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Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Quality20(m): 1:26pm On Feb 16
Yeah in the past when morals were highly upheld, divorced and widowed women do get remarried after a couple of weeks or months, but now we have all manners of associations of divorcees, and widowed women as if their own type of humanity is different from the rest of us The question begging for answer now is are such groups of women supposed to remain single like that forever? Does it mean that because they lost their their first love, they are now incapable of loving again? How do they cope with their intimate desires or is it now dead? What happens to them seeking out men of their tastes for marriage? And how do they prevent themselves falling into some kind of runs or being perceived to be into runs codedly by the larger society?
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Feb 16
Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.
It's a choice.

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Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Shedrack777: 1:33pm On Feb 16
any widow that that don't give love a chance after 6 months of her husband's demise, just know that that brother or uncle always checking up on her is servicin her sexually. divorced women, na their own worst

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Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Goldbw122: 1:36pm On Feb 16
It depends on the mind of the woman because I'd you can change your emotional and physical thing about things around you then you can be able to manipulate your marriage...
Make your marriage happy..
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by chatinent(m): 1:41pm On Feb 16
As long as it doesn't affect the peace of another.
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Southernigbo: 1:47pm On Feb 16
Shedrack777:
any widow that that don't give love a chance after 6 months of her husband's demise, just know that that brother or uncle always checking up on her is servicin her sexually. divorced women, na their own worst
don't u think 6 months is too short for her to be through with mourning?
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Shedrack777: 1:59pm On Feb 16
Southernigbo:
don't u think 6 months is too short for her to be through with mourning?
a woman's heart can mourn her late husband for more than 5years, but her kpekus can't mourn him for 5months. same as a man who will have sex 2 months after the death of his wife. not because he/she doesn't love her/him, but because konji is a no respecter of person.

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Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by hitsugaya: 2:19pm On Feb 16
Marriage is not an achievement!.. know this and know peace!
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Kobojunkie: 2:44pm On Feb 16
Wisesaying001:
Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.
It's a choice.
It was always a choice only our ancestors made it seem a curse to choose the single life. undecided

Now we know they were merely ignorant and refuse to be defined by their foolishness.
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by dtruth50(m): 2:56pm On Feb 16
That's because Christianity forbid more than one wife. While, most of the single guys will not want to marry widow or divorcee.

That's why I like being a Muslim
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Kobojunkie: 3:01pm On Feb 16
dtruth50:
That's because Christianity forbid more than one wife. While, most of the single guys will not want to marry widow or divorcee.

That's why I like being a Muslim
Christianity does not forbid more than one wife neither does it forbid women having more than one husband.. undecided

However,it notes that it is foolishness, wickedness even, to take on more than you are able to handle... undecided

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Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by YinkaOlusesi16(m): 3:09pm On Feb 16
Everybody with their own opinion
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Southernigbo: 5:34pm On Feb 16
YinkaOlusesi16:
Everybody with their own opinion
no o! it's a societal issue, that's y I love what Kano gov does by getting them married
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by freedomchild: 6:10pm On Feb 16
Shedrack777:
any widow that that don't give love a chance after 6 months of her husband's demise, just know that that brother or uncle always checking up on her is servicin her sexually. divorced women, na their own worst
you're right. There's this widow in my neighborhood some years back. She had only one child for her late husband. She was seriously having sex with one single business guy living upstairs in the same building codedly. This act continued till the guy packed out of the house. Though the guy is now married.
Many young widows who have not found love or remarried have guys or men who service them frequently and codedly
Re: Don't Widowed Women And Divorcees Need To Get Remarried? by Southernigbo: 9:58pm On Feb 16
freedomchild:
you're right. There's this widow in my neighborhood some years back. She had only one child for her late husband. She was seriously having sex with one single business guy living upstairs in the same building codedly. This act continued till the guy packed out of the house. Though the guy is now married.
Many young widows who have not found love or remarried have guys or men who service them frequently and codedly
Eyya, but d prob they are having to confront is that many guys will be seeking them out for adultery and fornication but won't propose to marry them. Some men deliberately seek them with the thought that they can't reject sex cos they are already used to it

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