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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:09pm On Apr 22, 2022
Clonus:

May I ask how you confirmed the unborn child’s genotype
chorionic villus sampling usually done in second trimester to know the genotype of the baby.

Sickle cell center opposite LUTH does it.A few years ago, it was 300k to do it. Don't know about now.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by oilmane(m): 12:11pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD. After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene. My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME



Have some pity for the foetus in your womb and abort it, do your know what SS kids go through? Do you know the pains, trauma and sufferings they undergo? Have you seen their crisis? You want a male child but don't because of your selfish desire for a male child make you punish that child to a life of hell on earth. The crisis is not a daily thing but it is not what you would wish your enemies child not to talk about one of yours, please forget about religion here, be realistic. Just being blunt

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by lawrenzooo: 12:18pm On Apr 22, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
she should have gone for family planning.

Why is she behaving like an uneducated fellow like this. If I knew op, I would slap her for her foolishness.
We all make mistakes you know....! I just hope op doesn't make another mistake by keeping the baby.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:18pm On Apr 22, 2022
lawrenzooo:

We all make mistakes you know....! I just hope op doesn't make another mistake by keeping the baby.
let's hope so
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by 2braithe: 12:23pm On Apr 22, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
she should have gone for family planning.

Why is she behaving like an uneducated fellow like this. If I knew op, I would slap her for her foolishness.

Family planning sef is not 100% guaranteed.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by wunmi590(m): 12:28pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing


So because you are a Catholic you should now bring a child to suffer...

What happened to your marriage class? Where you not told check your genotype before you marry....

I'm a catholic too and this are things we were taught in marriage class....

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OKOATA(m): 1:45pm On Apr 22, 2022
I remembered while in sec school there was this sickle cell guy, our friend. He died in SS3 while writing jamb. The guy lived in pain all through his life, he wouldn't sleep every night, he was always sick with yellow eyes, walking as if he could fall at anytime. I bet it when your SS boy begin to suffer you would wish you aborted him. Do you want him to know his living on earth and pass through pains all his life? He will curse you everyday, it's better he's not born, he wouldn't know he's alive now or existing. Don't put him in an everlasting pain.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OKOATA(m): 1:51pm On Apr 22, 2022
[quote author=oilmane post=112173093][/quote] I witnessed such while in boarding house in those days, 2 of them died before 18. One died in JSS3, I remember we backed him to the dispensary before he died. The other one died in SS3, they all lived in pain all through their lives. I guess she doesn't know the pain they go through, at some point we will put gyming iron on one of thems back before he could sleep at night, I'm talking about the one that died in SS3, he was always walking like he would fall with yellow eyes. RIp Taofeek. I went to mayflower ikenne remo then..

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by oilmane(m): 3:12pm On Apr 22, 2022
OKOATA:
I witnessed such while in boarding house in those days, 2 of them died before 18. One died in JSS3, I remember we backed him to the dispensary before he died. The other one died in SS3, they all lived in pain all through their lives. I guess she doesn't know the pain they go through, at some point we will put gyming iron on one of thems back before he could sleep at night, I'm talking about the one that died in SS3, he was always walking like he would fall with yellow eyes. RIp Taofeek. I went to mayflower ikenne remo then..


I have a neighbor who made similar mistake, she believed she is getting old so had to have a child by any means, she got pregnant for a guy who is AS even when she's AS, she's running helter skelter even as we speak, we shouldn't allow selfishness cause us to bring kids into the world to suffer.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by TheZeezle(m): 3:22pm On Apr 22, 2022
You are definitely sick upstairs. Go abort it, SS crisis is not easy... Don't let that boy come to life to feel pain.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 3:32pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

Was it not you that wrote the bolded?

Djriri:
I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OKOATA(m): 3:49pm On Apr 22, 2022
oilmane:



I have a neighbor who made similar mistake, she believed she is getting old so had to have a child by any means, she got pregnant for a guy who is AS even when she's AS, she's running helter skelter even as we speak, we shouldn't allow selfishness cause us to bring kids into the world to suffer.
The kind of pain they feel isn't even a psychological pain o, there's this body pain I just can't explain, the pain stays in their joint, chest, it's like they will start feeling the pains all over like someone beat them with sticks, Its like a torment or some kind of tortue. Taofeek would cry every night before he went to bed, he would fall sick for days, there was no day he was ever ok. Funniest thing he was so intelligent, he would curse and curse his parents. He died while writing jamb. It was so sad. One of my bros friend too would borrow us PS1 CDs then, I aksed my bro he said he just died of sickle cell, I normally go cross my dog with a friend across the street, didn't know he was SS until he died. In a summary SS usually die at the end so what's the point in keeping the baby since the probability he's still gonna die. Why let him pass through the torture and pain .

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by jamesversion: 3:55pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Goat!!! You don't have sense. You want to birth a problem that will drain you both financially and emotionally. You are a complete fool.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Madeu(m): 3:55pm On Apr 22, 2022
Fake story. It never happened. Just to draw traffic to this site

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Firstcitizen: 3:55pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Tales by moonlight evangelist....ABORT!!!!

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by dante0147: 3:56pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

I would advise you abort if it is not more than 3 months!!! But if it's over 3 months and you abort that's Murder!
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Sergio103(m): 3:56pm On Apr 22, 2022
Please I will kindly advice you to abort the baby.

You are about to ruin a life of a kid yet unborn if you don't abort him at this right time??

You are about to put your life to the mood of suffering with heartie if you don't do the right thing now.

Please, abort him.....but seek for forgiveness from the creator
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 3:56pm On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.

Pls you people should stop been overly spiritual here..
Spirituality doesn't solve medical problems.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 22, 2022
How many months the pregnancy is? If it is anything less than four months abort it. We in medical understand better though many will be shouting God forbid but you need to weigh the implications.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by bigpicture001: 3:57pm On Apr 22, 2022
Hospital bills and constant worries will eventually steal ur joy of having a baby...

Do the. Needful and abortat this stage no much emotional connection btw you and. The. U born... So go ahead and make the. Decision
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Wisfem: 3:57pm On Apr 22, 2022
Seek medical advice from a specialist not social advise from online forum okay
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by mrvitalis(m): 3:58pm On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.
And the same God never change Nigeria
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by tammyf: 3:58pm On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:



For serious undecided

Will you be there to help her out in times of crisis?
Change from SS to AS... Why tell yourself lies all in name of trying to be optimistic... undecided
It's possible bro.mine changed from AS to AA after a 3 days fast indoors....I mean total dry fast .no pastor involved ..its in us all to do the impossible but we never harness it based on ignorance and laziness....this is a personal experience bro.i took the challenge when I understood my ex fiancee then was AS and I didn't want to lose her.we r all gods but we know not.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Contagious100d(m): 3:58pm On Apr 22, 2022
Something you know from the inception. There is a way that seems right unto a man. But the end there off is distruction.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Lanretoye(m): 3:58pm On Apr 22, 2022
You narrowly escaped the first one,u come think say u get skills abi.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by 00FFT00(m): 3:59pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Why did he run. Did you impregnate yourself?
Both of you are simply irresponsible.
And you want us to become co-conspirators in the sin you already decided to commit .

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 3:59pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing
The foolishness in this statement is loud. Bringing a sickle cell baby into the world is not horrific? Lol. Enjoy.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by IamV: 3:59pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing


Catholic church joined you two in holy matrimony despite knowing you're both AS ?

I have a girl who is a SS in my compound,and I know the hell she goes through.
I won't wish anyone such experience,truth be told.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Melonny(m): 4:00pm On Apr 22, 2022
To curse you just dey hungry me. It is well. Carry your cross alone.

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