BluntTheApostle:


That stupid girl got me arrested for stalking.

You can imagine the audacity. I am sure the boy is behind it. Because that girl would dare not lodge a complaint against me at the police station all by herself.

The police have had me sign an undertaking. And right there, I told her she was the one disowning me. And she could not say anything. I thought she was remorseful. So, I tried to reach out to her only to discover that she has blocked me everywhere, even on Facebook.

So, it has been a while we talked or saw.

At this stage, I can only pray for her.

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to indicate personality put....

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to indicate personality put....

Ishilove:

I saw your picture somewhere a very long time ago. You are a black beauty

Kobojunkie:

Ishilove:

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Thanks
Exactly
That lady even admitted she came from such a family,

Those toxic ways has completely consumed her taking a hold of her.
Very obvious as a clear as crystal in her replies.

1Sharon:

The good men that treat them how they're supposed to be treated are seen as boring and uninteresting.

Karleb:
In the Nigeria that you live, shebi its only men that abuse women.

Things are so bad for men that if the woman didn't seriously injure you or kill you, no one will believe she is abusing you.

Ishilove:

You have got to be kidding me

Leave her to her devices. She is an adult and we all will bear the consequences of our actions. Heaven and earth bear you witness that you tried to warn her. Last last she is the one that will come looking for you when live don clear for eyes

Kobojunkie:
Nagging isn't always verbal abuse.

Simran94:


And why is it different? Because you men see women as the weaker gender that can be treated however and wouldn’t be able to defend themselves?
Why is a Guy-guy fight different because a man can defend himself from his fellow man but a woman cannot defend herself from a man?

Let’s say a man starts to beat up his wife, then his wife decided to defend herself by hitting something on his head and he dies in the process, Can that be called self-defense on the woman’s part?

BluntTheApostle:


Don't get me wrong, Simran.

What I meant was the relationship between a man and a woman in a domestic setting may be difficult to generalize to relationships outside the domestic settings.

A woman may not nag her female friend for the same reason that she might even deafen her husband.

Every relationship is peculiar.

Some of these nagging women may not even be able to nag their younger brothers

BluntTheApostle:


I have left her, Ishi.

At least, I tried my best. She can't deny that.

Rubyjade:
No, it's murder.

JaceBlaze:


We already know this...not to mention how misogynistic most West African men are.Most of these laws we have enacted to protect women in SA will not be tolerated in Nigeria.

JustforMen:


Domestic Violence is totally evil and inexcusably bad. It has no place in civilized human society.

Now, what is domestic Violence?

What does it mean?

What are the forms it takes?

Ishilove:

I don't expect you will get invited to the wedding.

Rubyjade:
Not true

Ishilove:
Bespectacled, brown chocolate lady.

Magnoliaa:


Kobo, Buda (and highly 'suspectful'–Bratislava–) are guys LOL.

There's a peculiar streak amongst the three of them.

Ishilove:
Bratislava is female, Kobo is female while Buda is male

Magnoliaa:


The first subject; I doubt. Na why I say e still dey tentative . It's the part of "shim" being in love with lilvicky I no get.

Why are you so certain buda is male? At what point do you know? If you can understand how Buda presents himself for a lot of people to still think he's female, you'll understand for Kobo too. Because if you say kobo argues a great deal "like a woman" and comment on the food thread, does buda not argue without ceasing too and talk about cooking? Kobo that said he wanna see the nekkid pictures of the Miss Nigeria contestants. There's also another reason I strongly believe he's male sha, but I won't say. And for the other two variables as well.

BRATISLAVA:


Love is universal.

But Buda is majorly S uspect. Likewise Kobo. Himshs.

Ishilove:

Bra.tisla.va is female, Kobo is female while Buda is male

Magnoliaa:


Naso.



As far as I'm concerned sha o, I'm not in doubt as to what the gender of those two are. Na you remain make I add there. Watin be himshs?

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Her Op is simply focused on domestic violence as it affects women.

Benee1000:
She didn't mention anything about domestic violence affecting both genders, before going ahead to be specific about the gender she's trying to address.

A writer should not just focus on a specific detail without giving the readers an idea of the group from which he\she decided to pick an area to focus on.

When this is not done, the writeup creates an impression that only the author's focus area or perspective exist even if the author is correct in his\her assertion.

I didn't say the op was wrong, just biased in the writeup.

Kobojunkie:
What hogwash? A writer is not under any such obligations . If you want to focus on domestic violence against both genders, create another thread where you do just that.