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Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 12:51pm On Jul 03, 2011
The truth hurts, no doubt about that, but must we always say the truth even if we know it will hurt those we luv.

If for example one is been compelled to move from one city to another either as work or educational related transfer. Being alone in a new city is boring, hence the need for socialising suffice and in the process, you get involved with another girl.

If you have the opportunity to see your girlfriend in the previous city say like once or twice every month and she ask to know if you have another girlfriend, do you denny completely or dam all the consequence and tell her the truth (after all body no be firewood), knowing fully well that she will be hurt?
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by mashnino(m): 1:00pm On Jul 03, 2011
GUY DOZE KINDA TRUTHS ARE ONLY SAID WEN U WANT TO FINALLY QUIT THE RELATNSHP WITH THE GAL IN D PREVIOUS TOWN, COS I KNW IT WILL NEVER GO ON FINE BTW BOTH OF U AGAIN
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by Mynd44: 1:05pm On Jul 03, 2011
A lie is a lie no matter the reason
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 2:09pm On Jul 03, 2011
mashnino:

GUY DOZE KINDA TRUTHS ARE ONLY SAID WEN U WANT TO FINALLY QUIT THE RELATNSHP WITH THE GAL IN D PREVIOUS TOWN, COS I KNW IT WILL NEVER GO ON FINE BTW BOTH OF U AGAIN
what if she's somebody you intend to get married to and you always feel guilty when ever you lie to her
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by Dyt(f): 2:22pm On Jul 03, 2011
Well den
its all depends on ow u both v bn handlin n managin ur truths wen said
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by iice(f): 2:44pm On Jul 04, 2011
Sometimes it does hurt, doesn't stop me. . .if i know my mouth will open, i better not be around the person.
I thank Odin for my friends kiss kiss None of them dey safe from my mind lipsrsealed

In your scenario. . .if both of you have an understanding of being exclusive. You are already cheating on her. Lets say you don't tell her and she finds out later from someone else. . .what do you think she'd do?
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 4:07pm On Jul 04, 2011
iice:

In your scenario. . .if both of you have an understanding of being exclusive. You are already cheating on her. ?


Yha i knw but body no be firewood nha grin grin grin

iice:

Lets say you don't tell her and she finds out later from someone else. . .what do you think she'd do?

That's why im contemplating telling her the truth
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by iice(f): 4:16pm On Jul 04, 2011
koolkamzzy:

Yha i knw but body no be firewood nha grin grin grin
That's what you people like to tell yourselves.

koolkamzzy:

That's why im contemplating telling her the truth

Best prepare yourself for the worse.
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 4:26pm On Jul 04, 2011
iice:

Best prepare yourself for the worse. 

now yha making me scared grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by Cuddlemii: 4:41pm On Jul 04, 2011
This Nland is so annoying. This is the 5th time that I will type a sweet reply only to loose it angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 5:15pm On Jul 04, 2011
Cuddlemii:

This Nland is so annoying. This is the 5th time that I will type a sweet reply only to loose it angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
eya pele, if you are typing with ur computer, you can try MS word then just copy and paste. that way, you still have the orignal incase of any Bleep-up
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by Jamesdman(m): 5:58pm On Jul 04, 2011
U don't always say d TRUTH. There is a time 4 evrytin! A time 2 say d TRUTH n a time 2 be silent. In diz scenario of urs, it's a time 2 kip quiet n play ur game rite. Making sure dat d new gal doesn't take ur relationship serious, if it's gettin hot, pour cold water on d relationship.
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 9:39am On Jul 05, 2011
James-dman:

U don't always say d TRUTH. There is a time 4 evrytin! A time 2 say d TRUTH n a time 2 be silent. In diz scenario of urs, it's a time 2 kip quiet n play your game rite. Making sure dat d new gal doesn't take your relationship serious, if it's gettin hot, pour cold water on d relationship.

hmmmmmmmm, liking your advise grin grin grin
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by Natasha2(f): 11:15am On Jul 05, 2011
well according to what we have here since you have already started cheating then to tell the truth will be a difficult thing to do, nevertheless Its better to tell the truth especially with matters concerning love, if you don't want someone any more tell the person F.G.S hiding things makes it worse and gets matters complicated, saying the truth sets you free, not just you but the other party too, I would prefer you to tell me the truth than make a fool of me for a long while
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 12:32pm On Jul 05, 2011
Natasha,,:

well according to what we have here since you have already started cheating then to tell the truth will be a difficult thing to do, nevertheless Its better to tell the truth especially with matters concerning love, if you don't want someone any more tell the person F.G.S hiding things makes it worse and gets matters complicated, saying the truth sets you free, not just you but the other party too, I would prefer you to tell me the truth than make a fool of me for a long while

I stand the chance of loosing her if i tell the truth and im not prepared for that yet. i just wish i can call it quit with the later. hrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by MMM2(m): 1:03pm On Jul 05, 2011
if u re a real man den u must cheat.
Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by koolkamzzy(m): 3:42pm On Jul 05, 2011
M M M:

if u re a real man den u must cheat.
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Re: Must We Say The Truth Always? Even If It Hurts? by bizmogule(m): 3:48pm On Jul 05, 2011
If you really love the first one for long term why not spend more time with her by inviting her weekends. Do away with the new one if you know you feel guilty else just tell her the truth and let her be instead of giving her hopes.

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