Comradewhy:
Who are they to tell you who to get into a relationship with?
Tell them you love being single even though you are not,the biggest mistake you will make is going against your own choice just to please mere human who are only after their gain or whatever reason.

Tell them straight to their eyes and if they ain't comfortable let them deal with it, simple.

Candidlady:



Thanks I'd summon courage

Comradewhy:
I am jobless c*nt ,who goes around commenting on every thread and posting boring memes

posty56:
don't be to hard on yourself.,and for OP what's wrong with the guy?

Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol

HenryDion:
Hmmm... He's handsome, funny, and money isn't a problem. Hunti, we all know you're dreaming for the sake NL attention. It's well with you.

Nyascobar1414:
Moonlight tales of a b!sh with stinky m£nstrual bl00d..

Candidlady:

What is this wretched soul doing here..

Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol

Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol

rickpat:
This is serious,some people would advise you do what you want that it's your life and all that.

your mum wouldn't accept you and your partner.

your dad,you ain't sure of his reaction...the match making with the guy is something I wouldn't support..that's wrong



well,it is this what you really want for yourself?a female partner?..I don't condemn or judge people but I just hope you won't regret the decision about your sexuality....it's easy for people to encourage and tell you it's your life ..those people can they take such decisions for themselves?..just have a rethink..life is not always about us doing what we want at that moment...it's about the long term...do you feel 100% that the female partner would make you happy all your life?..

what if your female partner changes and gets a man for herself in the future?..what if at some point you or your partner desire biological kids?...Just be wise in making your choice when it comes to delicate issues..you need to slow down... SOME THINGS ARE EASIER SAID THAN DONE....please don't introduce the female to your parents... people will say they should accept you for who you're...will that same people accept their daughter if she made such decision?...take a break,tell your folks to give you time,tell your partner to give you time...tell the guy they are match making u with to give you space...just have a deep thought about everything...besides a relationship doesn't give any sense of responsibility...so your folks need to let you be...JUST TAKE A TIME OFF EVERYTHING...think about everything,be analytical..NO SENTIMENTS...i know you love and care about your mum..so please...think about everything..I really wish you the best and happiness in all you do and all your endeavors

Brian47:
I've never been in a relationship before, so I don't know how you're feeling right now.
But the thing I'll tell you is..... Try to summon courage and tell your parents.
I hope they will understand, because it's every parents joy to see their children happy.

If your parents are doing this because they want to see you responsible, then prove to them that you're responsible. This means you have to change so they'll also change their perception of you.

Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol

czarr:
I just pity anybody you end up with....this guy doesn't know what God has done for him, that you don't like him.

Candidlady:


na tsani yara maza

Supreme145:
Madam open up and tell them you're a lez, if you evade this one they will still match you up with another guy. Be proud of your sexuality

Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol

Candidlady:
My parents are trying to match me with a guy. Son of a family friend of ours. Note he is handsome, funny, and money is not an issue.


He just got back to the country, he is always at my place. Very funny dude. Iam not interested in a relationship with him.

Now the problem is mamana and fad wants it to work by fire by force... They feel iwill have the sense of responsibility once iget into a relationship

How do itell em igot a partner already and note if eventually itell em igot a partner they would wanna see the person ...

My dad might not even care but you see my MA? She will skin me alive lol.. She wants a grandchild lol