This is not a rape case, judging from the video. The Parents should be blamed for exposing their daughter to this sort of vice.

chatinent:


That father is my mirror. That's the way to train a child!

I bet he'll be humble all his life! Children also hate embarrassment... especially beating them in public..amid their peers and people they oppress.


When I was teaching, a report came that a JSS2 boy allegedly pressed the cups of an SS2 girl. It was his guts for me. And psychology says before he could do that, the girl has submitted her respect to him or he bullies her.

I called him. A lil chat with him and I noticed he's this bully who may have joined a small cult nearby.

Unto say I no well as per military student who went to serve, I land am better slap and some resetting beating for trying to walk out on me, it followed a series of other punitive measures to humble him.

Behold, cultist come dey tuck in clothes in, dey wear tie. En mama come school, call me one side dey bless me.

There's an elite school in the North Central where teachers are not allowed to correct kids, only the school owner can. I learnt the students are so disrespectful that teachers resign almost monthly, in spite of the good pay. If it were in such a school, you would have been arrested.

How can you call it rape when she was riding and even doing reverse cowgirl??

Gentlerespect76:

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

a mere child riding a dick cowgirl style pls spare me that sentimental bullshit,that girl was enjoying the sex,she may even instigated the sex,not even ashamed to have multiple boys in the room shows she is not faxed one bit, everyone must take a bit of the blame,the school for not properly segregating the boys and girls,the parents for raising up such a sex maniac and the girl?a young girl like that introduced to sex very early is a big problem,

Parents, school, religious centres. We failed

delpee:


Part of what people are saying. The parents are being careless. You don't give a 10yr old child an unmonitored phone. His parents should check his phone from time to time by whichever way and discover by themselves. If you're close to them, advise accordingly without disclosing what you saw.

Of course my friend. One of my rules is to know when, how and where to say certain things about people to their family members, especially after I study their approach to issues.

I am very close to the family. The mother is close to me and the dad too is a friend of mine but he is not in Nigeria. He comes every December and returns January.

I try to not overburden myself with things that may haunt me because this is her son and you know some mothers. She may not say anything but may be holding some grudges.

abbey621:


You're out of line! First of all when it comes sex, minors are minors it does not matter who is older. Next, the circumstances surrounding the act shows that this is a common occurrence at the school. Who made the video? Where other people there? Minors?

Finally, you're quick to blame the mother but what type of school is it? Is it a boarding school, private or what? Where do the kids spend more time? At the school or at home? The reason the school gets the blame is simple, it is a private establishment in which parents entrust their kids, if the facility was inacapable of ensuring their safety from violence, sexual obscenity and so on, they should face serious consequences. Furthermore, if only you knew what goes on in private/boarding schools you would know that it is only the grace of God that some of those kids remain physically and emotionally stable. Parents can be reverend father and sister Mary yet the kids still turn out to be Lucifer incarnate.....How many ordinary schools allow field trips to Dubai?

So according to you, she cannot be in the wrong cos they are both minors? If a 14 year old boy slept with your 12 year old daughter would you hold the same convictions?

A predator is a predator. The fact that both are minors doesn’t change the fact that she preyed on those boys. If the genders were swapped you wouldn’t be saying this. Also it might interest you that the Lagos Police command is treating this as rape perpetrated against the girl, even with evidence to the contrary.

The mother is to blame because she has shown her hand by lying to the public that her daughter was raped. The school also suspended the girl because her parents refused to work with the school to take disciplinary measures suggested by same school management. She knew her daughter was rotten and is instead defending her like she’s the victim. That boy and his roommates are the real victims here.

Kingpin1000:
One of the most popular statement written in my days in primary school toilet was " TOTO IS GOOD " we never saw who wrote it but we knew people were doing bad things in the toilet and we were not up to 10 years then.
Things like this has been happening and I can attribute it to bad parenting.

Good ol'days

Gentlerespect76:
Are you working in this school or there is else you know beside that on the public domain?

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

Actually, you are not being honest. We know it's deliberate and it's understandable.

AfroKnight:


So according to you, she cannot be in the wrong cos they are both minors? If a 14 year old boy slept with your 12 year old daughter would you hold the same convictions?

A predator is a predator. The fact that both are minors doesn’t change the fact that she preyed on those boys. If the genders were swapped you wouldn’t be saying this. Also it might interest you that the Lagos Police command is treating this as rape perpetrated against the girl, even with evidence to the contrary.

Yes I would still hold the same conviction because it is not about how I feel but the law. Unless you can prove that it is rape and not consensual then it is minor against minor. Lagos govt can say whatever when it gets to court and the evidence laid out before the judge, it becomes a different ball game.

I have watched that video, that small girl was enjoying the sex, even riding the young boy as a pro, not even minding other classmates in the background. Questions should be asked where did the girl learn such stuff, she is 10 years for crying out loud. Who dis virgined her.

okoroemeka:
a mere child riding a dick cowgirl style pls spare me that sentimental bullshit,that girl was enjoying the sex,she may even instigated the sex,not even ashamed to have multiple boys in the room shows she is not faxed one bit, everyone must take a bit of the blame,the school for not properly segregating the boys and girls,the parents for raising up such a sex maniac and the girl?a young girl like that introduced to sex very early is a big problem,

As per your last statement, that child is already psychologically damaged. She may become a nympho as she's already opened up some parts of her that are not supposed to be opened at this stage of her life.

abbey621:


Yes I would still hold the same conviction because it is not about how I feel but the law. Unless you can prove that it is rape and not consensual then it is minor against minor. Lagos govt can say whatever when it gets to court and the evidence laid out before the judge, it becomes a different ball game.

Lol. You are saying a minor cannot rape another minor? Wonderful

Child wey go spoil go spoil, I start watching porn from the age of 10, had my first age of 12, got my gf pregnant age of 14 we all do all funny things in our youthful age but that doesn't define who we will be in the future, who could believe my person will abstain from sex from 2018 to 2021 I being abroad , so allow those kids to be , I didn't see it as rape , she has been doing it before the incident

The OP started by talking about watching comedy skits with your kids but I am wondering what has watching comedy with kids got to do with the upbringing?

That is where the decadence starts from.

Not until we go back to the old school method of bringing children up.

Buhari is the coures of everything

Gentlerespect76:

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

What are you typing?!!!!

Both

Udemzy05:


Exact what I was telling a female friend that was putting all the blame on the teacher and school.

The first place you learn morals and good upbringing is the home,the fact that you pay huge amount of money as school fees doesn't mean you should transfer all responsibilities to the school.

Ya
contrary to the lies we were being told, our hormones become active earlier. So the parent can teach their kids, dangers of sexual behavior for that age and not actually shy away from it.
This is one of so many sexual activities going on among pupils and secondary School kids. Even young boys of 9 are being manhandled by older ladies/aunties.

When Christian said do this dont do that. Don't commits immorality. Don't furnicate. Train a child with the rode. They laugh because of our buluku trousers. Now many can't get married Because no trust exist between them the ladies are cheat so are the men. The ones that manage to Mary they can't raise the child because they dont believe in the principle laid down. They hand over children to commercialized trainers. The schools. Here we are. Stuck!. The faulty is on us all.


This pointing Finger at that. No system or part is perfect not by any stretch of imagination. But there are part we take that decrease or increase the probability or inprobalities of our success.

This was the part that was tailored carefully by the Christian. Maybe if you don't Bleep too much you won't master fucking to the point were you can't do without it. The sex message has teach an insulting position. Beyond toxic and we still pushing it.

chatinent:


That father is my mirror. That's the way to train a child!

I bet he'll be humble all his life! Children also hate embarrassment... especially beating them in public..amid their peers and people they oppress.


When I was teaching, a report came that a JSS2 boy allegedly pressed the cups of an SS2 girl. It was his guts for me. And psychology says before he could do that, the girl has submitted her respect to him or he bullies her.

I called him. A lil chat with him and I noticed he's this bully who may have joined a small cult nearby.

Unto say I no well as per military student who went to serve, I land am better slap and some resetting beating for trying to walk out on me, it followed a series of other punitive measures to humble him.

Behold, cultist come dey tuck in clothes in, dey wear tie. En mama come school, call me one side dey bless me.

You were very lucky. In today's private school you can be arrested for slapping a student regardless of what the student's offence was. This is the cause of some of these loose morals we see everywhere. Don't beat the child o! Leave am like that! Just only talk to him he will hear you! Or tell him to kneel down! Nonsense. This is the cause of indiscipline in kids. I know it will soon get to this. In my days when teachers were feared things still happened talk more of now where kids see teachers as though it's one of their mates passing by. I don't blame the school at all for this mess. There was nothing else they could have done. If anyone knows anything the school should have done they should say it. Not saying teachers should discipline them. How should they be disciplined?

Trash.
Where did politicians learn how to steal? From skits and nollywood right?

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Look at this babyish thinking. Go to public school and find out what is happening. Sometimes people are not supposed to type or say what they don't know. Go to public schools in Jakande and Ajah.

Xcelinteriors:
I have watched the video and it is an eyesore because they are just minor and don't know the implication of what they are doing. They are ignorant of the danger this will cause to their future. I am blaming the school because why will they allow the opposite sex to stay in a room without an adult supervision? O wrong nau

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Supervision?

You know people still cheat in exams, even with invigilator around.

Look, these children knew what they wanted to do. Of course, they'll find a way. It's just that they got exposed this time.

Bad children are giving good schools, bad name. But we blame the school.

That girl was not the only girl child on that trip to Dubai.

If we want to say the truth, we can.

ppogba:
The OP started by talking about watching comedy skits with your kids but I am wondering what has watching comedy with kids got to do with the upbringing?

That is where the decadence starts from.

Not until we go back to the old school method of bringing children up.

Watching comedy skit is just like watching porn my brother so you shouldn’t do it in the presence of your kids,don’t even go on Instagram or Twitter in their presence.The school should be blame for lack of proper supervision and the girl should be rusticated
She’s a professional,nothing more or less

D video didn't prove d girl was raped. D parents are to blame. She was already corrupt.

What is our society turning into? Just imagine teenagers

Where's d video?

Livelystone01:

Stop trying to cover up for the defective attotides of so many parents today please. How I it possible for a child who's not in boarding school to spend more time in school than at home?

As for your take about disciplining the children, are you asking for discipline from the schools or what? Have you forgotten that private schools are afraid to discipline pupils because most parents have warned them off it?

Well, in this case, I blame the school for concealing the incident, but the action of the pupils in the video shows the disfunction in the family unit today.

The skill at which the child was engaging in the sex should show you that the parents have failed, or maybe, pampered her into that level due to "wokeness". They are not new to that act at all, both herself and the boys.

I need to shock you with this.
Yesterday, I went to visit a family friend. I called the son to help me with his phone to check for something, which he did. As I went to his chrome to browse, I was shocked to see the different tabs were filled with xvideos, brazziers or whatever they call it and other porn sites. I became irritated and surprised that a 10 year old child couldn't check for anything else in his phone but sex videos.

I wanted to talk with the mom but I didn't because I can't actually find a way to bring the topic up with her. My plan is your talk with him and let him know the danger of such action.

For instance:
People die through road accident, does that stop you from traveling or buying your own car?
People die through food & drink poison, does that stop you from eating or drinking?
Many Parents have warned the school not to discipline their kids, does that mean when they see a child going astray they shouldn't discipline him??

Please let be reasonable here. Do you know that it's not all parents that are against the school disciplining their children? I want you to understand that they paid for the services.

Boarding or Day, the students still spends more time in school than at home.. I'm ready to argue with you about this particular one initially.

You did a good job by talking to your family's friend son, but still you also need to tell his mom, so they can discipline him. "Charity begins at home"

Please blame BB Naija
They start the truth and dare game in a large scale

chatinent:

I'm not sure you are living in the twenty-first century sha. You sound very 20’s.

He's right u know

Please blame BB Naija
They start the truth and dare game in a large scale
So bad