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Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 11:38am On Jan 31, 2022
A friend of mine used to be a slave to masturbation , infact after doing it, he will cry and pray , he would delete everything about porn on his device. He would erase his phone and become sanctified again. Moments later , imaginations from those porn scenes will come rushing through his mind space so strong, the urges will begin to develop again and become so intense suddenly.

To make it worse , if a fine damsel is in sight, he will begin to fantasize her in his chambers. If he is in public he would rush to go home or find a secret place. But i just repented 20 mins ago, what is all this? , he will begin to resist this urge and then it becomes so strong . Finally after battling with this thought in his mind, he begins to find more reasons why he should masturbate and still repent later. He begins to assure himself it's just this once and never again.

Mind you , he has been on this endless cycle for many years, fulfilling his lust and repenting, making endless lists of resolution . He succeeds for weeks, months and he still finds himself in it again , consistently . Hahahaa an unfaithful slave.

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 11:39am On Jan 31, 2022
LISTEN!!
You are a young guy or lady still in the grip of masturbation, you are finding it hard to stop but you cannot, this is because you opened soul to the spirit and prince of sexual perversion unknowingly when you invested your time and several hours watching and beholding erotic movies, pornographic materials and reading erotic stories. It has now become a reality which you manifest by carrying out masturbation and fornication. (The reason i don't watch most movies )

Now you have become a servant to this addiction . Your act of service to this prince of sexual immorality is by carrying out masturbation and fornication. A servant's will is subject to his maater's . This is wht you can never stop. Even if you stop masturbation, you will graduate to become a fornicator even marriage cannott stop you. haha

You have unknowingly built an altar and every altar needs a sacrifice which is what you offer by masturbating and fornicating with your bodies. Everytime you do a thing , always probe the spirit involved. The spirit always quickens you to behave the way you do . Life is more spiritual than it is physical.

John 6:63 KJV
It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing:

That is why you need to have rule over your spirit, because He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.(provb25;28)..

In provb 16:32, it says also he that has rule over his spirit is mightiet than he that takes the gate of a city
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 11:39am On Jan 31, 2022
I see many threads springing up, people are crying out for freedom. You know why? The spirit that stands for purity is calling out to their soul. When the army is recruiting, there is an announcement made for recruitment, it is those that hear about it that have the ability to apply, time will test your capacity and seriousness.

So when men begin to yearn for freedom from captivity and bondage, a spirit is calling them out and giving them a new burden to be free. Many dont have the listening ears to hearken and heed to the call of the master. He will not force you against your will.

Revelation 3:20 KJV
Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup s with him, and he with me.

Hours of watching movies and listening to songs that promotes lust is a yoke, the burden is the immoral act you commit out of your will. The repacaution is heavy. God wants you take his own yoke and burden , it is easy and light . God's burdens require you to interceed , read his word and save souls. The yoke and burden of satan is to afflict you with pain, addictions and evil.

Matthew 11:29-30 KJV
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of n me; for I am meek o and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
[30]For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.


i'm in tears for my generation.It is harder now cuz these movies are here to hold you down.. These websites and articles, songs that promote sexual contents are here to stay



There are principalities and strongholds that operate within a territory , could be in a single human body or community . After revealing this now, i know they will come for me but i have made a convenant with my eyes, i have soaked myself deep in the word of God. The intensity of light in me is greater because i am under the authority of a higher government . I am a servant of Christ.

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 11:43am On Jan 31, 2022
LISTEN !
In order to be free from this bondage, you must hearken the ears of your heart unto the voice of the master calling you out. A kingdom of lesser authority cannot conquer a territory , goverment or kingdom of higher authority. You commit your time to watching erotic movies and reading sexual contents which have become strongholds to your imagination, hence you can't stop committing masturbation and fornication, yet you wanna fight your master, you will pay dearly.

A chronic masturbator and fornicator is like a comic figure , a prisoner and an impending casualty in shackles waiting for execution. Listen Child of God , you must submit yourself to God in obedience, to his will and ordination for your life , else you will be an eternal slave programmed for destruction.

2 Corinthians 10:4-6 KJV
(For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, d but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holdswink

[5] Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; [

[6] And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience


Start feeding your mind from today with the word of God, soak yourself in gospel messages that talks of the knowledge of christ so you can drain out those sexual imaginations and thoughts from your mind. Your imagination needs the enlightenment of God to invade it. So instead of having urges to masturbate, rather u have intense urge and desire to read God's word, to pray, to know and do the will of God.

Colossians 3:10 KJV
[10] And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him[/b]:

1 Peter 2:2 KJV
As newborn babes, desire the sincere a milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:32pm On Jan 31, 2022
Take your book away.. nothing wrong with masturbation..

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Dangrace01: 1:43pm On Jan 31, 2022
If your friend was praying and still masturbating how are you sure your own prayer would work.

The lady above stop supporting masturbation.

Masturbation destroys the body and mental health of men.

You are a woman you wont understand

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 1:59pm On Jan 31, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Take your book away.. nothing wrong with masturbation..

Your darkness is immeasurably great. How can you go against the will of your master when you have been given a throne yourself?

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 2:00pm On Jan 31, 2022
Dangrace01:
If your friend was praying and still masturbating how are you sure your own prayer would work.

The lady above stop supporting masturbation.

Masturbation destroys the body and mental health of men.

You are a woman you wont understand

It's not the prayer, it's whose prayer..
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Highman56: 2:04pm On Jan 31, 2022
The best cure for masturbation is constant sex in marriage with someone with the same libido as you
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 2:28pm On Jan 31, 2022
Highman56:
The best cure for masturbation is constant sex in marriage with someone with the same libido as you

Hehe, even chronic masturbators before marriage still have the urge for masturbation and even appettite for extra marital affairs. It doesn't matter if the libidos match . You cease to be incharge of your will when the power of lust overwhelms you .It will lure you masturbate or seek a damsel outside marriage. It begins with the mind. It is the reason many men can't stop cheating even in marriage. They have all become Servants of sexuality immorality.
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:32pm On Jan 31, 2022
SpiritLifeNG:


Your darkness is immeasurably great. How can you go against the will of your master when you have been given a throne yourself?
Your master that doesn't exist or which other master do you have? undecided
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 3:10pm On Jan 31, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Your master that doesn't exist or which other master do you have? undecided

Mortals .. You have no clue of the world beyond. Your consciousness is limited to this 3d cosmic plane. You can never ascend beyond the little knowledge you have. You know nothing.

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by FERNANDEZISBACK: 4:49pm On Jan 31, 2022
SpiritLifeNG:


Mortals .. You have no clue of the world beyond. Your consciousness is limited to this 3d cosmic plane. You can never ascend beyond the little knowledge you have. You know nothing.




Keep deceiving yourself with nonsense..
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Deicide: 4:54pm On Jan 31, 2022
There is a name we call people like you friend and that's Hypocrite!
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Truvelisback(m): 4:58pm On Jan 31, 2022
U can break free. That u can't doesn't mean others can't.

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Sku8Tufik: 5:06pm On Jan 31, 2022
I made a bet with a friend that I wouldn't masturbate for two months. And then I got some kind of mailing on WhatsApp. There were hot Asian women in it. I couldn't help myself, as at that point I hadn't had sexual contact for a month. In the end I lost the bet and bet my friend a trip to Vegos. angry Then I fm whatsapp download to block spam so that such newsletters would not come to me
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 5:15pm On Jan 31, 2022
Truvelisback:
U can break free. That u can't doesn't mean others can't.

You can but not by your own strength and will.
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Truvelisback(m): 5:22pm On Jan 31, 2022
SpiritLifeNG:


You can but not by your own strength and will.
I get u. However, It's just depend on ur decisions or mindset. If u fully make up ur mind that u want to stop it, u will. It's all abt self-discipline. E.g There are people who are addicted smokers who finally gave up smoking. So, it's all abt self-discipline.

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by rickleye: 5:47pm On Jan 31, 2022
One of many things I dislike - Is when someone is asking for practical ideas, you smack his/her head with bible scriptures.
Someone was hungry - In the bible , it wasn't prayed away- the physical need was met.
It's all well and dandy that you have quoted scripture but unless you are a recovering " masturbator " you are of no help.
Unless you are a recovering alcoholic you do not know the temptation we face.

So some practical steps
1. You cannot do it alone.
2. You need a male accountable partner. - Someone who will not judge you but will be able to counsel you.
3. You need to fast and pray . You need to fast because you need to break the circle, It is said that a new behaviour is learnt in 21 days and average of 66 days for it to be fully formed.
4. There is a book entitled Everyman's Battle read.
5. Know that you are not alone - This affects members of the church up to 50% , the world about 66%.
6. Its a battle that you will fail at times but I love this scripture - " Although I have fallen, I will rise again, though I sit in darkness the Lord shall be my light " . Be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.
7. You need to change your behaviours and friends - What you are viewing, listening to .
8. There is an accountability software you can install on your phone .

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by newoffer: 5:20pm On Feb 01, 2022
It is spiritual... No knack ashewo. That's where ur sperm fit don reach evil people bhand. Ashewo no go allowed u take ur sperm after sex. Stop knacking ashewo.
SpiritLifeNG:
A friend of mine used to be a slave to masturbation , infact after doing it, he will cry and pray , he would delete everything about porn on his device. He would erase his phone and become sanctified again. Moments later , imaginations from those porn scenes will come rushing through his mind space so strong, the urges will begin to develop again and become so intense suddenly.

To make it worse , if a fine damsel is in sight, he will begin to fantasize her in his chambers. If he is in public he would rush to go home or find a secret place. But i just repented 20 mins ago, what is all this? , he will begin to resist this urge and then it becomes so strong . Finally after battling with this thought in his mind, he begins to find more reasons why he should masturbate and still repent later. He begins to assure himself it's just this once and never again.

Mind you , he has been on this endless cycle for many years, fulfilling his lust and repenting, making endless lists of resolution . He succeeds for weeks, months and he still finds himself in it again , consistently . Hahahaa an unfaithful slave.
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 6:11pm On Feb 01, 2022
Op dis story take style dey make me feel say na u be that your friend cos with d way u narrated all still baffles me that you know dis your friend both in and out, that you can even still feel his emotions... That's by d way but if u so wish and determined is possible, Allow your soul and mind to be united cos it's spiritual totally beyond a mere human imagination. U understand?
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Nobody: 6:13pm On Feb 01, 2022
Dangrace01:
If your friend was praying and still masturbating how are you sure your own prayer would work.

The lady above stop supporting masturbation.

Masturbation destroys the body and mental health of men.

You are a woman you wont understand

She's a He
Don't mind him
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 6:33pm On Feb 01, 2022
Das1mama:
Op dis story take style dey make me feel say na u be that your friend cos with d way u narrated all still baffles me that you know dis your friend both in and out, that you can even still feel his emotions... That's by d way but if u so wish and determined is possible, Allow your soul and mind to be united cos it's spiritual totally beyond a mere human imagination. U understand?

I am under a higher authority that is bigger than any addiction. I overcame that a long time ago. I found a way. If you probed further, you would realise the thread is for those who are still in the darkness and grip of masturbation and are honestly seeking a way out.
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 8:09pm On Feb 01, 2022
SpiritLifeNG:


I am under a higher authority that is bigger than any addiction. I overcame that a long time ago. I found a way. If you probed further, you would realise the thread is for those who are still in the darkness and grip of masturbation and are honestly seeking a way out.
Wow good one. Congrat have being finding it difficult to quit smoking. Any experience as regards to that to enable me overcome the urge? Thanks in anticipation
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 8:17pm On Feb 01, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Take your book away.. nothing wrong with masturbation..
Have seen Pple that have done worse things than you that are believers today to the extent that they all gave there life for the Gospel of our Lord And Saviour Jesus Christ.... Example Apostle Paul! Shalom........

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Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:18pm On Feb 01, 2022
Das1mama:
Have seen Pple that have done worse things than you that are believers today to the extent that they all gave there life for the Gospel of our Lord And Saviour Jesus Christ.... Shalom
Then they don't know what they want.. undecided
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 8:26pm On Feb 01, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Then they don't know what they want.. undecided
Wow so how did you know? Jesus Loves you and he's willing to give you True Life outside these sorrowful world we live in.... No more death......
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:28pm On Feb 01, 2022
Das1mama:
Wow so how did you know? Jesus Loves you and he's willing to give you True Life outside these sorrowful world we live in.... No more death......
No more death and people are dying daily?
What's your God really doing?is he smiling as people are dying? undecided
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by SpiritLifeNG: 8:42pm On Feb 01, 2022
Das1mama:
Wow good one. Congrat have being finding it difficult to quit smoking. Any experience as regards to that to enable me overcome the urge? Thanks in anticipation

LISTEN NOW
Incessant Smoking is another strong appetite. You want to break free but you cannot because your appetite has been aided and enhanced by something stronger than your will.

If time isn't taken you will become enthroned in that habit and your life will become a big platform for recruitment, such that when men of weak spirit come in contact with you, they become partakers of your appetite.

This is the level where prostitutes introduce others into prostitution and fruadsters introduce younger boys into the act. Both are similarly related to the issue of desperation.
It is a governance of principalities responsible for such appetites , such that theyrule over your spirit and mind .To fight one kingdom, you must submit to a kingdom of higher authority, i mean completely surrender your will.
But,before that.
Find out how you feel before smoking , that feeling there was the portal for your possession. You notice after smoking , you feel good. Just like how as prostitute or fraudster feels after getting paid. Note the reason and the difference of the before and after. You didnt just start smoking all of a sudden.

Now ,once you find out , Submit completely to God. sincerely ask God everyday to help you out. In your surrender, it will require diligence and humility to consistently be vulnerable and broken before God in the place of prayers. God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. The prayer of a broken and contrite spirit he will not despise.

Do this always before you start the day and also when you end the day and slowly watch how the Holy spirit will lift the burden of smoking away, and He will give you his own burden which you will find yourself consistenly yearning for.

Shalom..
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 8:54pm On Feb 01, 2022
Thanks bro i appreciate
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 5:10am On Feb 04, 2022
Shalom brother.
Re: Why You Can Never Break Free From Masturbation by Das1mama: 5:20am On Feb 04, 2022
[quote author=FERNANDEZISBACK post=109874287]
No more death and people are dying daily?
What's your God really doing?is he smiling as people are dying? undecided[/quote i want u to have these knowledge first "Not everybody in church are children of God" likewise the people but doesn't mean that children of God don't die but the difference between them is that the children of God have the Hope of second resurrection after death in this world we live in presently.

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