There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys

Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...

It was at this moment you should have allowed the relationSHIP sail away to the rift.

I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...
Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..

Are you for real? She's playing the victim card now?

I apologized for "hearing" things...

We'll come back to this...and come back to the message she sent you.

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Tell me this is not true. How did you guys reach this level?

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...

Your girlfriend? Still calling her your girlfriend?

What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...
My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!
Can you imagine??

Ok?

I feel like a fool right now...

No, you don't. Actually, if titles were given to people freely, you should be called Foolish Man Bayo...because the quantity of foolishness I see bayo side is too much.

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back

What?!

She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys

I don't know you or where you are from, brother, but pray make me and you no meet for this life.
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By telling urself the truth and accepting it.

" She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...
That was when she started saying she went there just to eat mangoes " hahahaha that your babe nah ashawao!!!!

Look at this adult oooo

chatinent:

It was at this moment you should have allowed the relationSHIP sail away to the rift.


Are you for real? She's playing the victim card now?

We'll come back to this...and come back to the message she sent you.

Tell me this is not true. How did you guys reach this level?


Your girlfriend? Still calling her your girlfriend?


Ok?

No, you don't. Actually, if titles were given to people freely, you should be called Foolish Man Bayo...because the quantity of foolishness I see bayo side is too much.


What?!

I don't know you or where you are from, brother, but pray make me and you no meet for this life.

Bro
Calm down
That's why I posted this
So I can get help on how to do this...
It's not something I want to do.
It feels like an addiction
M letting my heart control my head...
Show me way abeg

Nawa for you oh! Oga.

Stop communicating with her ASAP! For the good of your mental health. I don't want to login to Nairaland tomorrow and see that a "young man runs mad because of relationship wahala".

Bro lemme give you one simple advice. You need to control your heart. Bone face and move on. She no worth am. It's enough problem already having a cheating babe. She now con dey rude untop am. Even if she is not cheating, she is rude and that's her not respecting you. That's enough reason for u to move on. Focus on ur hustle bro. See woman matta na something else ooh. It's not worth dwelling on or u go just faint.

Thats why our fathers in the olden days get married to many wives so no one go fit do shakara for house but see the side effect. Most generational curses in Africa today swim came from polygamous family.

Just create a big resistance to their wahala, don't be caught off guard as we can't do without then. Don't tolerate nonsense , deal with them with ur head and not with ur heart. Healup bro

Stvic:
Bro lemme give you one simple advice. You need to control your heart. Bone face and move on. She no worth am. It's enough problem already having a cheating babe. She now con dey rude untop am. Even if she is not cheating, she is rude and that's her not respecting you. That's enough reason for u to move on. Focus on ur hustle bro. See woman matta na something else ooh. It's not worth dwelling on or u go just faint.

Thats why our fathers in the olden days get married to many wives so no one go fit do shakara for house but see the side effect. Most generational curses in Africa today swim came from polygamous family.

Just create a big resistance to their wahala, don't be caught off guard as we can't do without then. Don't tolerate nonsense , deal with them with ur head and not with ur heart. Healup bro

I really appreciate this man
I go collect TRP very soon
Thank you!

Damnnn!!! LoL

I understand your feelings bro... It's kinda hard to let the heart go. But try out this trick, find a female bestie to pass time with coz if you're alone, you'd definitely be thinking about it all over Everytime..

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!! LoL

I understand your feelings bro... It's kinda hard to let the heart go. But try out this trick, find a female bestie to pass time with coz if you're alone, you'd definitely be thinking about it all over Everytime..

A rebound...
I thought about that as well...
What if that female bestie starts her own wahala??
It seems to be the order of the day among this gender

Ezendimmuo:


A rebound...
I thought about that as well...
What if that female bestie starts her own wahala??
It seems to be the order of the day among this gender

Bro! It's just to pass time... Don't mind whatever wahala she brings up

Sorry bro,
She sees you like that,that why she does all that to you

You don too show her love,
I go just advice you to stop calling her, texting, no more communication between both of you.
Just forget say you once get a gf,
Quickly find a lady you can rest on, woo many ladies as possible,they will take you time,and you won't be able to think about her.
Never give a lady the control to your heart,dem go tear you apart, use your brain and head while dating a female.%My first 2kobo for you


Once you are in love again or in a relationship, do these:
Show a lady love, don't give it to her.
Give her love, don't show her

If you are interested we can reason better for whatsapp lemme take you through
0.9.0.6.8.7.8.2.7.6.9

Don't get emotional that you feel like a fool because you are truly a fool. I keep telling guys that whenever your instinct tells you something, believe it. In this case, not only instinct but someone who has seen you many times fooling yourself took pity on you and reported the olosho you are dating and you are here still drowning in foolishness. This hoe is manipulating you by using reverse psychology. Now you are blaming yourself for knowing and doing the right thing. Better move on with your life or you can keeping second fiddle until she gives you HIV.

I will advise you to move on with your life and never tell a woman IS OVER AGAIN it makes you look less as a man...
Reduce the calling, reduce the texting, reduce all the attention(when you give attention to people then you will know if they are cheating or not) stop all monetary benefits she get, look out for another lady that loves you and you can love NOT A LADY YOU LOVE! (men a lady that loves you is better than a lady you love if you want to last long on earth).
Time changes everything with time you will be OK and happier

Is she the only beautiful bae in the world??

Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...
Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...
Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...
Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...
My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!
Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...
Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys

I am very sure she is sleeping with him. It won’t b easy but find someone else

annisy:
I will advise you to move on with your life and never tell a woman IS OVER AGAIN it makes you look less as a man...
Reduce the calling, reduce the texting, reduce all the attention(when you give attention to people then you will know if they are cheating or not) stop all monetary benefits she get, look out for another lady that loves you and you can love NOT A LADY YOU LOVE! (men a lady that loves you is better than a lady you love if you want to last long on earth).
Time changes everything with time you will be OK and happier

Wisdom. A lady that loves you, not the one you love. Otherwise validation and appeasement will go on a lifetime

Where girls dey get this mind from

Red capsule people are coming for u

There’s nothing to see here, you’ll be fine in few months time. Did I say months ? Scratch that. You’ll be fine in couple of days.

Move on

Op i was once a Simp like u, 4 how long do u intend always begging when u are not even faulty. 1, consider her being dead and mourn her, although is not easy most especially when u were the one that was committed in the failed relationship meaning she doesn't even give a Bleep abt u. 2, deactivate every communication between both of u like blocking her in facebook, whatsapp etc. 3, be open in your heart your other self will locate u in no time but iearn from your imperfection in your last failed relationship not 2 repeat itself again. Good luck man.