So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

Wahala

You should let him know what's on your mind.

You are an Adult or you want Nairalanders to come help you do it.

But on a lighter note, communication is key, get to know his situation first before chasing him.

NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

Speak to him about it... Or simply start to avoid him

Talk to him and desist from creating useless threads.

dawnomike:
Speak to him about it... Or simply start to avoid him

Okay

Damnnn niggar
You are not a real niggar

Connected1:
Wahala

You should let him know what's on your mind.

You are an Adult.

I no won just look wicked

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
You are not a real niggar

Oga na you sabi
Real nigga, na so you dey pack all your real niggas for house abi

NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

Ask him if he doesn't a house of his own. And why he likes spending the night at ur place?

Connected1:
Wahala

You should let him know what's on your mind.

You are an Adult or you want Nairalanders to come help you do it.

But on a lighter note, communication is key, get to know his situation first before chasing him.

Hmm ok

another wandaful GAY STORY of NL... see this one! your gay lover comes every night to sleep in your bed, you are here opening mouth bla bla bla!

Tell him as it is

Lol

Tell him your sister is coming by and you wouldn't be allowing male visitors.

He'll feel you are pursuing him...yes, that's what he ought to feel!

MrBrownJay1:
another wandaful GAY STORY of NL... see this one! your gay lover comes every night to sleep in your bed, you are here opening mouth bla bla bla!

Boss I'm not gay. I can never be one

chatinent:
Lol

Tell him your sister is coming by and you wouldn't be allowing male visitors.

He'll feel you are pursuing him...yes, that's what he ought to feel!

Lol ok I'll try this one

NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

who still allow strangers to come spend the night at his/house in this wicked time.

wait until he slaughter you in your own room before you know you will tell him direct to stop coming to your house.

Stay dey do gentle man.

NewSoul:
Boss I'm not gay. I can never be one

yet some dude you just met 3 weeks ago (having "late chat" ) comes and sleep in your bed every night and share pillow.....are you ok?!?!?
what kind of tutti frutti nonsense is this?!

MrBrownJay1:


yet some dude you just met 3 weeks ago (having "late chat" ) comes and sleep in your bed every night and share pillow.....are you ok?!?!?
what kind of tutti frutti nonsense is this?!

I have known him for long. A childhood acquaintance

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a leech of a friend

Lol reminds me of hostel squatters

Ebi like you go stingy o. Just joking.

If you can't tolerate it and can't bluntly tell him so you won't seem confrontational,then look for subtle ways to pass the message to him. If he has some dignity he should get the message.

Always be wary of people you barely know feeling so comfortable and coming too close around you. Most times, they are after something and once they get it, they disappear...please be observant. Don't feel so relaxed about this guy.
Myself, once I meet new people, I tend to observe their personality and once we don't match, especially if you are the overly friendly type that is always seeking for people's faces, I tend to avoid such people because they are always green snakes.

NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

Hmmmmmm mehn e choke
Bring ur babe or invite ur babe over...
Friendships issue mehn nobody knows tomorrow.
Infact no comment

OP, why don't you open up to him in a friendly chat!

Going to a friend's house to eat, does not mean that you don't have food in your house...na friendship dey cause am!

The guy go dey think say, u be better person..not knowing that, you are a sellout

NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

Oga sorry oO...You ended up giving your readers serious warnings instead of your pal

Amazing

Before he show today buy the following

Pure blood red bedsheet and pillow case... If you can't see, buy material and see...
Spread am on the mattress...
Buy extra material for cover cloth....

You will tell him that both of you must sleep on the bed and use the cover cloth

Pure red towel.... Replace your towel...

Buy calabash put am for toilet


Come back here and testify

NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

Remember say you go die someday ooh..that your personal pillow and bed space go become public property..

I remember one of my friends doing, i had to inform him straight that he can't stay spend another night here, till now the guy don turn me to enemy

graphicszr:
I remember one of my friends doing, i had to inform him straight that he can't stay spend another night here, till now the guy don turn me to enemy

Lol I have actually done this kind of thing at school. He just entered me without permission as a roommate o. No info on how long he wants to stay or if he'll be pay half of the rent to officially be my roommate. He con dey behave anyhow again. Dey invite person come stay without my permission for room wey e no contribute shishi. Na wetin make me change am tell am say dude u don overstay your welcome o come dey go. Till today we be enemies too lol