It's okay to be selfless because in that way you will know if you are valued or abused by others.
I will always encourage you to "understand your worth and value" because you deserve real love and you deserve the best.
Never accept anything less than the best.

Not a bad piece at all, but I would he loved you to delve a little further with this spiritually speaking.

Understanding one's worth and value in lieu of God's thoughts....if I may add. A Christian has to have that caveat....otherwise there's a potential for arrogance and pride...which is contrary to the standards of God's holiness. Even being "self-less" can cause the potential of pride. It should be as the result of God's love permeating through one...not as a measuring stick to the degree of abuse or value of others=mankind.

It's extremely important (from a secualr standpoint..in a sense) to teach the importance of worth and value to young males and females so that they won't grow up making decisions that comprise a lack of self-value... (Ex. allowing constant abuse from anyone in any form etc.).
Sometimes it takes adulthood and a plethora of experiences to finally get to the "aha" moment.

But, again, let's not forget that God's love towards us is the ultimate form of undeserved and unmerited value and worth that a person can have. It is because HE loves us and demonstrated that love practically that we have any worth and value at all.
It should cause one to be truly humbled, grateful and self sacrificial...not to please "man", rather God.
Ms. Eviana