LilNetty:
I wonder how first Born cope with the situation of the country at the moment in terms of financial assistance from younger ones nd the family expecially the married men which wil have to cater for the wife, children, nd other extended families....

Michelle55:
I'm coping well all thanks to my parents who don't disturb me for anything, mom sometimes calls to ask if I need monetary assistance sef
That woman won't stop amazing me!

Medianna:

For mum to knock on your door it mean you're still wanting.
They keep quite doesn't mean they don't need it.
Na just of recent I get that sense. Am not a first childdo

I'm not wanting babe that's the kinda treatment you get when you're the first and last they've got, they keep insisting that I'm still a child, I no kuku get strength to argue with dem.

Michelle55:

I'm not wanting babe that's the kinda treatment you get when you're the first and last they've got, they keep insisting that I'm still a child, I no kuku get strength to argue with dem.

Medianna:

You dont have to flaunt it like indian hair
Just say you're an only child

Ewooo.. Which one is indian hair again kwanu? kuku kee me

akaahs:
Walahi e no easy. Sometimes, I just sit and close my eyes and wish things to just fall in place but hell no, things are getting hotter by the day. Thank ASUU are on strike, my younger brother and our last born are in 500L and 100L respectively, I don't know where the money ll come out to settle their school fees, accommodation and pocket money. The other one is about to finish his NCE, no money for his project. The other just got admitted into a college of education and I managed to settle him to start off with my house rent, now the landlord is on my neck. My wife ll be due in 3 months, I have not buy anything for the baby yet.
My dad died 17 years ago, my mom was retired compulsory without a single dim since 2017 and we are 7

missimelda01:
Please squeeze 1million in my hand because it’s not easy …being a first child without a father is harrddd!

The good part is that it pushes you to do more, most first child turn out to be successful.

Michelle55:
I'm coping well all thanks to my parents who don't disturb me for anything, mom sometimes calls to ask if I need monetary assistance sef
That woman won't stop amazing me!

bdchange:

Woww..this is wonderful. Kudos to them. As for your mother, some are like that. Whenever I give my mom money, she will even be telling me, hope she is not bothering me. Sometimes she will want to return from the little I gave her. I will just laught it off..

bdchange:

Hmmm, this what I try to explain to people when you bring in children you can not take care of. Your Dad does not have an estate yet continue giving birth to multitude. He is no more now, you guys are bearing the brunt. The funny part is that some of your siblings will have small change tomorrow and continue in that circle. Africans circulate poverty not wealth, atleast we are very good at that. Just do your best and leave the rest, because if you die, they will continue their life.

akaahs:

I warned my mom when she gave birth to the fifth child to stop birthing as we many considering their source of income, she responded by saying by God grace they are capable of taking care of us. Sometimes, I don't pity her and most times she do annoyed me.
I always tell them that, the person who fertilize the egg is no more and they are living talk more of me, if I die today they ll become what God wants them. So no need of killing myself.
I only planned of getting 2 children but my wife is insist on 4 kids, I told her if she's not learning on what am passing through, then she is insensitive.

Michelle55:

It can be annoying sometimes you know, I could remember her calling to ask if I need money to buy Christmas wears one xmas period like that, omo na so I weak cos she was on loud speaker that day. My friends couldn't stop laughing at me.
I asked her if she realized how old I am and that I'm capable of taking care of myself, she said she knows but that doesn't reduce the fact that I'm still her baby no matter how old I get, na so I kuku keep kwayet and let her do her wish.

bdchange:

Let me shock you, when I became a youth and I visited my Mom. She asked me that who is washing my clothes. She asked if I could be bringing them for her to be washing for me, so it won't disturb my work. I swear I don't know where to start laughing from. In my mind this woman, still think I am a baby..funny mothers

Glad you can relate bro, I don kuku let myself get used to her pampering. No be me say make God bless me with an angel as a mother.

Michelle55:

Glad you can relate bro, I don kuku let myself get used to her pampering. No be me say make God bless me with an angel as a mother.

bdchange:

Lolz...my immediate sister is always jealous that my Mom pampers me too much. Hope u are not in my shoe?

Michelle55:

Lucky you! You've got siblings but I don't, ain't sharing the attention with anyone else.

bdchange:

Lolz..imagine you..then u are saying I am lucky when it is only you enjoying the palliatives mama is dishing out..I wish I was in your position, butterfly would have lived in my stomach.

Lol.. You think it's easy to be in my position too? Life no balance true true, here I am wishing I've got one sibling and there you are wishing to switch positions with me
Omo eh, I weak with this ya wish

Michelle55:

Lol.. You think it's easy to be in my position too? Life no balance true true, here I am wishing I've got one sibling and there you are wishing to switch positions with me
Omo eh, I weak with this ya wish

akaahs:

I warned my mom when she gave birth to the fifth child to stop birthing as we many considering their source of income, she responded by saying by God grace they are capable of taking care of us. Sometimes, I don't pity her and most times she do annoyed me.
I always tell them that, the person who fertilize the egg is no more and they are living talk more of me, if I die today they ll become what God wants them. So no need of killing myself.
I only planned of getting 2 children but my wife is insist on 4 kids, I told her if she's not learning on what am passing through, then she is insensitive.