StarchAndBanga:


I am 55% certain she had not gone to the park yet as at when I told her something came up. We talked on video till after 3pm and as at then she was at the market.
She told me it's when she closes for the day that she would go to the park. If she had intentions of going to the park at that moment, she would have just told me while we were on video call that she would be on her way to the park any moment now.

According to her, she spent over 2 hours in traffic but the time between when we talked on video and the time I told her I was no longer interested was just over 1 hour

StarchAndBanga:


My intentions..

I never said what I did was right or I went about it the right away.

Created this thread to share my side of the story

Kingcalls:
He did nothing wrong...he cancelled his order and the criminal woman after seeing the message acted like she dint and still sent it .... thats buying my goods by force... I noticed that its women vendors that do this....I hv experienced it b4 , then the next thing is they will run online to buy sympathy

StarchAndBanga:


What did I make her loose please?

The items were not waybilled, the items are still with her.

I agree I fvcked up as I am yet to buy and I wasted her time and also stressed her out, but that was never my intention. If u read through everything I posted u would see my intention towards how it all went down.

This is very different from ur case

dauntless15:
Aside making her sit through traffic to the park, what about the linoleum she won't be able to sell because you made her cut it, life is hard already, you shouldn't cause another person pain by selfishly thinking of yourself whenever you act, it's unfair.

Kobicove:


You can't just wake up and cancel an order that has been processed at the last minute!

Kingcalls:


He has every right to cancel order

StarchAndBanga:
Hello,

Created this thread to share my side of the story regarding this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6968649/customer-blocked-me-after-making

On Wednesday last week, I contacted Xcelinteriors cos I wanted to buy wallpaper and carpet. We agreed on N90k as the amount for the items (excluding waybill). I had every intention of paying for these items as I requested for her to drop her acc number for me to make payment more than once (u can see that from our chats) but she suggested she would first go to the park to confirm how the waybill would cost so I send everything including the money for waybill at once.

She told me she would leave her office to the park when she closes for the day and when she gets there I would talk with the park ppl to negotiate for the waybill and send the full money including the waybill to her.

After our last conversation, something came up on my end so with remorse, chatted her up to let her know she should not bother going to the park anymore as I won't be able to pay for the items any more.

I 100% had no idea she had already gone to the park (according to her) cos we talked on video around few minutes to 3pm.

Around 4:41pm, I messaged her that she should not bother going to the park again and something came up on my end so I won't be able to pay for the items again (as at when I sent this message, she did not tell me she had closed for the day already and was going to the park to waybill the items).

Kingcalls:


He has every right to cancel order

dauntless15:
Aside making her sit through traffic to the park, what about the linoleum she won't be able to sell because you made her cut it, life is hard already, you shouldn't cause another person pain by selfishly thinking of yourself whenever you act, it's unfair.

edoairways:

No he shouldn't. If she was send that goods, she will only charge for waybill aside her goods

StarchAndBanga:


I am 55% certain she had not gone to the park yet as at when I told her something came up. We talked on video till after 3pm and as at then she was at the market.
She told me it's when she closes for the day that she would go to the park. If she had intentions of going to the park at that moment, she would have just told me while we were on video call that she would be on her way to the park any moment now.

According to her, she spent over 2 hours in traffic but the time between when we talked on video and the time I told her I was no longer interested was just over 1 hour

Kingcalls:


He has every right to cancel the request ....what the hell is pay her for inconvenience... total nonsense

Mariangeles:


Nigerians are their own problem.

When you order goods outside Nigeria, you have to pay for everything -goods, shipping from seller to logistics company, shipping and customs fee from there to Nigeria- before your goods are delivered to you.

Fuckjesusandgod:
See, you weren't wrong in anyway. Move on with your life and don't let anyone blackmail you emotionally or manipulate you. If you were the one in her shoe, they will still support her. Simpsons and stupid people everywhere.

Kingcalls:


As long as he messaged her on time , she has no right to disturb him... he cancelled b4 she sent it

Kingcalls:


As long as he messaged her on time , she has no right to disturb him... he cancelled b4 she sent it

mapet:


My position as well. It seems many people do not even know the rudiments of business transaction. A customer can change his mind if the business has not been consumated. If he had paid the money to her account and requests to cancel the deal, have people imagined the turn-around of the story?

When I do business online, I make sure I tidy my end very well else I don't deal. I was trying to order a product advertised on twitter this morning. I asked the lady where is the pick-up point? She responded that she doesn't do pick-up. I clarified that I meant where is her store so that I come and buy in person? She said she has only warehouse not store. I told her that ok if she was to do delivery to my house (gave her my location) how much. She said #1,500. I said fine, my proposal is "Cash on delivery". She closed the conversation and said no deal. I also courtesied and bid her bye-bye.... no stories that touch for me.

People should tidy up arrangement very well before making committals and not these emotional cries

StarchAndBanga:


What did I make her loose please?

The items were not waybilled, the items are still with her.

I agree I fvcked up as I am yet to buy and I wasted her time and also stressed her out, but that was never my intention. If u read through everything I posted u would see my intention towards how it all went down.

This is very different from ur case

Bridget95:
You guys asking people to get goods to you because you can't let go of a dim are taking sellers for granted. I hope one day a system will be in place to protect cash of sellers ontill deal is done.

Supposing you paid upfront for the items, nothing would have come up. You simply changed your mind midway because you have nothing to lose.

You didn't make any call or extra move to halt the transaction. The seller felt pained because she had cut an expensive part of the goods to your taste and at the moment will be impossible to sell.

chymeze:
Very simple matter. You should have simply offered to reimburse her tfare to and fro, and added a little something ontop to at least to compensate for her stress.

StarchAndBanga:


What did I make her loose please?

The items were not waybilled, the items are still with her.

I agree I fvcked up as I am yet to buy and I wasted her time and also stressed her out, but that was never my intention. If u read through everything I posted u would see my intention towards how it all went down.

This is very different from ur case