So it has become a wailing sound even sung more than the national anthem. Men are wondering why women of today are not like their mothers.


They want to have wives like their mothers cos their mothers "suffered" for them and the family and wore suffer head like a badge of honor to prove to society that she was a virtuous woman.

You will hear things like "your father never did this to or for me, excuse me ma, it was your perogative to stay with such a man. Sometimes I think some women of old deliberately raised their sons horribly so it can be another woman's headache with the hope that she has been groomed to soak in all the dysfunction she pumped him with.

Most times their mothers are enablers of the their terrible behavior . Ever heard of the statement " na man"? Na dem.They leave their sons with no proper guidance to blend and find his way to becoming a man ,after all "na man".

lolz.

Out of the abundance of the Mind, the hand wrote.
When your mum was only a rag to your Dad, you will think every other Mum was same. But when you see the Virtuous woman of Prov. 31 in your Mum you will definitely wish your Wife is like that.

Between those ladies whose Father were very Bad should stop thinking all Fathers are like their Father.

#Peace

So lame

Op so you don’t want a hubby like your dad? Seems your mom made a mistake marrying your dad .

Anyway yeah I want a wife like my mom and my mom was never a slave to my dad . It because of the great virtue she possessed as a wife and a mom

And sorry if your mom was a slave to your dad.

Some people won't like this


Lemme just chill n read comments



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Candidlady:
Some people won't like this


Lemme just chill n read comments



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the hit dogs are already hollering .


Funny enough it was even a man that made the Posts

fikayormi:
Op so you don’t want a hubby like your dad? Seems your mom made a mistake marrying your dad .

Anyway yeah I want a wife like my mom and my mom was never a slave to my dad . It because of the great virtue she possessed as a wife and a mom

And sorry if your mom was a slave to your dad.

See as you turn the table. Chai...correct guy.

Ladycewhy:
the hit dogs are already hollering .


Funny enough it was even a man that made the Posts

And you believe him?

I'm Cumming.

Blablamalala:


And you believe him?

It makes alot of sense. I see many nerves are wrecking.

I wonder if such mothers are proud to have raised sons who want to end up married to women who would tolerate the same level of abuse they did.

fikayormi:
Op so you don’t want a hubby like your dad? Seems your mom made a mistake marrying your dad .

Anyway yeah I want a wife like my mom and my mom was never a slave to my dad . It because of the great virtue she possessed as a wife and a mom

And sorry if your mom was a slave to your dad.

Virtue of tolerance ,yes sir attitude , compromise , forgiveness, patience, selflessness, giving without expecting anything in return,never putting herself first but only her children , husband and husband's people in that order .

Any other virtue?

Ladycewhy:
It makes alot of sense. I see many nerves are wrecking.

What about your mum. Does she fall in this category too?

Kobojunkie:
I wonder if such mothers are proud to have raised sons who want to end up married to women who would tolerate abuse the way they did.

I don't know about that ,but I do know they are not remorseful.

My aunt was accused of using charm for her husband because she made him a better human being who takes accountability and responsibility for his actions. Especially on the health , lifestyle and grooming part.lol

fikayormi:
1. Op so you don’t want a hubby like your dad? Seems your mom made a mistake marrying your dad .

2.Anyway yeah I want a wife like my mom and my mom was never a slave to my dad . It because of the great virtue she possessed as a wife and a mom

And sorry if your mom was a slave to your dad.

1. Why would anyone in his/her sane mind want a partner much like his/her ďad or mum?

2. Care to list some of those virtues you claim your mum had so we can better analyze the core reason behind this claim of yours?

Blablamalala:


What about your mum. Does she fall in this category too?

she doesn't have a DIL.

Ladycewhy:
I don't know about that ,but I do know they are not remorseful.

My aunt was accused of using charm for her husband because she made him a better human being who takes accountability and responsibility for his actions. Especially on the health , lifestyle and grooming part.lol

And how did your aunt fare about living her life basically parenting what was supposed to be her own husband?,

Kobojunkie:
1. Why would anyone in their sane minds want a partner much like their ďad or mum?

2. Care to list some of those virtues you claim your mum had so we can better analyze the core reason behind this claim of yours?

The virtues would probably mirror a woman who has no life of her own and sacrificed all for the family like the ones i mentioned above.

The dude na Idiot. Na people like dis dem wife dey control like t.V stations.

Ladycewhy:
she doesn't have a DIL.

What is a DIL?

Kobojunkie:
And how did your aunt fare about living her life basically parenting what was supposed to be her own husband?,

She is a strong woman. But me nor get that strength. He is better than when they first got married. Visited her during Christmas and we got talking ,I was like you try o .


I guess na that one make us bad ,as we nor wan raise adults and fix them .

Blablamalala:


What is a DIL?

Daughter in-law.

Ladycewhy:
The virtues would probably mirror a woman who has no life of her own and sacrificed all for the family like the ones i mentioned above.

No wonder that Post made sense to you. Well am sorry for having being brought up by such a mother.

Sounds like a SIMPle man

Ladycewhy:
Virtue of tolerance ,yes sir attitude , compromise , forgiveness, patient, selflessness, giving without expecting anything in return,never putting herself first but only her children , husband and husband's people in that order .

Any other virtue?

Ask google . Next pls ?

Ladycewhy:
She is a strong woman. But me nor get that strength. He is better than when they first got married. Visited her during Christmas and we got talking ,I was like you try o .
I guess na that one make us bad ,as we nor wan raise adults and fix them .

To accomplish that, she likely had to give up on herself and her dreams as a person. That is not a marriage but an adult-parenting gig... no one wants that kind of life sentence.

She is lucky it turned out well in her case because for the vast majority, it never does and regret is all that waits at the end of it all for them.

fikayormi:


Ask google . Next pls ?

lol.

So you don't know the virtues but just want to yap and bark?

There is no next ,I created this thread ,if your brain capacity wasn't ready to handle the conversation you should have scrolled down bro.

Mean while, why do some ladies smell horribly down there. Ladycewhy? Is it because their mum didn't teach them hygine?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIuIY6FtBSQ

Kobojunkie:
To accomplish that, she likely had to give up on herself and her dreams as a person. That is not a marriage but an adult-parenting gig... no one wants that kind of life sentence. She is lucky it turned out well in her case because for the vast majority, it never does and regret is all that waits at the end of it all for them.

My dear ,like I said she is trying,I just don't want to say more but I think I made a thread about trying to fix an adult man. It's no woman's responsibility , if he didn't get the proper upbringing ,it's not your place to teach him. That's too much burden to carry .

theophorus:
Out of the abundance of the Mind, the hand wrote.
When your mum was only a rag to your Dad, you will think every other Mum was same. But when you see the Virtuous woman of Prov. 31 in your Mum you will definitely wish your Wife is like that.

Between those ladies whose Father were very Bad should stop thinking all Fathers are like their Father.
#Peace

The Proverbs 31 idea of a virtuous woman is just that, an idea. If you ever actually took time to read through the proverb for yourself, you would have realized that instead she is a woman backed by at least 15 slaves/employees of her own whose expenses she also takes care of - a CEO or company. That kind of woman has to either come from a billionaire background or be married to one herself in order to accomplish all she and her troop are written of in that Proverb.

So next time you are tempted to speak of the virtuous woman, make sure you are able to afford her first.