SecretSpy666:
Please share your experiences if you are from Polygamous Family and give advice to those who may be passing through the same challenges right now.

I'm from Polygamous family and the kind of bitter hatred, wickedness and charm my step mother did/doing against me me is terrible. Thank God for saving my life at all times.

complexBoss12:

But marry 3 or more women and everyone wife will mind her business. They are quite aware of serious competition hence each woman will concentrate on taking care of her kids. You as the man becomes the center of attention as the women will only try to pls you, due to the options available to you, here you have a happier home than the first two.

complexBoss12:


But marry 3 or more women and everyone wife will mind her business. They are quite aware of serious competition hence each woman will concentrate on taking care of her kids. You as the man becomes the center of attention as the women will only try to pls you, due to the options available to you, here you have a happier home than the first two.

Reggaemich:
from this man's story, u shared

Have u made up your mind,

In marrying 3 wives

complexBoss12:
I was barely 18 when I met this man, he should be around 55yrs old and married to 3 wives. I worked in a position that made me his Boss, so he talks to me with respect and we discussed matured stuff.

one day he was talking to about me family life and advised me, that if I want to live and enjoy my life, I should marry 3 wives. With these reasons.

That if I married one woman, no matter how good she is, that all women nag, she will deny you sex atimes, quarrels and stuff, because she is all you have.

If I marry 2 women, they will see themselves as rivals because it's only 2 of them. The first wife and her kids will hate you, while the second one struggles for position since the first has gained ground in the family before she came. In the end your home will turn to a war zone, with constant fighting and you as a man will be torn apart, without knowing who to side.

But marry 3 or more women and everyone wife will mind her business. They are quite aware of serious competition hence each woman will concentrate on taking care of her kids. You as the man becomes the center of attention as the women will only try to pls you, due to the options available to you, here you have a happier home than the first two.

jahson19:
What of the one ur mother did against ur step mothers children? Or just because u created topic dat makes u and ur mother innocent?

complexBoss12:


lol, that's the funny part for me. they say men are polygamous, I don't feel it. It takes me time to find someone I like and when I am in a relationship, every other woman look ugly to me.

Every other woman looks ugly to you?... Those were the kind of lines that melted ladies hearts in the olden days and they drew an accurate map of Asian continent with their toes without knowing it... But u and I knows that it's a pure lie

Even Abraham in the good book used those lines on Sarah... until Sarah introduced her maid to him... He didn't say how dare you for long by the way considering how much he loved her...

What you will say and I will believe you is that you have self-control and discipline... Which is very vital in every relationship and anyone that intends to marry should have it... It's the best quality for both men and women to posses..

Self control is the only key that will make u not to unlock the other room because u love and respect your spouse's feelings... Not lying with a smile that every other woman will look ugly to you because you are married...

Her maker did not make her, bestowed upon her all the qualities that u desire and throw the factory key away... ..

There are others too that possess even better qualities, looks and class.. but the best part is you chose her.. that to me does not make other ladies ugly or less attractive so to speak...

Lamanii22:
whatever works for him might not work for you…. Use your head! As for me I cannot share my husband with anybody I am that territorial…. I am from a polygamous home and I tell you it’s a den of madness….

complexBoss12:
I was barely 18 when I met this man, he should be around 55yrs old and married to 3 wives. I worked in a position that made me his Boss, so he talks to me with respect and we discussed matured stuff.

one day he was talking to about me family life and advised me, that if I want to live and enjoy my life, I should marry 3 wives. With these reasons.

That if I married one woman, no matter how good she is, that all women nag, she will deny you sex atimes, quarrels and stuff, because she is all you have.

If I marry 2 women, they will see themselves as rivals because it's only 2 of them. The first wife and her kids will hate you, while the second one struggles for position since the first has gained ground in the family before she came. In the end your home will turn to a war zone, with constant fighting and you as a man will be torn apart, without knowing who to side.

But marry 3 or more women and everyone wife will mind her business. They are quite aware of serious competition hence each woman will concentrate on taking care of her kids. You as the man becomes the center of attention as the women will only try to pls you, due to the options available to you, here you have a happier home than the first two.

Kobojunkie:
Reality of the situation is almost always far from what these men imagine. You should instead work to hear the same story told from the point of view of the children and women in the same marriage.

drmuri:

Territorial.
We done hear
He go shock you.
Better prepare for any eventuality.
Even Yul Edoche wife was territorial.

Reality3080:
guy that man didn't give u d full gist

Anything polygamy will ruin u,let me just give u 2 instances.i don't want to give names cos people might know them

There was one rich man when I was schooling in d south west,he was rich to the extent of building a very large house to accommodate all his family n he even had a very big mosque in d compound that virtually every Muslim in that area go to pray.