My good neighbor asked that her two kids stay with me after school until she resolves a serious issues. She has two kids a boy of 8years old and the girl is 5years.

Her husband is a business man who travels alot within and outside the country. He's rarely around. They live in a three bedroom apartment. He has a younger brother who was living with him before they got married. The brother also got married but the marriage didn't work out. He later got a job in Lagos and decided to move in with his elder brother,my neighbor's husband.

My neighbor noticed that her brother in-law enjoys watching porn on his laptop even when the children are around. She finds this disturbing and irritating. She has complained severally to her husband. He also brings in different women to their house especially when his brother is not around.

Now to the issue, the head teacher requested to see my neighbour. At the meeting with the head teacher she got to know that her son was caught playing dirty with a girl in his classroom.

She's deeply troubled and believes he must have learnt it from the uncle.

How does she call the brother in-law to order now that the husband has travelled.

Please advice.

Confront him and address him properly, demand that he stops that rubbish and if he refuses to stop then make the house very unbearable for him till he packs out in a hurry.

she has a reason to chase him out what is she waiting for??

After all most women know how to frustrate their in-laws out of their house..

Exactly what I told her. The kids shouldn't be exposed to such nonsense.

Iyaebe:

Confront him and address him properly, demand that he stops that rubbish and if he refuses to stop then make the house very unbearable for him till he packs out in a hurry.

lilvicky68:
Most women always know how to frustrate their in-laws out of their house..

Now that she has a reason to chase him out what is she waiting for??

Frustrate their in-laws put of their house?

Would you want your sister-in-law watching porn in the presence of your kids?

I don't believe tis story.... There's more to it...
Him go just sit down dey watch porn n d kids would be there?? We're would dia mum be?? Abi go on laptop tell d kids to come watch porn??

Women make una dey cool down... Ur advising her to chase him away forgetting that he has been with his bro from day 1... Instead of una to advise her to reason with am, maybe know him issues find solution una dey cap carless...

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He forgets that kids are good imitators and explorers

InTheCloudySky:
She should inform her husband and have him tell his brother to leave. Watching porn and bringing different women to their home = no-no.

He needs to bounce, before he corrupts their children any further. He has a job and should get his own apartment to do all that nonsense there.

Best advise is that, the dude should be sent out of that house. He's a predator. He's addicted to porn and shameless about it. I wouldn't be surprised if he's been molesting the little girl or the boy. Also, I wouldn't be surprised if he's been wänking to the woman's pictures or wears. Shameless man!

All the woman needs to do is to tell the school authority to contact the husband and request his presence in the school premises concerning his son's misconduct. That should make the man know that "his roof is on fire."

I believe a reasonable parent would never want to be humiliated.

nrexzy:
I don't believe tis story.... There's more to it...
Him go just sit down dey watch porn n d kids would be there?? We're would dia mum be?? Abi go on laptop tell d kids to come watch porn??

Women make una dey cool down... Ur advising her to chase him away forgetting that he has been with his bro from day 1... Instead of una to advise her to reason with am, maybe know him issues find solution una dey cap carless...

WTF? Zip your filthy mouth, kiddo! You kidding me?

The woman can't be with her kids always. Not all women are jobless that they gonna be home 24/7 especially during weekdays. Are you saying kids can't be around their uncle in the same house? Isn't that what kids usually do when they have relatives living with them?

They are minors for fvck sake and this demented uncle was to be discreet with his sexual perversion instead of publicizing his depraved life to the kids and the woman. He is a fvcking pervert! He's got no shame!

Also, you talking about brotherhood, yeah? You must be a joker! A brother would never be so shameless and perverted in the presence of his nephew and niece. He should be a mentor/role model and a father by proxy to those kids. He's gradually destroying the mentality of those kids and you are talking about brotherhood and being reasonable with him.

You are a potential rapist, rape apologist, pedophile, serial wänker and most likely a porn addict.

lilvicky68:
Most women always know how to frustrate their in-laws out of their house..

Now that she has a reason to chase him out what is she waiting for??

All what the man did was good, yeah? But all what the woman is doing is frustration, right?

Welldone! Y'all perverts and potential pedophiles ain't that difficult to spot. Characters are like smoke, you can't hide it for long.

MufasaLion:


WTF? Zip your filthy mouth, kiddo! You kidding me?

The woman can't be with her kids always. Not all women are jobless that they gonna be home 24/7 especially during weekdays. Are you saying kids can't be around their uncle in the same house? Isn't that what kids usually do when they have relatives living with them?

They are minors for fvck sake and this demented uncle was to be discreet with his sexual perversion instead of publicizing his depraved life to the kids and the woman. He is a fvcking pervert! He's got no shame!

Also, you talking about brotherhood, yeah? You must be a joker! A brother would never be so shameless and perverted in the presence of his nephew and niece. He should be a mentor/role model and a father by proxy to those kids. He's gradually destroying the mentality of those kids and you are talking about brotherhood and being reasonable with him.

You are a potential rapist, rape apologist, pedophile, serial wänker and most likely a porn addict.

In summary I still don't see resounding solution to the problem...

As much as i dont agree with watching porn especially in the presence of the little ones, the woman should take it easy abeg.what you may not know is the guy could be in their home on his brother's request

nrexzy:


In summary I still don't see resounding solution to the problem...

Oh, yeah? You can't, because the guy has done nothing wrong in your own opinion.

Tmex:
As much as i dont agree with watching porn especially in the presence of the little ones, the woman should take it easy abeg.what you may not know is the guy could be in their home on his brother's request

Can you explain your last sentence?

nrexzy:
I don't believe tis story.... There's more to it...
Him go just sit down dey watch porn n d kids would be there?? We're would dia mum be?? Abi go on laptop tell d kids to come watch porn??

Women make una dey cool down... Ur advising her to chase him away forgetting that he has been with his bro from day 1... Instead of una to advise her to reason with am, maybe know him issues find solution una dey cap carless...

You can't believe it because you believe in the narrative that a woman must be wrong when it comes to inlaws...or you are an aggrieved inlaw?

If this is true, that guy should be kicked out of that house. It's highly irresponsible to watch such nonsense where children are. I can't take such rubbish from anyone. I would make sure he leaves that house and inform his brother later.

Aforxzy:
She's deeply troubled and believes he must have learnt it from the uncle.

How does she call the brother in-law to order now that the husband has travelled.
Please advice.

This is an issue the woman should have seen coming, having a grown arsed divorced man living in the same house as her as her own family.

Regardless of how how feels, it is best she waits for her husband to returns, so they can all sit and tackle the menace there and then. In the meantime, she can maybe pay someone to look after her kids instead of her in-law until then.

Aforxzy:
Exactly what I told her. The kids shouldn't be exposed to such nonsense.

She shouldn't directly confront him as that might turn violent quickly.

A grown-up man who is foolish enough to watch porn even in front of his own niece and nephew is an unpredictable fool, and this woman don't need to test him without someone else being present.

She should tell her husband to handle this with his brother as a matter of urgency. Meanwhile she must take steps immediately to protect the kids from getting further exposed by stopping them from being in the brother-in-law’s room.

I think I'm a bit surprised she didn't already take drastic steps before now to protect her kids from being exposed to the brother-in-law's mindless behavior. I'm also surprised that a man like the brother-in-law didn’t keep his private business very private because of the kids. Something doesn't add up

This should work too

Regardless of how how feels, it is best she waits for her husband to returns, so they can all sit and tackle the menace there and then. In the meantime, she can maybe pay someone to look after her kids instead of her in-law until then. [/quote]

He's one of those over pampered inlaws that believes the woman is inferior.

ImaIma1:


You can't believe it because you believe in the narrative that a woman must be wrong when it comes to inlaws...or you are an aggrieved inlaw?

ImaIma1:


You can't believe it because you believe in the narrative that a woman must be wrong when it comes to inlaws...or you are an aggrieved inlaw?

If it were to be ur brother would ur opinion still be the same?

nrexzy:

If it were to be ur brother would ur opinion still be the same?

Which brother? A brother that watches porn where kids are, is that one a brother?

You people on this forum think everything is about bias for inlaws. No pervert will stay in my house that has kids even if he is my father.

ImaIma1:


Which brother? A brother that watches porn where kids are, is that one a brother?

You people on this forum think everything is about bias for inlaws. No pervery will stay in my house that has kids even if he is my father.

That dude is nothing but a shameless pedophile and rape apologist. They learn the hard way.

Aforxzy:
He's one of those over pampered inlaws that believes the woman is inferior.

The woman should definitely not approach such a tool by herself, and also she must insist that husband get rid of that garbage when he returns.

Aforxzy:
Exactly what I told her. The kids shouldn't be exposed to such nonsense.

.......

Iyaebe:
Confront him and address him properly, demand that he stops that rubbish and if he refuses to stop then make the house very unbearable for him till he packs out in a hurry.

...... Op if you must adhere to this advice,then you must not take the last paragraph or sentence into consideration,do not think about that at all

MufasaLion:


All what the man did was good, yeah? But all what the woman is doing is frustration, right?

Welldone! Y'all perverts and potential pedophiles ain't that difficult to spot. Characters are like smoke, you can't hide it for long.

K

Aforxzy:
He's one of those over pampered inlaws that believes the woman is inferior.

Obviously. He's one of those that go to cause trouble in his brother's house and blames the wife.

One thing is for sure if it were me, that pervert is leaving that house asap, whether or not hubby is around. I can't just imagine my kids in the same space with such terrible influence.

MufasaLion:


That dude is nothing but a shameless pedophile and rape apologist. They learn the hard way.

Someone will teach him a life lesson the hard way soon.

Fake story..

So a mother will see her children watching porn from her brother in-law's laptop and she won't warn him to take it to his room or take her children from him.. instead she's reporting him to his brother that isn't around..

I can see she's very wise..

Mtchewwwww