Connected1:

I understand you are a woman and it's evident

You talk too much.

All the same, Nigerian/African Women aren't restricted from going to other countries/continents to live.

So I don't understand these rants of yours, the society isn't a bed of roses, If I should list the stigma men face in this country you will just keep quiet.

I don't have time for that and I don't have time to explain to you that everything can't go the way you want it.

nedekid:

Then it's likely you will have a failed marriage, so do not bother the venture.
On the other hand, ladies like you might even be the most tolerant when faced with actual reality.
Nobody says cheating in a marriage is right, but fact is it is more palatable if it is heard a man did it compared to a woman. Unfair as it may seem, that is the reality.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

okoroemeka:
it is the white men that cheat,we Africans traditionally are given the rights to many wife's and equal number of cocubines, mistresses and sidechicks,we are not white men that is why divorce is high in white man land,if my wife makes me angry I will go to chiamaka or ngozi place to cool off and restore my sanity,saving the marriage.

Jennyclay:
Which gonner? Highest we'll divorce. Or do you want to raise your filthy hands on me?

I will just sue you for domestic violence, and you will be jailed, whether you're my boyfriend or husband. You dare don't raise your filthy hands on me.

Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

BigBashiru:


Only men are allowed to hv multiple partners.... any woman who cheats must be sent packing and she has to go live with those partners and leave my house.....

@iyaebe any comment??

emekachief:
What if I give you a befitting burial?. In my community dead is the only accepted punishment for promiscuous wife.

emekachief:
For your information MEN DON'T CHEAT, all men are entitled to more than one wife or kitten. I will dump my wife the day she THINK OF CHEATING. Real men don't accept cheating woman back. Thank you

BigBashiru:


Men's sexual agency perishes too.... it just only lasts SLIGHTLY longer. Which girl wants to sleep with buhari His sexual agency don finish.....

So according to you, a woman in her 40s who is single and childless is Miserable?

No wonder…

alphaNomega:
There are women with children from different men. These women have money. Are you saying if any of her husbands cheat, it is not enough reason for her to divorce him?

EXCEPTIONS DONT MAKE THE RULE OR NORM

HOW MANY FEMALES ARE FINANCIALLY SUCCESSFUL?

MOST FEMALES ARE AVERAGE OR POOR

FEMALES ARE NOT BUILT TO LEAD AND PROVISION FOR MALES LONG TERM

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them..

DEMZEE:


EXCEPTIONS DONT MAKE THE RULE OR NORM

HOW MANY FEMALES ARE FINANCIALLY SUCCESSFUL?

MOST FEMALES ARE AVERAGE OR POOR

FEMALES ARE NOT BUILT TO LEAD AND PROVISION FOR MALES LONG TERM

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

alphaNomega:
You have not met enough women. You posted this solely because you cannot stand the fact that a woman can have the liberty to birth multiple children from different men and decide which of the men she wants out of her sexual life when she can afford it.

alphaNomega:


You have not met enough women. You posted this solely because you cannot stand the fact that a woman can have the liberty to birth multiple children from different men and decide which of the men she wants out of her sexual life when she can afford it.

Kobojunkiee:
That poster seems dead-set on convincing his mental that he has women all figured out even when it is apparent his delusions don't apply to a majority of women beyond his tiny delusion.

DEMZEE:

EXCEPTIONS DONT MAKE THE RULE

WOMEN WHO DO SUCH ARE HOES AND GOLDDIGGERS AND MOST TIMES THEY ARE POOR, BROKE OR AVERAGE

MEN LEAD
WOMEN FOLLOW

Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.

Palema007:
I don't know what part of the world you are but I think I should update you since you have been on hibernate.

Dragons have gone extinct
Two stones are no longer used to make fire
We now build houses with bricks.

The world evolved.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right