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Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by LadyRosa(f): 6:52pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
tiswell: I never said that in all my write up.Is that what you're insinuating? 5 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by tiswell(m): 6:58pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
LadyRosa:not really,but in a nutshell, what do you think is the best way to handle a cheating partner? 1 Like |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by talk2hb1(m): 8:43pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
LadyRosa:Tooh! words unspoken! 3 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by LadyRosa(f): 9:15pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
tiswell: Handle?Why not try walking away? For those who wishes to handle,like me I employ being highly medically sensitive.My fear ain't the cheating because I can handle that to an extent,but I'm more scared if diseases.i hate medical problems. 8 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by Sureboyy(m): 11:57pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
RightToReject:If you aren't loved by your wife or being chosen by your wife, i see it difficult for her to triumph temptations that may come in the course of the marriage.. Times have changed This so called women these days find it difficult to be submissive unless they love you...This ain't rocket science It's what is happening now and I don't see a big deal if a man makes sure his wife loves him than him being the one to love the woman. I prefer it though and I would most definitely use this as my criteria when looking for a woman to get married to. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by postmann: 2:07pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Interesting. |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by immortalmortal: 8:38am On Apr 10, 2022 |
emmaodet: Most married women who sleep around don't get money in return 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by QuinModah(f): 9:00am On Apr 10, 2022 |
LadyRosa:Are you married? |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by RightToReject(m): 9:56am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Sureboyy: Besides the loss of masculine energy - it'll take someone with in-depth knowledge of metaphysics to understand - a man, in most cases, stands to become a means to an end rather than an end when being chosen by a woman for a relationship/marriage because women, inherently, are more receptive to receiving than giving. A case of when desirable is not available, available becomes desirable. For an example, being chosen by a promiscuous woman who, of course, will gloss her real self, interest, and intention with the exhibition of passionate emotion, which is fleeting, and sanctimony on you, makes it easier for her to engage in adultery - the only difference here will be that you, as the man, won't even believe she does even when caught red-handed because of the effect of stockholm syndrome erroneously termed love from you. Both of you are safer for each other when she falls in love with you - which breeds acts of submissiveness - than when you expect/have her doing the loving. The former is sustainable because it's necessitated by action, while the latter is fleeting because it's necessitated by passion and/or disingenuousness. So, her ethical leanings, better if she's from strong ethical leanings and you chose her on that basis, will always be the ultimate decider whether she will take delight in adultery and other vices or not, not her choosing you and exhibiting passionate emotion, which is fleeting, around you. Summarily, as a man, you are safer having a standard you live on than expectations from a woman or anybody at all; you are safer having a woman who respects herself and whatever intangible/immaterial thing that serves as a bond holding the two of you than expecting her to love you. Expectation, worse when it advances to a sense of entitlement, which is usually inevitable, breeds disunity, disappointment, and destruction. By the way, no proponent of hypergamy has love, at least not genuine/practical love to give you as a man. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by kurupt1: 11:11am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Heiterkeit: No , they are not |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by emmaodet: 12:49pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
immortalmortal: You didn’t get my message. I am against a married woman sleeping around but against the statement- if the hubby is doing it, then the wife can do it. The woman should take care of her bills and stay alone if banging around is what she wants and not someone else taking care of her bills and another banging her. If she is old enough to bang, she should be old enough to pay her own bills 100% 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by immortalmortal: 1:25pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
emmaodet: Some of them pay their bills. Dem plenty 3 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by immortalmortal: 8:06am On Apr 11, 2022 |
emmaodet: I am not against married women sleeping with someone else other than her husband. Whether their husband does it or not, it doesn't matter. So many women out there have good jobs and make cool cash. If e hungry dem to f#$k outside make dem do am. Even married men that don't have money still use their wife's money to bleep side chick. What is good for the goose, is good for the gander 3 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by bukatyne(f): 8:45am On Apr 11, 2022 |
emmaodet: Are you saying adultery is ok for a man because he traditionally foots the bills? Are you saying adultery is ok for a wife once she can foot her bills? 5 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by LadyRosa(f): 10:56am On Apr 11, 2022 |
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Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by QuinModah(f): 11:49am On Apr 11, 2022 |
LadyRosa: 1 Like |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by Sureboyy(m): 12:55pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
RightToReject:You made me think this through another perspective though What will you say for people that chose women and in turn the woman didn't choose them Don't you think that Cheating by the woman isn't far from the equation?? There is always two sides to a coin... Everyone has to choose what works for them best I have seen alot from this women cheating on guys who really love them... I don't think going through the stress of cheating when you love who you are with is realistic, though I do know you can never satisfy a woman But all in all A cheating partner is going to cheat but being loved by a woman you are with actually reduces that chances though in my opinion. What do you think ? 6 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by lavylilly: 6:50am On Apr 14, 2022 |
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Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by peetay(m): 10:19am On Apr 14, 2022 |
Acidosis: Wow this is so on point. You couldn't have put it any better. In all fairness same goes for men as well. |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by Rawhumper(m): 12:57am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Nice one, its alarming the trend is heading to infinity. Well married women are more adulterous because they never valued their marriage at first, most came into it just to become mothers and wives, so they can be respected as Mrs. Anytime I say or illustrate, I like using myself to give example to support it. I am guilty of sucking, fingering and fucking married women, but I thank God I have stopped that. The simple truth is women love sex more than the guys, but the difference is, women naturally choose their paryners . If you want to know am wrong, meet a lady in a tight corner...just look good and make sexual advancement to her, talk good things and touch her senstivite parts gently, I bet you she will be wet and ready for a quickie. As long nobody is looking, and she doesn't see or know you around her area. In most cases, she will Bleep except she has her monthly visitor or had childhood abuses. Nowadays, women are not only moved by words, but by what they see too and feel. LadyRosa: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by Emaprince: 8:01am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Acidosis:lol...In this country where a lady's wedding will be already fixed, yet she will still be sleeping around. Do you think such lady will eventually quit totally when she finally tie the knots? Hell NO!! If these girls can cheat on their husbands to be with other men..why won't they continue after wedding? The point you made are 100% true. What we have today are damaged women. I see a lot of them and shake head..wondering which unfortunate man will be hitched to them. 6 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by QuinModah(f): 12:25pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by Rawhumper(m): 1:02pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Why are you opening mouth dear....but its raw truth. I once entered a big shop, the sales girl was wearing short skirt and her busty cleavage was showing....I swear, We have never met before, I placed my hand on her fresh fair laps and felt her inside, moving my hand till I was hard....when customers came in, I do as if am still trying to buy more things. I kept rubbing her for more than 10mins till both of us were really turned on. I asked her if she was wet, she said yes but when I later asked for her number, she refused saying, she doesn't know me, and she couldn't open legs to someone she doesn't know just like that.told me, I should keep cumin to their shop, then one day she would give me her number. We never knew before, that happened, because I understood women, and the best approach to turn them on, whether they know you or not. AlMost all my sex with girls didn't take me more than 7days after my first meeting with them.... Saw in your thread about dating service women...I have dated a married Naval Lieutenant (Doctor), I used to go to her house then, her husband was transferred and he .too was a Brigadier Gen.in the Army. I have dated a Police woman...all these were very pretty fair ladies. quote author=QuinModah post=112024468] [/quote] 5 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by Jossyfine(f): 6:47am On Apr 18, 2022 |
All these long epistles isn’t gonna solve a shit. The bottom line is husbands should burst this ‘men are polygamous in nature’ and remain faithful to their partners because most women are sick and tired of fighting their husbands because of promiscuity so in turn they are learning their husbands skills. Please, am not supporting adulterous wives ooo. But men’s own are tooooo much. Most of the men have killed the love and trust their wives have for them because of cheating , so any random guy that shows them green light, they will just fall yakata. Marriages can be spiced by couples, if they so wish . If you can’t stick to one woman, you don’t have any biz getting married. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by QuinModah(f): 6:14pm On Apr 21, 2022 |
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Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by dontrulee: 5:21pm On May 19, 2022 |
yanabasee: You sound like a correct man, but what will happen if it's you who cheated on your wife and she finds out. Will you beg? 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by dontrulee: 5:22pm On May 19, 2022 |
Jossyfine: You sound correct but unfortunately, marriage is hard and monotonous and boring. |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by dontrulee: 5:28pm On May 19, 2022 |
QuinModah: That your tale of meeting a lady in an isolated place and doing those stuffs shows you be correct man and Sabi the drill. 1 Like |
Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by QuinModah(f): 6:46pm On May 19, 2022 |
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Re: Married Women: The Skyrocketing Rise In Adultery In Nigeria. by purehustle101(m): 7:51pm On May 19, 2022 |
YinkaOlusesi16:. i pity you! 1 Like |
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