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Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Regex: 2:51am On Feb 16, 2022
Cyntie55:
https://www.nairaland.com/6906383/younger-brother-bone-throat-pls
Good evening Nairalanders.
Last year, I created the above thread, how my younger brother set 70k on fire, some people did not believe me. But Thank God that 3 nairalanders saw the video evidence when they PM me and I hope they come across this thread so they could testify. I also want to thank everyone for the great and helpful advice.

Although, ever since then, he has been maintaining his lane, he barely talks to me, he greets my dad like he's being forced to greet. And am not happy with his lifestyle, he's my only brother and I need advice pls.

My brother is into yahoo yahoo, he comes home late at night (12 or 1am), sometimes he won't return home till the next day, he keeps wayward friends, he drinks alcohol, he smokes and do drugs {I haven't caught him red-handed smoking, but I'm not a child, his eyes are always red and dim}

My brother is a 2'1 graduate in Economics dept. From uniben. He's refused to get a job... Okay let assume there is no job in Nigeria, my dad's friend offered him a job in Lagos he refuse to go, learn a skill or trade he refused... Okay further your education {probably masters or professional courses} he refused.

We're neither rich nor poor, just an average family. My dad make sure we don't lack basic amenities. There is a roof over our head, he sent us to school, there's always food at home, he advice us despite he's not educated but as a traditional man he's full of wisdom.

Am concerned about my brother because of the high rate of ritual killings and yahoo plus whatever.... Am scared and worried, I don't want my brother to be involved in such crime.

Right now as am typing, my brother is not at home, I don't even know my brother's whereabouts. If one ask me where is your brother? I can't vague of his whereabouts but he returns home very late, sometimes till the next day.

Sometimes our parents are not to be blame for the evil and atrocities done by their children in our society, Honestly some children are from the pit of hell.

My dad has done his best but no changes, he has washed his hands away from his life but deep down I know he's not happy. Nairalanders please, how do I advice my brother.



The best thing is to be indifferent to your brother. You can not force one to change. One changes by oneself.

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Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Alitair(m): 6:49am On Feb 16, 2022
Cyntie55:
https://www.nairaland.com/6906383/younger-brother-bone-throat-pls
Good evening Nairalanders.
Last year, I created the above thread, how my younger brother set 70k on fire, some people did not believe me. But Thank God that 3 nairalanders saw the video evidence when they PM me and I hope they come across this thread so they could testify. I also want to thank everyone for the great and helpful advice.

Although, ever since then, he has been maintaining his lane, he barely talks to me, he greets my dad like he's being forced to greet. And am not happy with his lifestyle, he's my only brother and I need advice pls.

My brother is into yahoo yahoo, he comes home late at night (12 or 1am), sometimes he won't return home till the next day, he keeps wayward friends, he drinks alcohol, he smokes and do drugs {I haven't caught him red-handed smoking, but I'm not a child, his eyes are always red and dim}

My brother is a 2'1 graduate in Economics dept. From uniben. He's refused to get a job... Okay let assume there is no job in Nigeria, my dad's friend offered him a job in Lagos he refuse to go, learn a skill or trade he refused... Okay further your education {probably masters or professional courses} he refused.

We're neither rich nor poor, just an average family. My dad make sure we don't lack basic amenities. There is a roof over our head, he sent us to school, there's always food at home, he advice us despite he's not educated but as a traditional man he's full of wisdom.

Am concerned about my brother because of the high rate of ritual killings and yahoo plus whatever.... Am scared and worried, I don't want my brother to be involved in such crime.

Right now as am typing, my brother is not at home, I don't even know my brother's whereabouts. If one ask me where is your brother? I can't vague of his whereabouts but he returns home very late, sometimes till the next day.

Sometimes our parents are not to be blame for the evil and atrocities done by their children in our society, Honestly some children are from the pit of hell.

My dad has done his best but no changes, he has washed his hands away from his life but deep down I know he's not happy. Nairalanders please, how do I advice my brother.

Instead of trying to force him to change to who you want him to be, have you tried praying for him so God will use him?

Maybe this is his lifestyle and no matter what you do, it will not change.

My family turned me away and sent me away from home because of some of these things you said. I am a graduate of FEDPONEK but now am a driver.

You think am happy now? No I am not.

Matter of fact is I don't talk to family anymore.
So if you don't want to lose your brother, then stop trying to recreate him to be who you all are expecting him to be.

UDO
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Donaluta(m): 8:55am On Feb 16, 2022
chatinent:
You, your sister and your dad have done your best. Allow the deaf fly follow the corpse to the grave. Your care is purging him that he misbehaves! If it's in my house, I'll send him packing! You can't be james-bonding in my house and be keeping faces with me! When better hunger hold am, en sense go return.


Nonsense and ingredients.

I don't mince words at all!


This fair boy .... Always the first to comment
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by baby124: 9:25am On Feb 16, 2022
He’s now a man. He’s also showing you all that he’s a big boy. Why is he still at home being a nuisance. Everyone chooses their path in life, he has made this decision with his full chest. Nigerian parents know how to spoil ungrateful children. If I was your father, I will sell my house and properties and relocate to my village, without his knowledge. Leave the crazy child to fend for himself.
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Saintmary(f): 10:34am On Feb 16, 2022
Cyntie55:
https://www.nairaland.com/6906383/younger-brother-bone-throat-pls
Good evening Nairalanders.
Last year, I created the above thread, how my younger brother set 70k on fire, some people did not believe me. But Thank God that 3 nairalanders saw the video evidence when they PM me and I hope they come across this thread so they could testify. I also want to thank everyone for the great and helpful advice.

Although, ever since then, he has been maintaining his lane, he barely talks to me, he greets my dad like he's being forced to greet. And am not happy with his lifestyle, he's my only brother and I need advice pls.

My brother is into yahoo yahoo, he comes home late at night (12 or 1am), sometimes he won't return home till the next day, he keeps wayward friends, he drinks alcohol, he smokes and do drugs {I haven't caught him red-handed smoking, but I'm not a child, his eyes are always red and dim}

My brother is a 2'1 graduate in Economics dept. From uniben. He's refused to get a job... Okay let assume there is no job in Nigeria, my dad's friend offered him a job in Lagos he refuse to go, learn a skill or trade he refused... Okay further your education {probably masters or professional courses} he refused.

We're neither rich nor poor, just an average family. My dad make sure we don't lack basic amenities. There is a roof over our head, he sent us to school, there's always food at home, he advice us despite he's not educated but as a traditional man he's full of wisdom.

Am concerned about my brother because of the high rate of ritual killings and yahoo plus whatever.... Am scared and worried, I don't want my brother to be involved in such crime.

Right now as am typing, my brother is not at home, I don't even know my brother's whereabouts. If one ask me where is your brother? I can't vague of his whereabouts but he returns home very late, sometimes till the next day.

Sometimes our parents are not to be blame for the evil and atrocities done by their children in our society, Honestly some children are from the pit of hell.

My dad has done his best but no changes, he has washed his hands away from his life but deep down I know he's not happy. Nairalanders please, how do I advice my brother.



Please take drastic actions before he uses your Dad or sister for rituals.


I'm sorry this is happening to you.
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Emmanuelcann: 11:46am On Feb 16, 2022
It's only the fear of God that can straighten a crooked line, there's no alternative. You're either living for this world (vanity), or you're living for the next one - and I don't mean fake/organised religion. I'm talking about a genuine relationship with God through Christ!
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Conwarden: 2:35pm On Feb 16, 2022
Cyntie55:
https://www.nairaland.com/6906383/younger-brother-bone-throat-pls
Good evening Nairalanders.
Last year, I created the above thread, how my younger brother set 70k on fire, some people did not believe me. But Thank God that 3 nairalanders saw the video evidence when they PM me and I hope they come across this thread so they could testify. I also want to thank everyone for the great and helpful advice.

Although, ever since then, he has been maintaining his lane, he barely talks to me, he greets my dad like he's being forced to greet. And am not happy with his lifestyle, he's my only brother and I need advice pls.

My brother is into yahoo yahoo, he comes home late at night (12 or 1am), sometimes he won't return home till the next day, he keeps wayward friends, he drinks alcohol, he smokes and do drugs {I haven't caught him red-handed smoking, but I'm not a child, his eyes are always red and dim}

My brother is a 2'1 graduate in Economics dept. From uniben. He's refused to get a job... Okay let assume there is no job in Nigeria, my dad's friend offered him a job in Lagos he refuse to go, learn a skill or trade he refused... Okay further your education {probably masters or professional courses} he refused.

We're neither rich nor poor, just an average family. My dad make sure we don't lack basic amenities. There is a roof over our head, he sent us to school, there's always food at home, he advice us despite he's not educated but as a traditional man he's full of wisdom.

Am concerned about my brother because of the high rate of ritual killings and yahoo plus whatever.... Am scared and worried, I don't want my brother to be involved in such crime.

Right now as am typing, my brother is not at home, I don't even know my brother's whereabouts. If one ask me where is your brother? I can't vague of his whereabouts but he returns home very late, sometimes till the next day.

Sometimes our parents are not to be blame for the evil and atrocities done by their children in our society, Honestly some children are from the pit of hell.

My dad has done his best but no changes, he has washed his hands away from his life but deep down I know he's not happy. Nairalanders please, how do I advice my brother.


Hmmmm. Truly sad sad


I don't believe your brother will listen to you or anyone in that house.

What do you do for a living? Does he see you or any another member of the household or extended family, as a success story he can look up to?

I think he needs a forced and radical change of environment (relocation; especially because of negative peer influence) . . . and pairing to an older and legitimately successful male, for mentoring.

Truly wish I can help here.




Meanwhile . . .

angry

Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters! Leviticus 19:13 KJV fall on you all angry angry angry

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Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by DannyExcel: 3:37pm On Feb 16, 2022
Cyntie55

You have done your part, your Dad has done his part. Relax, It's obvious your brother has chosen the path of destruction.
You can't change a grown man. His mates in the north have wives and kids, he's not a baby anymore.

Pls channel all the love you have for your brother to your Dad now, that old man needs all the love he can get because he is not happy.

Secondly, tell your Dad to write his Will and bever include his name to be given any properties. It's better your Dad's properties be goven to the church or the orphanage under your care.
Please let your Dad not make the mistake of giving him anything unless he changes and turn a new leaf.

Read this thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6953130/calmed-friend
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Omakraid(f): 3:48pm On Feb 16, 2022
I'd suggest you talk to your sister to try and get your dad over to her country if she doesn't mind while you also change your location because with this hatred brewing in your brother's heart against you his family ehn, he won't hesitate using either you or your dad for rituals ooo and this would happen on those late nights of his. God forbid shaa.. Or talk to your dad about changing location entirely for you people's safety
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by Kajaard: 7:04pm On Feb 16, 2022
shevchenko:


You are still here condescending other people .
You no dey tire?

Dollarstore employee

That dude is jobless. Always on every thread in nairaland. Somebody busy would not have such free time to be masturbating all over the internet.
Re: How Do I Advice My Younger Brother. Nairalanders Please Help!!! by wealthtrak: 12:18pm On Mar 16, 2022
Cyntie55:
https://www.nairaland.com/6906383/younger-brother-bone-throat-pls
Good evening Nairalanders.
Last year, I created the above thread, how my younger brother set 70k on fire, some people did not believe me. But Thank God that 3 nairalanders saw the video evidence when they PM me and I hope they come across this thread so they could testify. I also want to thank everyone for the great and helpful advice.

Although, ever since then, he has been maintaining his lane, he barely talks to me, he greets my dad like he's being forced to greet. And am not happy with his lifestyle, he's my only brother and I need advice pls.

My brother is into yahoo yahoo, he comes home late at night (12 or 1am), sometimes he won't return home till the next day, he keeps wayward friends, he drinks alcohol, he smokes and do drugs {I haven't caught him red-handed smoking, but I'm not a child, his eyes are always red and dim}

My brother is a 2'1 graduate in Economics dept. From uniben. He's refused to get a job... Okay let assume there is no job in Nigeria, my dad's friend offered him a job in Lagos he refuse to go, learn a skill or trade he refused... Okay further your education {probably masters or professional courses} he refused.

We're neither rich nor poor, just an average family. My dad make sure we don't lack basic amenities. There is a roof over our head, he sent us to school, there's always food at home, he advice us despite he's not educated but as a traditional man he's full of wisdom.

Am concerned about my brother because of the high rate of ritual killings and yahoo plus whatever.... Am scared and worried, I don't want my brother to be involved in such crime.

Right now as am typing, my brother is not at home, I don't even know my brother's whereabouts. If one ask me where is your brother? I can't vague of his whereabouts but he returns home very late, sometimes till the next day.

Sometimes our parents are not to be blame for the evil and atrocities done by their children in our society, Honestly some children are from the pit of hell.

My dad has done his best but no changes, he has washed his hands away from his life but deep down I know he's not happy. Nairalanders please, how do I advice my brother.

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