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Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Mom007(f): 11:21am On Feb 15, 2022 |
This lady is planning how to pour you acid. Siddon there. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by TheiaTalks: 11:21am On Feb 15, 2022 |
Ladumaa: She thinks you want to break up with her. If that isn't your motive, explain to her. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Nobody: 11:22am On Feb 15, 2022 |
Descottes:Descottes are you actually a good person if you do all you wrote?it means you don't have regards for the damage your actions might cause others. Hope you are doing fine, hope you treated your girlfriend to a nice Valentine treat |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Badadvisor: 11:23am On Feb 15, 2022 |
fineboynl:Yuu too get sense 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by tiswell(m): 11:33am On Feb 15, 2022 |
Ladumaa:you simp finish,now it's time to work on yasef |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by tiswell(m): 11:34am On Feb 15, 2022 |
Descottes:Lol |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by HumanoidX: 11:42am On Feb 15, 2022 |
I'm just going to weigh in on this real quick as a counselor. OP, whether male or female, you can't wake up one day and tell a person you were in a relationship with that you should go back to being friends. It is wrong. It is cold-hearted. You should let them know in clear terms that you want nothing to do with them and should leave them to decide whether or not they still want to be in your life (as a friend). Not agreeing that relationships are a do or die affair but it hurts the party who was committed more. Requiring space isn't a bad thing. Certain personalities require that. But without a timeline or clear communication, the other party will feel used and their time wasted. You can never recover the time lost. They will second-guess themselves, they will go through all sorts of emotions that might require therapy. They may develop trust issues. If their love was mostly pure, they may never be that vulnerable with anyone else. The list goes on. It's a vicious cycle that needs to stop. Some people can't stand it and turn out to wreck others. I have even read crazy stories of revenge leading to death (murder-suicide), depending on the hurt party's mentality. Others never attempt love again. Just because they gave their all to someone who couldn't deliver on their promise. If you still love her, go get your girl. But healing your relationship is a journey. And seek counseling because I can't say it will be a smooth ride. You need to earn the other person's trust. She loves you is why she sent that. Please fix it if you love her and I wish you both the best. All the best. 9 Likes |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by AgentGoat: 11:49am On Feb 15, 2022 |
doggedfighter: What's the best way to handle it? I'm in same shiit and i care about her feelings? |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:07pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
TheiaTalks: OK.. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:09pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
MadeINchenzen2: How do I find out if she's had other guys since the space? Cos I doubt She'll tell me if I ask |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:11pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Tomilola360:Thanks..You must've had some ugly experience |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:12pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
SILVERLINES: Chai!!! Abeg wetin I do you? |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:14pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Simran94: Is this true for all cases?? |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:14pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
BluntTheApostle: No she's not |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:15pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
rolams:Ok |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Ladumaa: 12:17pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Descottes:Me too 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Bamzyriches451: 12:18pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Damn!! Relationship wahala everywhere for this naija wey we dey |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Psoul(m): 12:20pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Ladumaa: Did you tell her dis; Before During or After the Valentine's Day? |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 12:21pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Ladumaa: How can you tell someone you're dating you want to be friends and not expect heaven to fall on you Put yourself in her shoes |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Rodeoz(m): 12:55pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Exactly, it takes wisdom to be a man in a relationship. Many a time, you'd feel like quitting but if you make any hasty decision on a temporary feeling, you'd have yourself to blame, especially if SHE'S A WORTHY LADY.... I don't think telling your partner you need some space is right if you don't have the intension of calling it quits. MufasaLion: |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by meobizy(f): 12:55pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
What should I do with this rubbish info? Seun, how does this concern me? |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by drimzsmoke(m): 3:12pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
chatinent: Every normal guy...Below are pages from 3 different books on relationship.Please sir,go through it
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Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by nonix22(m): 3:37pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
my own is that who was the major bankroller in this relationship?? if you, no bother yourself abeg. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Deri2018(m): 3:38pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Op Don tire to chop her kpekus. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Aaay: 4:20pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Better focus on getting rich rather than putting a whorre on your mind |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Mcslize: 5:58pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Ladumaa: . 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Mcslize: 6:08pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Mooh247: Exactly. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Mcslize: 6:10pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Freemasonry: On point! |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Fidecoo(m): 10:09pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Alice again!!. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Nobody: 6:21am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Ladumaa:In some cases, and in other cases the other party can decide to just move on from the relationship mentally, so even if they come back from their break there’s no more interest and effort on the part of this person. |
Re: Help: I Did Not Cheat On This Girl (pics) by Nobody: 6:23am On Feb 16, 2022 |
Freemasonry:Men need space? What about women? Don’t we need space too? How can you wake up one day and tell someone you are in a relationship with that you just “want to be friends with them” If a girl told her bf she needs space and that they should just be friends I am sure you all will insult her and say she’s seeing someone else. You guys always try to give excuses for men whenever they do something that’s not right but castigate women at every slight chance. |
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