first pregnancy.
Is it her first?

yes it is

KiNg0G:
yes it is

That explains it then.
Also, she might also not feel beautiful, so...

pocohantas:


Since you know this and you were even given a hug as reward, why are you here trying to push an agenda??

I was curious that's why I had to put it here ...am not married yet, wouldn't want my girl to stress me like this.... going to the market n other shitz that's something your low iq feminists Brain can't understand.


no more reply to you

KiNg0G:


I was curious that's why I had to put it here ...am not married yet, wouldn't want my girl to stress me like this.... going to the market n other shitz that's something your low iq feminists Brain can't understand. no more reply to you

1)You know it is stressful going to the market.
2)You know she is carrying load.

Yet you concluded she is ashamed of her pregnancy? Why didn’t you assume she is stressed and tired from carrying her load upandan?

pocohantas:


1)You know it is stressful going to the market.
2)You know she is carrying load.

Yet you concluded she is ashamed of her pregnancy? Why didn’t you assume she is stressed and tired from carrying her load upandan?

I said no response but I give it to you.
you like acting like your all in all
Elder0001 don already play us your story, how that thing in between your leg is.... nor be today.
you don cast tey tey.

so shift make better sensible female's talk.

few of us that are aware don't look you like anything.

KiNg0G:
I said no response but I give it to you.
you like acting like your all in all
Elder0001 don already play us your story, how that thing in between your leg is.... nor be today.
you don cast tey tey.
so shift make better sensible female's talk.

Cast where or how? Are you with my vagina or did I leave it wherever after fuckîng? I am curious as to what you have on my vagina.

Care to share with this honorable forum?

pocohantas:


Cast where or how? Are you with my vagina or did I leave it wherever after fuckîng? I am curious as to what you have on my vagina.

Care to share with this honorable forum?

no one is with your virginia my dear.

but what is fûcked, can't be unfûcked by different men on nairaland... you don cast tey tey...nor be today


so stop acting like you something.

your nothing

Guy it’s okay. Please forgive her

KiNg0G:


no one is with your virginia my dear.

but what is fûcked, can't be unfûcked by different men on nairaland... you don cast tey tey...nor be today


so stop acting like you something.

your nothing

Chno:
Guy it’s okay. Please forgive her

she's telling me to go learn plumbing work, what an insult, does she know who I am.

pocohantas nor try me this evening, I say I nor won reply you.
but bring your leg out I go give am to you times 2.
it don tey we dey this nairaland, nor be today.

KiNg0G:


no one is with your virginia my dear.

but what is fûcked, can't be unfûcked by different men on nairaland... you don cast tey tey...nor be today. so stop acting like you something. your nothing

Very true story. How about you furnish us with the list of these men. We are all here for the entertainment.

Many reasons o

#Some na laziness, irritation

#Some are shy

#Some are body changes after few months, bloated face, skin colour,
#Some are usually weak, which is kind of normal
# (if you live in Nigeria) some because of bad belle, eyes and witches and wizards

pocohantas:


Very true story. How about you furnish us with the list of these men. We are all here for the entertainment.

list? or I give them link to the discussion of your kpekus of how it was shared if anyone asked...it's still sitting right there.

you don cast tey tey.
you yourself you know, that's why you went mute.

everytime go dey act like say you be all in all...na people when never hear your matter, na dey look you with good eye.. feminists my foot when don collect different dîck Left and right .

see watch this my username, stay away from it.. from today henceforth.

KiNg0G:


list? or I give them link to the discussion of your kpekus if anyone asked...it's still sitting right there.

you don cast tey tey.
you yourself you know, that's why you went mute.

everytime go dey act like say you be all in all...na people when never hear your matter, na dey look you with good eye.. feminists my foot when don collect different dîck Left and right . see watch this my username, stay away from it.. from today henceforth.

You have said this too many times and I believe we have gotten that point. Right now we are here for receipts and entertainment.

Nudes? Videos? Give us small Nairaland drama today naw. The whole redpillers are looking up to you.

The fact that you and your kind have been singing this since 2017. One even created a thread to post pictures of my sexcapades. Next thing he deactivated, claiming holy spirit ministered to him to stop. Lmao!!!

pocohantas:


You have said this too many times and I believe we have gotten that point. Right now we are here for receipts and entertainment.

Nudes? Videos? Give us small Nairaland drama today naw. The whole redpillers are looking up to you.

The fact that you and your kind have been singing this since 2017. One even created a thread to post pictures of my sexcapades. Next thing he deactivated, claiming holy spirit ministered to him to stop. Lmao!!!

I mentioned Elder0001 you were shocked, weren't you?

fûcking free to air since 2015

KiNg0G:


I mentioned Elder0001 you were shocked, weren't you?

No I wasn’t. Everyone knows Elder. My aggrieved ex-boyfriend that couldn’t bear losing me. So he came running to Nairaland for public simpathy.

Is that all you have on me?

fûcking free to air since 2015

You have said this before too.