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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 6:17pm On Apr 01
zed7:

Don't further make a fool of yourself son. All these are a figment of your imagination.
Dummy extraordinary!!! Keep exhibiting madness with your alternates in my thread
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Dshocker(m): 7:53am On Apr 02
Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

Are you muslim and is this fiction?
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Hathor5(f): 9:16am On Apr 02
zed7:

What a story. Upstairs amd bungalow? That's how you spot liars.

grin

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 9:21am On Apr 02
Nacoss25:
My brother, we are the same boat.
My wife deserve this method and am going to apply this.
We don't have any child yet but this woman is making my home a hell for me.

You can't negotiate properly with a woman if you can't ask her to fvck off.
Send her packing to her father's house, and if dialogue presents itself. Bring on ridiculous negotiations beneficial to you on the table. It's called "negotiation" for a reason.
Stop being a weak man
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mystiquefia: 10:20am On Apr 02
Atticusxsz:


I think I'm beginning to enjoy this thread. grin
Bob, I surprise say the thread move sef grin
Some feminist mods been wan die the thread but e backfire dem grin

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Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Mystiquefia: 10:22am On Apr 02
Proudpolygamist:

Like someone pointed out earlier
You know nothing about construction...

grin grin E pain dem well well
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by zed7: 11:40am On Apr 02
Proudpolygamist:

Dummy extraordinary!!! Keep exhibiting madness with your alternates in my thread
You foolishness knows no bounds. Probably just finished waec. Why not ask people to give an opinion of your lame writing skills? Óde.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Proudpolygamist: 12:35pm On Apr 02
zed7:

You foolishness knows no bounds. Probably just finished waec. Why not ask people to give an opinion of your lame writing skills? Óde.

Lame writing skills that had you hyperventing from the very first page of this thread to the 10th like a jobless slowpoke.
I don't engage people with low IQ and I won't educate you for free. Make out time to study and stop being a nuisance in public space
Now, take your puerile fingerling IQ outta here and get some education
Dullard
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by zed7: 3:45am On Apr 03
Proudpolygamist:


Lame writing skills that had you hyperventing from the very first page of this thread to the 10th like a jobless slowpoke.
I don't engage people with low IQ and I won't educate you for free. Make out time to study and stop being a nuisance in public space
Now, take your puerile fingerling IQ outta here and get some education
Dullard
Stop arguing főôl. Own up, you thought a story building and a bungalow are the same thing. I just corrected you, you should be grateful for learning something new.
I don't understand this new generation of kids. People like you end up perishing with your ignorance. An aspiring writer must be willing to learn or else you'll fail and then blame it on your useless village people as usual.
Your writing skills is mediocre as it is, don't add ignorance to it. Mumu.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by jamesbridget13(f): 9:09am On Apr 04
djon78:


It's not about celebrating ego
Many modern women are very big problems in marriages now

So stubborn, won't give men peace of mind.

Go through the page and see the comments of many married men to this story and you will see that many homes there is no peace at all

I'm begging to see men may start going polygamous again. Because these one man one wife is causing a lot of issues.

Our forefathers were polygamous, my maternal grandfather had three wives while my paternal grandfather had two wives.

It's just from our parents generations, men started marrying one wife.

But the modern women are not appreciating that.
They have no iota of respect for there husband's

Men may revert back to doing what there forefathers were doing, because the modern women are quite a handful.

They were never like our mothers at all.
I know ur grandparents married more wives without sending d one they already had away not to talk of d manner he did it. I know d wife get issues but d manner he sent her away? No! That's cruel
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by harmony75: 11:40am On May 24
Honestly your wife's difficult person. But becareful not to make another mistake.
Re: How I Sent My Troublesome First Wife Packing Peacefully by Corporate2020: 1:06pm On May 24
siofra:
Who is this one

I'll not be surprised if it's one stupid redpiller fantasising his future life.

I understand your pain

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