I've noticed my girlfriend is always uncomfortable whenever I'm on call with any of my friends, she comes to me and start playing with my body especially the parts she knows is very ticklish while I'm on phone call I even plead with her to chill but she's always pressing on.
We met in 2019 and would've started dating by then but I wasn't ready and I told her I wasn't even when according her she was seeing just me so we broke up what we had then not until last August 2021, we met and started dating finally...
Then after the call she'll say I'm talk for too long with my friends but whenever she's on phone call with any of her friends I give her that space and do nothing to interrupt like she does mine btw even when I'm not wrong she makes me apologize for almost everything (them say na mumu dey love) and mind you she's good when it comes to being arrogant and very rude.

I just dunno how best to handle this issue and it's making the relationship I have with my friends to deteriorate, is that even fair at all?


Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun

Well, lucky u she's just ur gf, u can always abort mission if it gets to tight for u.

No go marry girl wey go disconnect u from ur family, because e get why.

I don talk my own

Na so she no go want you to relate with ur family

Na from ' stop keeping friends' very soon e go be' stop spending on your family, I am ur responsibility now'

That time u go receive sense

Just give her belle, all the shakara and wahala go end, then thank me later

The redpillers association of nairaland go chop u like okro soup

U if you av another thing to say let us know.

Smiple

She's a jealous lover .. Chaii..

she is extremely jealous,a little bossy,a little clingy, dominating,wanna be in charge, control you,s little pride hanging in her as well(in terms of Making you apologize always even when there's no need for it)....bro if you can't handle all these...move on...that same girl has or will meet a guy that she will respect and be loyal too....when you see her with the guy...you will ask yourself if it's that same girl...


NOBODY LACKS RESPECT, PEOPLE JUST CHOOSE WHO TO RESPECT

brosom:
Well, lucky u she's just ur gf, u can always abort mission if it gets to tight for u.
No go marry girl wey go disconnect u from ur family, because e get why.
I don talk my own

The truth is so sad....

fafambo:
Just give her belle, all the shakara and wahala go end, then thank me later

Trouble in paradise

She's self centered.. Only care about herself in every aspect leaving u out.. It's better u run for ur life while you still can cos u if u end up marrying her. I pray she would end up killing u one day

Well that's true

rickpat:
she is extremely jealous,a little bossy,a little clingy, dominating,wanna be in charge, control you,s little pride hanging in her as well(in terms of Making you apologize always even when there's no need for it)....bro if you can't handle all these...move on...that same girl has or will meet a guy that she will respect and be loyal too....when you see her with the guy...you will ask yourself if it's that same girl...


NOBODY LACKS RESPECT, PEOPLE JUST CHOOSE WHO TO RESPECT

That your girlfriend is exhibiting extremists behavior , with this her behavior she might be trying to say that she don't trust you be That ohh

Johnnycastro18:
That your girlfriend is exhibiting extremists behavior , with this her behavior she might be trying to say that she don't trust you be That ohh

Trust issues, she says she doesn't

.




This reminds me of Bosede, every night she comes to visit 'nack' me with her skimpy dress





She always insists i must not go out with my buddy, before 6pm she knew i will be coming from work, i would always meet her at my house, before i say shit, she will implore we should go to my room and i know nothin comes from it than nackin,she won't just leave until it 10pm,and it goes like that almost every day



Still remember that time i was going to one white garment church on one faithful Friday night and she knew about it and she staged herself in the room entrance and wailed I'm not going anywhere that I'm doing nothin in the church than hoeing around with my friends, i had nothing to do than to use my masculine tactics to send her away from my house

who knows if we haven't broke up till now, i believe my weight would've be nothing than 40kg,from constant nackin


That girl and 'clingyness'

Princeton92:


Trust issues, she says she doesn't

and I believe you must have gave her reasons not too,

fafambo:
Just give her belle, all the shakara and wahala go end, then thank me later

So this is the kind of advice you will give yourself if you found yourself in this kind of situation?

Johnnycastro18:
and I believe you must have gave her reasons not too,

Right..... I'm only but a human

Princeton92:


Right..... I'm only but a human

ok, but try and build the trust again if you truly love her OK.

Oh

SandraIkuboR:
Oh

Good morning Sandra

This lady has self esteem issues and she will also be a very clingy person!

Princeton92:
I've noticed my girlfriend is always uncomfortable whenever I'm on call with any of my friends, she comes to me and start playing with my body especially the parts she knows is very ticklish while I'm on phone call I even plead with her to chill but she's always pressing on.
We met in 2019 and would've started dating by then but I wasn't ready and I told her I wasn't even when according her she was seeing just me so we broke up what we had then not until last August 2021, we met and started dating finally...
Then after the call she'll say I'm talk for too long with my friends but whenever she's on phone call with any of her friends I give her that space and do nothing to interrupt like she does mine btw even when I'm not wrong she makes me apologize for almost everything (them say na mumu dey love) and mind you she's good when it comes to being arrogant and very rude.

I just dunno how best to handle this issue and it's making the relationship I have with my friends to deteriorate, is that even fair at all?


Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun

lol. Women are selfish

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Bloody SIMP!!! You're a mumu man

See the way that girl is emotionally manipulating, controlling and dominating you. She has turned you into a zombie, hence the reason for the constant irrelevant apologizing. Foolish simp. Oga you better stop simping around and take charge of your life. If she isn't OK with your terms and conditions, then dumped her ass asap and move on. Girls full everywhere