Truvelisback:
But na when this struggle wan end? Abi shey na when person start to grow Moses? I believe in 2 heads are better than one but unfortunately, nowadays ladies are looking for already made guys. Nowadays ladies don't want to be a Helpmate rather they want to be a Chopmate.

Two good heads

If you're struggling, your wife to be should be doing well.

You don't want to get married and your in-laws are the ones driving your young family financially. You are inviting depression gradually

Blablamalala:


Na poverty . Too many broke men.

. Not Poverty ...Men are Wiser ,There are several Well to do guy that Prefers to be Single Father ..Davido ,Whizkid are Wiser ..Moreso Women should go and work for their Money and stop Looking unto men as ATM

GoooodHardDick:


At the bolded , Comrade. We've been asking these questions for ages. Instead of answering it, they avoided it and ended up insulting guys on nairaland.

Watch and see how they'll avoid the question and insult you now.

Honestly, I hv being asking same question over and over yet no answer. I think that's one of d questions without an answer from dem daughters of eve

GoooodHardDick:


Comrade. This is exactly what we're saying. The rate of entitlement mentality among these Nigerian girls is getting out of hand. Imagine what comment of that zombie.

Animegirl, just like Iyaebe, FERNANDEZISBACK and other entitled "liabilities"

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

I think there are scared of ladies n their wahala. Same lady who told you we will manage, dat you two will bring in something will frustrate u till de point of divorcing her

Basically your topic is not based on credible statistics,it is merely an opinion.
However as far as Nigerians are concerned.
Making a decision to begin a family is rather a poor decision to make given the rising hopelessness and dysfunctional government in place.

MadamVanessa:



There's nothing in marriage. Lately, our women have been doing as if their survival is tied down to marriage or if you don't marry, you're a failure. Stupid mindset. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a man.

If you can't deal with sexual urge, there's no harm in having sex gadgets of all type and satisfy yourself if need arises or you look for one hot hansom guy that is matured and use as sex slave.

Bleep marriage

Nawaooo!

Carcholce:




You meant “liabilities”

Liked it

The main reason is most girls of today are nottrusted and don't have tru love ...and some young guys are just not it

again economic wahala don make all young men .....fear marriage

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

Does the woman deserve the responsibilities?? Is the a virgin?? Does she have handwork?? Or she just wants to relax and be taken care of....what's in it for the man??

Just like your LAZY dad who refused to take your responsibilities.I pity the man wey go marry you....Full carry carry no helper!

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

GoooodHardDick:


Comrade. This is exactly what we're saying. The rate of entitlement mentality among these Nigerian girls is getting out of hand. Imagine what comment of that zombie.

It's just there. Even if she doesn't here friends n family will make her do so.

Rubyjade:
They don't want to be responsible.

Lol... When guys don't want to settle down, they're said to be losing interest. When a ladies don't want to settle down, they're simply olosho. In both cases, only one gender takes the blame as usual. Many will say they're fleeing from liabilities (a convenient term for 'responsibilities') but our fathers still got married even when women weren't even expected to do anything other than take care of the home. So what excuse does this generation have?

The truth is, regardless of the term we use to refer to it, people are beginning to realize that marriage, as beautiful as it is, is not necessarily a do-or-die affair like society paints it. It could be argued to be some sort of irresponsibility but even that would be debatable. This change isn't gender specific. It might be more apparent with men cause they seem to have the financial power and the ability to easily pull that off without judgement. But some women would rather be baby mamas too

Who told you women then did nothing?

They actually did more. They were mostly farmers and were damn active with farm work. Had kids that also supported. Go to the village and see for yourself.

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Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

No is because 90% of Nigeria girls are into huckup...olosho and agents of responsibilities transfer...

Women are just worthless especially today woman....

phemmyfour:
Two good heads

If you're struggling, your wife to be should be doing well.

You don't want to get married and your in-laws are the ones driving your young family financially. You are inviting depression gradually

U have spoken well. In a situation where one head is carrying almost everything while the other don't want to carry anything, that's the issue.

Blablamalala:


It is only a foolish and poor man that regrets after spending on women.

Because she's a liability

MadamVanessa:



There's nothing in marriage. Lately, our women have been doing as if their survival is tied down to marriage or if you don't marry, you're a failure. Stupid mindset. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a man.

If you can't deal with sexual urge, there's no harm in having sex gadgets of all type and satisfy yourself if need arises or you look for one hot hansom guy that is matured and use as sex slave.

Bleep marriage

Olosho spirit spotted. Bad influence everywhere you go like mtn

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

An adage says why should you buy cow when you can get milk free.

GoooodHardDick:


You dey give your hope. Since your life is so wonderful, then while waiting for a man you'll become a liability and parasite to? Are you okay? What exactly can you offer that man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy? Sense fall on you there. No man wants a liability and a parasite. You better get rid of this entitlement mentality of yours.

Rotten stinky pussy

criuze:
Women are dead heavy weight,
Only heavyweight finances can carry


But Las las

If they born you, try born another person


A man without wife no balance

but you don't need a wife to have a child of your own

DryMouth:

Correct.
This is my number 1 reason.

I can't carry anybody's problem. Lemme tell you, pvssies are littered everywhere on the streets of lagos especially pvssies of smallies(under 20) and the most exciting thing is that it cost almost nothing to get.

Why will i now tie myself down with responsibilities of another person that offers only that same pvssy?
It's lame getting married these days.

comrade no allow every guys get this mentality o else nobody go marry again

GoooodHardDick:


Werey. There's a massive difference between responsibility and burden. Instead of blaming all men, why can't you deal with yourself and get a life. Make yourself responsible and leave the men alone, coz a man is supposed to be responsible for his own actions not to be responsible to a liability.

Just know that most ladies place their inability, incompetence and frustration on men. Always saying men are the cause of their present predicament. Lol

Truvelisback:
U have spoken well. In a situation where one head is carrying almost everything while the other don't want to carry anything, that's the issue.

That's where planning comes in. Let her know that she LL be supporting financially before you take her to altar. 60-40/70-30/50-50

Depending on what you guys earn and agreement.

joyandfaith:

An adage says why should you buy cow when you can get milk free.

There is no free milk, even cow now is very expensive.

flokii:
Most are not just interested in becoming escape route and poverty alleviation scheme for ladies.. after all the struggle and financial burden of marriage, some will still nag and deny their husbands sex claiming feminism and whatnot.

That's their manipulation skills. And if u don't ask for sex is still a problem o. She will start snooping into your phone n tracing yourself. Women are just problem to meñ

Southernigbo:
too many females who wished to phufked for peanuts are just everywhere so it's a difficult thing to think of marriage

Is marriage all about sex ?

Truvelisback:
There is no free milk, even cow now is very expensive.

If you don't get it, forget it.

kennosklint:
comrade no allow every guys get this mentality o else nobody go marry again

But na the truth na.

Plus those smallies dey even sweet pass those "our fiancees"

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

They are coming for you

why does anyone associate marriage with settling down

It's partly due to harsh economy, the fear they may become a failure been unable to provide for their household. And the problem with some girls not been able to manage home. But majorly economic reason and wayward male fellas. Our male folks are becoming useless because of Yahoo and heavy clubbing and smoking.